Scorpio guy says there is something about you

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then walks away. WTF is that supposed to mean? He said it softly and quietly. I didn't have the balls to ask him about it. I need some balls.
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YES!!! I know, but still I'm wondering what it means or could mean. I need something to build my confidence to talk to him. If this could be taken as something like a compliment, I'd feel more comfortable.
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Did he giggle?
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Posted by DMV
Did he giggle?



no he didn't giggle. He was serious, soft and quite.
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definitely a compliment.....
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Posted by Impulsv
Yes it is a compliment lol



so, I should take it as a sign he likes me?
I have this scenario all planned like on the last day. I'll accidently run into him look up at him and give him a gentle kiss on the lips and it be magically like the movies.
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Whats ur sign?
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Posted by DMV
Whats ur sign?


I'm also a scorpio
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Posted by Chowfun92
Posted by Impulsv
Yes it is a compliment lol



so, I should take it as a sign he likes me?
I have this scenario all planned like on the last day. I'll accidently run into him look up at him and give him a gentle kiss on the lips and it be magically like the movies.
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Oh lawd......honestly, I can't help but *smile* though. Moving on....
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Posted by PhoenixRising
Posted by Chowfun92
Posted by Impulsv
Yes it is a compliment lol



so, I should take it as a sign he likes me?
I have this scenario all planned like on the last day. I'll accidently run into him look up at him and give him a gentle kiss on the lips and it be magically like the movies.


Oh lawd......honestly, I can't help but *smile* though. Moving on....
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I know, isn't it cute how enamored I am. I'm NEVER like this. I don't know what it is about this guy. Are scorpio/scorpio attraction more powerful than usual? I think someone put a spell on me or something.
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hes practicing his game on you. Compliment a girl then walk away is a tactic.. hes trying to set you up to chase him.
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Posted by exoskeleton
Posted by Chowfun92
Posted by DMV
Whats ur sign?


I'm also a scorpio


and a horrid example of one.
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I guess I haven't come into my scorpio ness how do I?
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Posted by CocoKat
hes practicing his game on you. Compliment a girl then walk away is a tactic.. hes trying to set you up to chase him.


Call me naive, call me old fashion, but why would he want me to chase him? I thought scorpio males were up front about their attraction and pursued a woman with the quickness.
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But he didn't talk to me after that. So it confused me more than anything
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I don't want to play stupid. I'm honestly confused. I never really had a bf before.
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Posted by Chowfun92
Posted by CocoKat
hes practicing his game on you. Compliment a girl then walk away is a tactic.. hes trying to set you up to chase him.


Call me naive, call me old fashion, but why would he want me to chase him? I thought scorpio males were up front about their attraction and pursued a woman with the quickness.
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its MEANT to confuse you... starts with confusion, has you wondering and thinking and he will do something else strange next time you see him.
Scorpios who are genuine about their like or love for someone (not neccesarily attraction) do persue, they game the other ones... Makes it easy to have ladies chasing after you and you don't have to lift a finger. If you read all the threads of ladies persuing guys on this forum you'll see it very rarely works out no matter how hard everyone says keep chasing... this is how it all starts. Be wise my friend.
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So he doesn't like me. He's just using me.
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Yes sir thanks for the confirmation.. Listen to Getmisted man who knows it and doesn't pretend otherwise.
If he really likes you he will take the time to speak with you and get to know you if he does something else to throw you off track hes playin...
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Alright, then I won't waste my time with him. He's playin and I don't knew why. I mean really what's the point? What does he get out of being elusive?
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he gets you to chase him feeds his ego, hes got a girl whos got a crush on him, possible sex partner if hes partly attracted, attention, someone to shame and tease (if hes mean), someone to use to attract the girl he genuinely likes, a groupie...
Guys love this bullshit.
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I wouldn't be assertive, I would tease him right back! LOL>
he WANTS you to be assertive and share your feelings, makes it easy for him.. wait and WATCH him disappear if you do only to reappear and play again...
Ive found ignoring works the best, being a lil teasy and bitchy back, DONT CHASE HIM... Im telling you you'll be one of the statistics here on this forum.
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the more you chase, the more he will run...
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Posted by CocoKat
he gets you to chase him feeds his ego, hes got a girl whos got a crush on him, possible sex partner if hes partly attracted, attention, someone to shame and tease (if hes mean), someone to use to attract the girl he genuinely likes, a groupie...
Guys love this bullshit.


The thing about it is that he was baiting me before I even knew who he was. He would say little mean things to me, probably to get my attention or react. I DIDNT.
Later I was having a conversation with a male coworker, and he interrupted us and then proceeded to be rude to me. When he WASNT even part of the convo, nor did I say anything worthy of being rude. He basically shut me down.
I IGNORED HIM and he questioned what was the problem and was super nice after that (crazy much) I went back to being regular and he then was rude to me again out of NOWHERE. I confronted him on it and he smiled and laughed. He then was nice to me. Then we start teasing each other. Then he says those words to me like there is something about me...blah blah.
I never showed that I liked him. Maybe now it's showing but its recent like I only started breaking like Tuesday. Lol
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Why tease him, if he's trying to PLAY me and he doesn't like me at all? Isn't that setting me up for failure?
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Posted by Chowfun92
Posted by CocoKat
he gets you to chase him feeds his ego, hes got a girl whos got a crush on him, possible sex partner if hes partly attracted, attention, someone to shame and tease (if hes mean), someone to use to attract the girl he genuinely likes, a groupie...
Guys love this bullshit.


The thing about it is that he was baiting me before I even knew who he was. He would say little mean things to me, probably to get my attention or react. I DIDNT.
Later I was having a conversation with a male coworker, and he interrupted us and then proceeded to be rude to me. When he WASNT even part of the convo, nor did I say anything worthy of being rude. He basically shut me down.
I IGNORED HIM and he questioned what was the problem and was super nice after that (crazy much) I went back to being regular and he then was rude to me again out of NOWHERE. I confronted him on it and he smiled and laughed. He then was nice to me. Then we start teasing each other. Then he says those words to me like there is something about me...blah blah.
I never showed that I liked him. Maybe now it's showing but its recent like I only started breaking like Tuesday. Lol
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Good job ignoring himv for being rude that's not acceptable, teasing is one thing being rude is another... you stated Maybe now its showing? So you do like him... see his game worked on you.
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btw, its a "get her to chase you" tactic he used so you can recognize it in the future
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Posted by Chowfun92
Why tease him, if he's trying to PLAY me and he doesn't like me at all? Isn't that setting me up for failure?


You don't know if he doesn't like you.. he may like you. If he is SERIOUS though he will quit with the games, when I say tease him back its to get him wondering and scratching his head, works wonders, you'll flip the script Winking
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Posted by Chowfun92
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he gets you to chase him feeds his ego, hes got a girl whos got a crush on him, possible sex partner if hes partly attracted, attention, someone to shame and tease (if hes mean), someone to use to attract the girl he genuinely likes, a groupie...
Guys love this bullshit.


The thing about it is that he was baiting me before I even knew who he was. He would say little mean things to me, probably to get my attention or react. I DIDNT.
Later I was having a conversation with a male coworker, and he interrupted us and then proceeded to be rude to me. When he WASNT even part of the convo, nor did I say anything worthy of being rude. He basically shut me down.
I IGNORED HIM and he questioned what was the problem and was super nice after that (crazy much) I went back to being regular and he then was rude to me again out of NOWHERE. I confronted him on it and he smiled and laughed. He then was nice to me. Then we start teasing each other. Then he says those words to me like there is something about me...blah blah.
I never showed that I liked him. Maybe now it's showing but its recent like I only started breaking like Tuesday. Lol


Good job ignoring himv for being rude that's not acceptable, teasing is one thing being rude is another... you stated Maybe now its showing? So you do like him... see his game worked on you.
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Okay so his plan worked. He baited me and I took it. So how do I throw it back in his face? I just don't get it. A guy or anyone for that manner, why would they go out their way to be a dick and play games when you DONT like me. I know he is ATTRACTED to me. I caught him staring at my body multiple times. He also did that stare shit. So I'm confused at his behavior. I want to at least be his friend. I don't know how BC he does this weird shit. He probably doesn't take me seriously or just wants to use me.
I want to turn the tables on him, how do I do that?
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Posted by CocoKat
btw, its a "get her to chase you" tactic he used so you can recognize it in the future


THANKS! I'm SO naive! It's not even funny. I will recognize it in the future. I will ignore or tease him tomorrow. I'll have him guessing.
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Posted by Chowfun92
Posted by CocoKat
btw, its a "get her to chase you" tactic he used so you can recognize it in the future


THANKS! I'm SO naive! It's not even funny. I will recognize it in the future. I will ignore or tease him tomorrow. I'll have him guessing.
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Posted by Impulsv
Yes it is a compliment lol



so, I should take it as a sign he likes me?
I have this scenario all planned like on the last day. I'll accidently run into him look up at him and give him a gentle kiss on the lips and it be magically like the movies.
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Whatever you do DONT do this...

((((shudder))))
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Posted by CocoKat
Posted by Chowfun92
Posted by Impulsv
Yes it is a compliment lol



so, I should take it as a sign he likes me?
I have this scenario all planned like on the last day. I'll accidently run into him look up at him and give him a gentle kiss on the lips and it be magically like the movies.


Whatever you do DONT do this...

((((shudder))))
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Lmao that was before I knew he was playing me and also that was a daydream...definitely not reality.
So for the scorpio make teasing and pretending like you don't like him is the key to peaking his interest.
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Posted by Chowfun92
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Posted by CocoKat
btw, its a "get her to chase you" tactic he used so you can recognize it in the future


THANKS! I'm SO naive! It's not even funny. I will recognize it in the future. I will ignore or tease him tomorrow. I'll have him guessing.
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no don't pretend you don't like him.. the secret is two flip the script and do what hes doing (but I wouldn't be rude to anyone lol) keep him turned on then second guessing, then scratching his head EXACTLY like hes doing to you.. it worked on you and I guarantee if you're cool about it will work back. People practice their own tactics on you. By playing with you the way he did he showed what it takes to GET HIM (reverse psychology).
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that's playing.. not being direct using a strategy to "get her attention and get her close" he could've just talked to her.
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Posted by CocoKat
that's playing.. not being direct using a strategy to "get her attention and get her close" he could've just talked to her.


Okay so he does like me; that's just his way. I get it now. I'll reel him in how he reeled me in. We are both SCORPIOS I know how he works..to a point.
Also the other day, I spoke to him. I was basically cordial, hello and how are you. Instead of directly responding first he laugh and I inquire why he laughed and he goes I'm surprised I thought you didn't like me.
Is this part of his mind game? I mean just because I great you doesn't mean I like you. It means I'm respectful.
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Posted by GetMisted
Posted by Chowfun92
Why tease him, if he's trying to PLAY me and he doesn't like me at all? Isn't that setting me up for failure?


I said it's a pickup line.. Nothing more. It doesn't mean he's trying to play her. Just get her attention and get her close.
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I think I'm seeing what he's doing. He does the same thing that I do. I see our similarities a bit. His approach is different from any male I've come across.
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No guys are doing this all the time.. Ive had a number of guys try this approach on me when I was younger even now and Im 40. Its old school because it usually works (his play even had you fantasizing about walking up to him and kissing him lol). What he wont be expecting is you're flipping the script..lol. Don't get over involved because you don't know HOW much he likes you, you don't want to waste your time on someone whos just practicing on you.. also don't talk to him first or you'll get set up for the "ignore" game. Always wait for him to approach for the green light then fire away....
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Posted by CocoKat
No guys are doing this all the time.. Ive had a number of guys try this approach on me when I was younger even now and Im 40. Its old school because it usually works (his play even had you fantasizing about walking up to him and kissing him lol). What he wont be expecting is you're flipping the script..lol. Don't get over involved because you don't know HOW much he likes you, you don't want to waste your time on someone whos just practicing on you.. also don't talk to him first or you'll get set up for the "ignore" game. Always wait for him to approach for the green light then fire away....


Alright I'll wait. He's baiting me...I can see it now. First he was rude to get me to realize his exisistance. Then he backtracked and was nice to ease the burn. Then he said little things like there's something about you or w.e. To get me thinking and BAM!
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that's playing.. not being direct using a strategy to "get her attention and get her close" he could've just talked to her.


Look.. With everyday people, whom I'm not close with.. I only give them so much. They don't get everything. Getting all of me puts me in a vulnerable position. No room to negotiate. In my eyes.. a potential mate is everyday people. She means nothing to me yet. She doesn't get everything. He gets bits and pieces until she bites. Only then am I upfront and honest with my intentions.
You call it "playing".
I call it due diligence.

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so its OK for you to be rude and tease like that since she means "nothing to me yet" and "she doesn't get everything" Shes gotta "bite" first....lol then your "honest and upfront with your intentions" which is where you lose interest since shes already chasing, ladies that's the "bite" first so he can further game you possibly disappear happens. This is where guys advise to "be assertive" (translation is be stupid and chase) its a setup.
sounds like a bunch of gamey bs to me to get girls you treat poorly with this game to chase you...
Ladies pay REAL attention here.
Another reason why I recommend not to chase.
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Posted by Chowfun92
Posted by CocoKat
No guys are doing this all the time.. Ive had a number of guys try this approach on me when I was younger even now and Im 40. Its old school because it usually works (his play even had you fantasizing about walking up to him and kissing him lol). What he wont be expecting is you're flipping the script..lol. Don't get over involved because you don't know HOW much he likes you, you don't want to waste your time on someone whos just practicing on you.. also don't talk to him first or you'll get set up for the "ignore" game. Always wait for him to approach for the green light then fire away....


Alright I'll wait. He's baiting me...I can see it now. First he was rude to get me to realize his exisistance. Then he backtracked and was nice to ease the burn. Then he said little things like there's something about you or w.e. To get me thinking and BAM!
You GOT it!

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i got it now. He's attracted to me sexually no more no less. He baited me in a way to get me to notice him. He baits then drops baits then drops. It's kind of like that dollar on a string trick. It's easier for me to understand it that way.

How long does this tit for tat last?
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Posted by Chowfun92
i got it now. He's attracted to me sexually no more no less. He baited me in a way to get me to notice him. He baits then drops baits then drops. It's kind of like that dollar on a string trick. It's easier for me to understand it that way.

How long does this tit for tat last?


If hes not serious about you for more than sex or attention it can go on indefinitely. One girl I knew had a guy at work do this on her for 4 YEARS! She was so heartsick over him she couldn't date anyone else and he had multiple relationships the whole time, yet he always managed to lead her on.
If he is serious about you he will begin to treat you respectfully and make a point of talking with you, getting to know you, asking you out etc.
Ive been involved in both of the above scenarios.
If you work together be careful with you're reputation here.
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Our job is over soon. I'm just hoping we can exchange numbers or something by the time it's over.
Also he asked for my snap chat a bit back and I said no, lol I hope that I played his own game against him. I hope he was shocked internally bc he didn't show it on the outside
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that's playing.. not being direct using a strategy to "get her attention and get her close" he could've just talked to her.


Look.. With everyday people, whom I'm not close with.. I only give them so much. They don't get everything. Getting all of me puts me in a vulnerable position. No room to negotiate. In my eyes.. a potential mate is everyday people. She means nothing to me yet. She doesn't get everything. He gets bits and pieces until she bites. Only then am I upfront and honest with my intentions.
You call it "playing".
I call it due diligence.



so its OK for you to be rude and tease like that since she means "nothing to me yet" and "she doesn't get everything" Shes gotta "bite" first....lol then your "honest and upfront with your intentions" which is where you lose interest since shes already chasing, ladies that's the "bite" first so he can further game you possibly disappear happens. This is where guys advise to "be assertive" (translation is be stupid and chase) its a setup.
sounds like a bunch of gamey bs to me to get girls you treat poorly with this game to chase you...
Ladies pay REAL attention here.
Another reason why I recommend not to chase.


You're making a lot of assumptions about me.
I never said be rude. I do not condone that. But the OP also hasn't clarified what "rude" things he has said.
In my personal experience on DXP, and more importantly on the Scorpio board dealing with threads about Scorpio men.. When more information is pulled out of a OP severely lacking in detail, the more we see that it's all in the OPs imagination.
I have no intention of using it to hurt anyone. It will last a couple of weeks, and then I'll pounce if I get the reaction I'm looking for. If not, I will back off myself.
So before you lump all tactics, and all men together.. kindly fuck off.
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Nope, I don't have a FANTASTIC Scorpio man here with me now, I love the good ones, not the ones who say "fuck" off to women that's just plain rude.
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Posted by Chowfun92
Our job is over soon. I'm just hoping we can exchange numbers or something by the time it's over.
Also he asked for my snap chat a bit back and I said no, lol I hope that I played his own game against him. I hope he was shocked internally bc he didn't show it on the outside


Im not sure what snap chat is but you don't want to "play him at his own game" to the point of a losing competition for ego gratification if there is any possibility of something occurring between you two.
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Im scratching my head to your comment on Chowfuns other thread "oldest trick in the book" to his teasing her and then her telling her he is not "playing" its the wrong interpretation?
Anyways Chowfun if you pm me I'll send you some links to the explain the tricks and games you've recently experienced.
Xo!
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@Scorpio chick..
You keep on talking how you ignored him. However, you did make a topic on dxp. So no matter how much you ignored him in real life, he still triggered something in you.
As far as baiting goes, that's what people do in attraction/dating all the time. You want to see a reaction of someone you're into because otherwise you're barking up the wrong tree. So bait isn't exclusively for sex or for playing you, it's used to gauge an emotional reaction. Like say, you ignoring him but totally overthinking it behind the scenes. This would be you baiting him to draw him closer by playing it cool. It really doesn't have to be nefarious all the time and it's not tied into games always.
If there was a rapport established between you in real life, you wouldn't even think of bait and games.
Take into consideration what GetMisted and Whatu said. Phoenix gave you a good course of action in the other topic.
Or just fall back on the "men are players, they all use games for sex and that's it" mindset and call it a day.
^Take everything I said with a grain of salt because I'm not a Scorpio.
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I don't get WHY its always expected the woman takes "a course of action" everytime she is played, ignored, teased, baited etc... it puts her in a terrible position of being further played, teased, ignored, baited etc. to no end and he gets rewarded for it?
In my life Once a man is truly into you they step up to the plate to speak respectfully, ask questions, ask you out, smile etc. Ive seen this happen after the teasing if the female doesn't ruin it by chasing him, otherwise you run the risk of looking ridiculous and being humiliated especially at work.
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you cant expect a guy to respond to you maturely by "taking the reigns" (like a man) once this whole teasing, baiting games begins.
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