Scorpio Just want to Kiss?
This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by BlueAqua on Friday, February 24, 2006 and has 6 replies.
ok so everyone knows im dating a scorpio. Our very first kiss he says he was in a daze and actually sat in his truck not believing how good it was. He says he wanted to chase me down to get another. (Aqua's are good at this*wink*wink) He's never asked me for anything physical he's been a complete gentleman so far, actually sex has never really come up in our conversation. He flirts with me over the phone but thats about it. Every since i kissed him this is all he wants. He will call me up and ask me to meet him just to get a kiss. Something not right about this
DB, yes it was good on my end i think its better for him though. I've just never seena guy that wants to kiss all the time and never brings up anything else physically. I mean im not ready to take it to that next physical level, but i wondering is he that much of a gentlemen? or is their a possibility of him being bisexual?. Mayb im reading to much into this. Does steroids take the libido away?
Ha ha haha of course he wants more... he IS telling you lol Kissing leads the way, we'll see what starts to happen with more kissing later on lol
BlueAqua,
From my own personal experiennce with Scorpios, and I have had a few of these, it is true that they may just want to kiss - for a while - maybe a long while, until they make up their mind about the next step.
But also, they want to 'dissect' your personality, and see your reaction, i.e. test you and think deep about what has taken place, and where HE wants to go from there.
He will visualize all sorts of scenarios, such as, what next? what if she wants 'commitment'? Am I ready ?
He may just think too long for your own good, and decide that HE is not ready for 'commitment', and will back off. Or give himself more time, by going out with you and indulging in some more sensual pleasures.
Meanwhile, you may think that this is 'love', 'true love'; why else would he not want to jump into the sack. He must really be unique and selective.
Until one day, he will shock you with something like: 'I am going away for a while. I will keep in touch". Or " my ex-wife ( fiance, girlfriend ) had contacted me today, and I need to get in touch with her ( he never had a stable one, let alone NEED to get in touch, etc...blah blah )
Bottom line, if your friend will only stop there, and only 'talk' talk' talk', I am not sure he is worth your time and trouble. He will exhaust you to death. Some men and way too selfish. Oh did I also say 'sadistic'
Better after a while, put your best foot forward and ask him clearly what how he thinks of you and him and your relationship, and hear well what he has to say.
Accordingly, you will want to decide to either call it quits, find a more 'adventurous' 'impuslive' beau, or commit to him, but the latter in my humble opinion is a remote probablity. And if you are ready to go out with him for month, maybe years in a row without even him talking about marriage, I think you may want to consider knowing now, before it's too late, and when it would be very hard to call it quits
It's up to you
Let us know how this works.
From my own personal experiennce with Scorpios, and I have had a few of these, it is true that they may just want to kiss - for a while - maybe a long while, until they make up their mind about the next step.
But also, they want to 'dissect' your personality, and see your reaction, i.e. test you and think deep about what has taken place, and where HE wants to go from there.
He will visualize all sorts of scenarios, such as, what next? what if she wants 'commitment'? Am I ready ?
He may just think too long for your own good, and decide that HE is not ready for 'commitment', and will back off. Or give himself more time, by going out with you and indulging in some more sensual pleasures.
Meanwhile, you may think that this is 'love', 'true love'; why else would he not want to jump into the sack. He must really be unique and selective.
Until one day, he will shock you with something like: 'I am going away for a while. I will keep in touch". Or " my ex-wife ( fiance, girlfriend ) had contacted me today, and I need to get in touch with her ( he never had a stable one, let alone NEED to get in touch, etc...blah blah )
Bottom line, if your friend will only stop there, and only 'talk' talk' talk', I am not sure he is worth your time and trouble. He will exhaust you to death. Some men and way too selfish. Oh did I also say 'sadistic'
Better after a while, put your best foot forward and ask him clearly what how he thinks of you and him and your relationship, and hear well what he has to say.
Accordingly, you will want to decide to either call it quits, find a more 'adventurous' 'impuslive' beau, or commit to him, but the latter in my humble opinion is a remote probablity. And if you are ready to go out with him for month, maybe years in a row without even him talking about marriage, I think you may want to consider knowing now, before it's too late, and when it would be very hard to call it quits
It's up to you
Let us know how this works.
CapGrl, wow you've given me somethings to think about. Since that last post he has asked me to be one with him, (Tauruschic was right lol) But untill there is a Relationship established (sex) wont happen. He says that relationship happens in steps of course,he has catagorized it as Friends,Special Friends(with benefits),Exclusively boyfriend and girlfriend,To marriage. Oneday he's telling me he wants to see me Everday, then the next time i feel like maybe he take two steps back. Maybe its the sex that's missing from this sorta relationship of ours, maybe not. Its been 6 months of dating, maybe when/if we're together(sex) it will bring us closer and maybe he want a relationship or maybe not, either way i just enjoy our spending time together,i will let you know what happens; )
You know what, I had a male Scorpio friend who had a girlfriend but he asked me if he could kiss me atleast once, I said no though, but I think male Scorpios do like to kiss alot, Im female Scorpio but I think I'd go more than just a kiss if I love someone..
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