Scorpio Guy, Taurus Girl. Scorpio is hot & cold!

Hello,

Into a 20 year old Scorpio guy at work. I’m a 25 year old Taurus woman. Some days he openly flirts with me and I with him and some times I feel like he’s just not into me (he’s not that great at flirting since he has a Virgo Venus and cap mars) but he’s said some very flirty things in relation to sex especially and he’s always kind and polite towards me. I notice how he always seems to be in a spot where he can keep eyes on me. He just recently started walking out with me after work is over to the car. There was a Christmas party recently where he kept asking a close friend of mine if I was on the way (multiple times) I get there and he says nothing to me. He then proceeds to flirt with a coworker from work in front of me and then when it’s time to go, he looks at me and says his Uber left. I was butthurt by the flirting he was doing but my Capricorn moon won’t let me show it so I just pleasantly asked a mutual female friend if she lived close by his home, she said yes and I eluded to her taking him home, he hugged me (for the first time)and I left. The next day he seemed like he wasn’t in the best of moods and was kind of short with me and now for the past 3 days he’s been getting off work exactly when I do and we walk to our cars in the parking lot. I feel like our cat and mouse game is exhausting but my Aries Mars is intrigued. I feel like because I’m older, he’s never gonna make a move. What to do? Here are our placements:

Me:

Taurus sun

Cap moon

Taurus Venus

Aries mars

Him:

Scorpio sun

Cancer moon

Virgo Venus

Cap mars

I understand what you're talking about. A Scorpio I am into also does that. I think it is the opposition in your suns and moons that is making you feel that he is hot and cold. His flirting with your coworker was a blatantly obvious way to get your attention.

With my Scorpio there is an opposition between his sun and my moon, so no matter the fact that I understand that his actions are kinda like his own way of flirting, it still doesn't make me feel wanted enough.

I believe earth venuses and mars' move forward REALLY slow. It is your choice if you want to wait it out until he comes forth in a clear manner.

Anyways, a Scorpio would be discouraged by desperate attention on your part, I guess.

It may be that you are mistaking his friendliness for flirtation.

Only way to find out is to invite him out for an after work drink. Be friendly but don’t overdo it. Check the vibe once he gets some liquor in him.

That way if it’s strickly friends you can walk away with your dignity in tact since your gonna have to see him on Monday

Posted by helenaqua

I understand what you're talking about. A Scorpio I am into also does that. I think it is the opposition in your suns and moons that is making you feel that he is hot and cold. His flirting with your coworker was a blatantly obvious way to get your attention.

With my Scorpio there is an opposition between his sun and my moon, so no matter the fact that I understand that his actions are kinda like his own way of flirting, it still doesn't make me feel wanted enough.

I believe earth venuses and mars' move forward REALLY slow. It is your choice if you want to wait it out until he comes forth in a clear manner.

Anyways, a Scorpio would be discouraged by desperate attention on your part, I guess.

Exactly! I feel this same way. It’s not enough! It’s too subtle. He told me he’ll finally get a day off on Christmas and I asked him what he was gonna be doing and he said “I don’t know, probably masturbating” and laughed. I don’t get him. Ugh lol

Posted by LadyNeptune

It may be that you are mistaking his friendliness for flirtation.

Only way to find out is to invite him out for an after work drink. Be friendly but don’t overdo it. Check the vibe once he gets some liquor in him.

That way if it’s strickly friends you can walk away with your dignity in tact since your gonna have to see him on Monday

Yeah, maybe.. he’s elluded to getting my number and things and has flirted with me very sexually so I’m not sure. 🤷🏽‍♀️

Posted by Impulsv

Posted by daughterofvenus

Posted by helenaqua

I understand what you're talking about. A Scorpio I am into also does that. I think it is the opposition in your suns and moons that is making you feel that he is hot and cold. His flirting with your coworker was a blatantly obvious way to get your attention.

With my Scorpio there is an opposition between his sun and my moon, so no matter the fact that I understand that his actions are kinda like his own way of flirting, it still doesn't make me feel wanted enough.

I believe earth venuses and mars' move forward REALLY slow. It is your choice if you want to wait it out until he comes forth in a clear manner.

Anyways, a Scorpio would be discouraged by desperate attention on your part, I guess.

Exactly! I feel this same way. It’s not enough! It’s too subtle. He told me he’ll finally get a day off on Christmas and I asked him what he was gonna be doing and he said “I don’t know, probably masturbating” and laughed. I don’t get him. Ugh lol

Omg hes got no skills lol

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Right? He’s totally a 20 year old. 🙄

Posted by DrinkWater

Uh oh.

Elaborate on the uh oh? 😅😅😅