Posted by AdmiralI am sorry if a fact I came across against your random theory seems like an attempt of Self validation to you but there is nothing I can or will want to do about it...Posted by TrulyScorpioSelf-validation huh? Weak.
@admiral @udylaw @fallendarkangel On the contrary I have come across in articles that one of my best matches is a Scorpioclick to expand
Posted by AdmiralWell thankyou for the advice but I don't think trying to understand a few things and having emotions in check makes me a weak person...I do not let forums rule my life but just help me think of possiblities and understand perceptions which is no where close to validationPosted by TrulyScorpioYou do know astrology is just pseudoscience and none of it is real? If this relationship would work it would be because two mature individuals put in the work to make it work. What you are doing here instead of going for the chance to get to know this guy is going on an Internet forum for validation because real life has something that makes you fearful. Whether he might reject you or It might not work out , but you will never know because you're too scared. People use forums and the webs because they lack something, which I do too. Soo don't be like me hiding here because I'm so unsatisfied with my life and go talk to the guy and if it works enjoy it, if it doesn't keep on moving. Life hurts but somewhere along the line you'll find someone who is worth the hurt.Posted by AdmiralI am sorry if a fact I came across against your random theory seems like an attempt of Self validation to you but there is nothing I can or will want to do about it...Posted by TrulyScorpioSelf-validation huh? Weak.
@admiral @udylaw @fallendarkangel On the contrary I have come across in articles that one of my best matches is a Scorpio
Now please go do yourself a favor and delete your DXPnet account or you will get absolutely nothing done, I assure you.click to expand
Posted by TrulyScorpioWell that's good. You may also want to check synastry charts if you want.
@admiral @udylaw @fallendarkangel On the contrary I have come across in articles that one of my best matches is a Scorpio
Posted by AgentP911Boyfriend for the past one month but the mind games dont end. His reason being he isnt very vocal about emotions.
You're still dating or he's your boyfriend? Which is it?
Posted by TrulyScorpio
Update: So we have been dating for almost 2 months now and he seems like a wonderful guy with all these passionate feelings that are a little too much for me to take in at times. I am very vocal about the way I think and feel while as he keeps them all bottled up. These 2 months have been a roller coaster ride as we have bonded a lot during this time but then again there are still a lot of games involved which can be very exhausting.
Posted by TrulyScorpio
Also this is my boyfriend's and my chart..
His chart:
Sun in 28° Scorpio
Moon in 28° Scorpio
Mercury in 11° Scorpio
Venus in 21° Sagittarius
Mars in 28° Libra
Jupiter in 20° Aries (r)
Saturn in 20° Sagittarius
Uranus in 25° Sagittarius
Neptune in 6° Capricorn
Pluto in 10° Scorpio
North Node in 29° Pisces (r)
Chiron in 27° Gemini (r)
Ascendant in 17° Aquarius
MC in 0° Sagittarius
My chart:
Sun in 6° Scorpio
Moon in 7° Leo
Mercury in 22° Scorpio
Venus in 19° Virgo
Mars in 9° Scorpio
Jupiter in 9° Virgo
Saturn in 0° Aquarius
Uranus in 10° Capricorn
Neptune in 14° Capricorn
Pluto in 19° Scorpio
North Node in 13° Capricorn (r)
Chiron in 9° Leo
Ascendant in 21° Aquarius
MC in 0° Sagittarius
Posted by TrulyScorpioPersonally, I think it's still exceptionally early for you both. In your first post you said you've only had a few long dates but it's only been TWO months. One of which is as bf/gf.Posted by AgentP911Boyfriend for the past one month but the mind games dont end. His reason being he isnt very vocal about emotions.
You're still dating or he's your boyfriend? Which is it?click to expand
Posted by PhoenixRisingPosted by TrulyScorpio
Update: So we have been dating for almost 2 months now and he seems like a wonderful guy with all these passionate feelings that are a little too much for me to take in at times. I am very vocal about the way I think and feel while as he keeps them all bottled up. These 2 months have been a roller coaster ride as we have bonded a lot during this time but then again there are still a lot of games involved which can be very exhausting.
Be specific pls. Just because one does not communicate their feelings in the same way you do does not mean their playing games. Besides that, what is he doing exactly?click to expand
Posted by PhoenixRisingSometimes its not about naming the relation.. i do know where i stand but the problem is the way he behaves to certain things and most importantly make me feel about myself in the bargain..Posted by TrulyScorpio
Also this is my boyfriend's and my chart..
His chart:
Sun in 28° Scorpio
Moon in 28° Scorpio
Mercury in 11° Scorpio
Venus in 21° Sagittarius
Mars in 28° Libra
Jupiter in 20° Aries (r)
Saturn in 20° Sagittarius
Uranus in 25° Sagittarius
Neptune in 6° Capricorn
Pluto in 10° Scorpio
North Node in 29° Pisces (r)
Chiron in 27° Gemini (r)
Ascendant in 17° Aquarius
MC in 0° Sagittarius
My chart:
Sun in 6° Scorpio
Moon in 7° Leo
Mercury in 22° Scorpio
Venus in 19° Virgo
Mars in 9° Scorpio
Jupiter in 9° Virgo
Saturn in 0° Aquarius
Uranus in 10° Capricorn
Neptune in 14° Capricorn
Pluto in 19° Scorpio
North Node in 13° Capricorn (r)
Chiron in 9° Leo
Ascendant in 21° Aquarius
MC in 0° Sagittarius
Hmph. Looking at your charts I can see where some of the challenges may be. More importantly, if you're calling him your boyfriend, you clearly know where you stand. So where do the "games" come in?
Half the battle with a Scorp is knowing where you stand lol. I'm sure you already know this.click to expand
Posted by AgentP911We have been out on multiple dates and started dating two months back and I know it is too soon to expect things but it honestly affects me when he gives me the silent treatment and most of the time I don't even know the reason for it... making me feel lost and a bit miserable at times!Posted by TrulyScorpioPersonally, I think it's still exceptionally early for you both. In your first post you said you've only had a few long dates but it's only been TWO months. One of which is as bf/gf.Posted by AgentP911Boyfriend for the past one month but the mind games dont end. His reason being he isnt very vocal about emotions.
You're still dating or he's your boyfriend? Which is it?
I think you need to adjust your expectations here. You might be really open and vocal but he's not. He's a bloke. He's not going to communicate like you. Plus he's a Scorp with heavy Scorp placements including Scorp moon. It will be like getting blood out of a stone for a long time. He's not going to roll over and spill the beans everyday like a lap dog just to massage your Leo moon!
Examples of games would be good. He's a Scorp, he might throw something out there. You're a Scorp so as you've said you'll smell that behaviour from miles away.
I would honestly just ENJOY the time with him and continue building on what you have instead of constantly worry about it all. So many women want declarations of love now, now, now!
My ex is heavy Scorp placements with Scorp moon. It took years to build trust with him. We broke up years ago but even now he's still an untrusting, overly paranoid, awkward shit!!
Just chill and go with it. Be a very strong woman. With strong barriers. Take NO shit from him. He'll know he can't pull shit with you and that you won't be a doormat. Scorps hate doormats. No respect for them. Be vulnerable gradually. No big dramatic overly emotional scenes. We need time to get used to it. Even now when my Taurus fella is having an emotional moment, in my head I'm thinking 'OK he's just a little overwhelmed and it will pass' and it always does. I'm not great with emotional stuff. Scorp sun and Venus here. He doesn't ball his eyes out but he's a soft git but in a way it's nice.click to expand
Posted by TrulyScorpioHow old are you both? Bit more background on both of you might be helpful.Posted by AgentP911We have been out on multiple dates and started dating two months back and I know it is too soon to expect things but it honestly affects me when he gives me the silent treatment and most of the time I don't even know the reason for it... making me feel lost and a bit miserable at times!Posted by TrulyScorpioPersonally, I think it's still exceptionally early for you both. In your first post you said you've only had a few long dates but it's only been TWO months. One of which is as bf/gf.Posted by AgentP911Boyfriend for the past one month but the mind games dont end. His reason being he isnt very vocal about emotions.
You're still dating or he's your boyfriend? Which is it?
I think you need to adjust your expectations here. You might be really open and vocal but he's not. He's a bloke. He's not going to communicate like you. Plus he's a Scorp with heavy Scorp placements including Scorp moon. It will be like getting blood out of a stone for a long time. He's not going to roll over and spill the beans everyday like a lap dog just to massage your Leo moon!
Examples of games would be good. He's a Scorp, he might throw something out there. You're a Scorp so as you've said you'll smell that behaviour from miles away.
I would honestly just ENJOY the time with him and continue building on what you have instead of constantly worry about it all. So many women want declarations of love now, now, now!
My ex is heavy Scorp placements with Scorp moon. It took years to build trust with him. We broke up years ago but even now he's still an untrusting, overly paranoid, awkward shit!!
Just chill and go with it. Be a very strong woman. With strong barriers. Take NO shit from him. He'll know he can't pull shit with you and that you won't be a doormat. Scorps hate doormats. No respect for them. Be vulnerable gradually. No big dramatic overly emotional scenes. We need time to get used to it. Even now when my Taurus fella is having an emotional moment, in my head I'm thinking 'OK he's just a little overwhelmed and it will pass' and it always does. I'm not great with emotional stuff. Scorp sun and Venus here. He doesn't ball his eyes out but he's a soft git but in a way it's nice.
We both have major trust issues which is the root cause of all our problems.. Also, I honestly do enjoy the time we spend together and am not looking for any kind of a declaration but as I said earlier the basic trust factor is missing cause of which the silent treatment..click to expand
Posted by AgentP911Posted by TrulyScorpioPosted by AgentP911well I am 24 y/o and he is 28Posted by TrulyScorpioI think you need to adjust your expectations here. You might be really open and vocal but he's not. He's a bloke. He's not going to communicate like you. Plus he's a Scorp with heavy Scorp placements including Scorp moon. It will be like getting blood out of a stone for a long time. He's not going to roll over and spill the beans everyday like a lap dog just to massage your Leo moon!Posted by AgentP911Boyfriend for the past one month but the mind games dont end. His reason being he isnt very vocal about emotions.
You're still dating or he's your boyfriend? Which is it?
Examples of games would be good. He's a Scorp, he might throw something out there. You're a Scorp so as you've said you'll smell that behaviour from miles away.
I would honestly just ENJOY the time with him and continue building on what you have instead of constantly worry about it all. So many women want declarations of love now, now, now!
My ex is heavy Scorp placements with Scorp moon. It took years to build trust with him. We broke up years ago but even now he's still an untrusting, overly paranoid, awkward shit!!
Just chill and go with it. Be a very strong woman. With strong barriers. Take NO shit from him. He'll know he can't pull shit with you and that you won't be a doormat. Scorps hate doormats. No respect for them. Be vulnerable gradually. No big dramatic overly emotional scenes. We need time to get used to it. Even now when my Taurus fella is having an emotional moment, in my head I'm thinking 'OK he's just a little overwhelmed and it will pass' and it always does. I'm not great with emotional stuff. Scorp sun and Venus here. He doesn't ball his eyes out but he's a soft git but in a way it's nice.click to expand
Posted by fallbabyPosted by scorpiothebadassNot true.
Hell on earthclick to expand
Posted by fallbabyPosted by LaScorpiothankyou.. hopefully it does turn out that way in the near future. I can see him warming up a bit and letting his guard down.. also, the part about meaning conversations, passion and laughter is so true!!
Like Scorpico said. I am a scorp dating a scorp. The connection is intense and beautiful. We have a lot of respect for one another. The key is communication and no mind games. We can read each other very well, so we know that being straightforward is vital. We are both committed to protecting the bond. Lots of meaningful conversations, laughter and passion awaits. Absolutely no manipulation! Good luck!click to expand