Scorpio guy checking up on me? Should I reach out?

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by cap2333 on Wednesday, March 22, 2017 and has 4 replies.
I was seeing this Scorpio guy back in December, he was dream guy material I thought we hit it off really well. He was very charming and smooth, made great eye contact had amazing focus I absolutely loved it when he looked at me. We went out on my birthday, invited me to his work events and introduced me to his friends and we all spent Christmas together. Then he invited me to his house but tried nothing, we never even kissed (and he sat so far from me that I couldn't even attempt anything). I invited him out several times after that but got nothing and eventually gave up. Tried one last time to reach out to him again at the beginning of last month and we were supposed to make plans but he never got back to me about his availability and I didn't want to bother him about it, if he wanted to see me he would've gotten back to me. So I figured whatever I'm done trying I gave it my best he's obviously not into me anymore and moved on. But Saturday I noticed he had watched all my Instagram stories, which normally I wouldn't think means anything but he's not following me. So he had to deliberately type in my account and search for me then watch all my stories. It made me wonder if he was thinking of me and maybe I should reach out to give it another try? But at the same time I think well he knows where to find me if he wants to see me he knows how to reach me. Does anyone have any thoughts or insight into what he maybe feeling? Afterall why is he the one checking up on me when he was the one who didn't seem to care? Did I possibly misinterpret something? Thanks in advance!
let um chase, we love to chase..
An unequivocal no
He could just have creepy stalker tendencies. Could be kind of a peeping Tom. If he could've had you in his life easily and froze you out, that tells me he decided against the relationship. If he continues to lurk in the shadows and keep an eye on your life, that's not necessarily a sign that he cares deep down.

Message him and tell him to stop stalking your Instagram. Put it like a joke if you want. See how he responds.

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