Scorpio Man and Scorpio Woman Compatibility

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by TrulyScorpio on Thursday, July 21, 2016 and has 27 replies.
I recently met a Scorpio man and have been on a few really long dates with him. We hit it off almost immediately and even though we have just been out on a few dates it feels like we know each other for months now. The regular calls and texts are mutual making me feel like he is investing in it too.

I have noticed on multiple occasions that he plays subtle mind games which I, as a Scorpio Woman tend to catch on quickly.. He is in every way a true Scorpio Man with the classic intense gaze and the no problem in expressing his passion sexually but emotions he cannot express...

Do you think a Scorpio Man & Woman relation can work?

Also, how do you know when a Scorpio man really likes you as they certainly do not speak their minds?
Lol this might be true but your choice of words though..Lmao
Lol this might be true but your choice of words though..Lmao
It would be very difficult. I think Scorpios would be great if they only have friend relationship or treat each other like brothers or sisters, but be careful since manipulation will be a great hindrance between two Scorps.
@admiral @udylaw @fallendarkangel On the contrary I have come across in articles that one of my best matches is a Scorpio
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Posted by TrulyScorpio
@admiral @udylaw @fallendarkangel On the contrary I have come across in articles that one of my best matches is a Scorpio
Self-validation huh? Weak.
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I am sorry if a fact I came across against your random theory seems like an attempt of Self validation to you but there is nothing I can or will want to do about it...
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Posted by TrulyScorpio
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Posted by TrulyScorpio
@admiral @udylaw @fallendarkangel On the contrary I have come across in articles that one of my best matches is a Scorpio
Self-validation huh? Weak.
I am sorry if a fact I came across against your random theory seems like an attempt of Self validation to you but there is nothing I can or will want to do about it...
You do know astrology is just pseudoscience and none of it is real? If this relationship would work it would be because two mature individuals put in the work to make it work. What you are doing here instead of going for the chance to get to know this guy is going on an Internet forum for validation because real life has something that makes you fearful. Whether he might reject you or It might not work out , but you will never know because you're too scared. People use forums and the webs because they lack something, which I do too. Soo don't be like me hiding here because I'm so unsatisfied with my life and go talk to the guy and if it works enjoy it, if it doesn't keep on moving. Life hurts but somewhere along the line you'll find someone who is worth the hurt.

Now please go do yourself a favor and delete your DXPnet account or you will get absolutely nothing done, I assure you.

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Well thankyou for the advice but I don't think trying to understand a few things and having emotions in check makes me a weak person...I do not let forums rule my life but just help me think of possiblities and understand perceptions which is no where close to validation

Also, I think I would like to get some real advice from some Scorpios for now which I am positive you aren't!
Yes, they can work very well. You will feel like soul mates.

A scorpio man will be extremely generous and kind and loving when they really like you…like extremely.
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@admiral @udylaw @fallendarkangel On the contrary I have come across in articles that one of my best matches is a Scorpio
Well that's good. You may also want to check synastry charts if you want.
That Scorpio guy is screwed
Like Scorpico said. I am a scorp dating a scorp. The connection is intense and beautiful. We have a lot of respect for one another. The key is communication and no mind games. We can read each other very well, so we know that being straightforward is vital. We are both committed to protecting the bond. Lots of meaningful conversations, laughter and passion awaits. Absolutely no manipulation! Good luck!
Update: So we have been dating for almost 2 months now and he seems like a wonderful guy with all these passionate feelings that are a little too much for me to take in at times. I am very vocal about the way I think and feel while as he keeps them all bottled up. These 2 months have been a roller coaster ride as we have bonded a lot during this time but then again there are still a lot of games involved which can be very exhausting.
Also this is my boyfriend's and my chart..

His chart:

Sun in 28° Scorpio

Moon in 28° Scorpio

Mercury in 11° Scorpio

Venus in 21° Sagittarius

Mars in 28° Libra

Jupiter in 20° Aries (r)

Saturn in 20° Sagittarius

Uranus in 25° Sagittarius

Neptune in 6° Capricorn

Pluto in 10° Scorpio

North Node in 29° Pisces (r)

Chiron in 27° Gemini (r)

Ascendant in 17° Aquarius

MC in 0° Sagittarius

My chart:

Sun in 6° Scorpio

Moon in 7° Leo

Mercury in 22° Scorpio

Venus in 19° Virgo

Mars in 9° Scorpio

Jupiter in 9° Virgo

Saturn in 0° Aquarius

Uranus in 10° Capricorn

Neptune in 14° Capricorn

Pluto in 19° Scorpio

North Node in 13° Capricorn (r)

Chiron in 9° Leo

Ascendant in 21° Aquarius

MC in 0° Sagittarius

Hell on earth
You're still dating or he's your boyfriend? Which is it?
Posted by AgentP911
You're still dating or he's your boyfriend? Which is it?
Boyfriend for the past one month but the mind games dont end. His reason being he isnt very vocal about emotions.
Woah his sun, merc, moon, Venus and Mars are all the same as mine, when is his birthday?
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Update: So we have been dating for almost 2 months now and he seems like a wonderful guy with all these passionate feelings that are a little too much for me to take in at times. I am very vocal about the way I think and feel while as he keeps them all bottled up. These 2 months have been a roller coaster ride as we have bonded a lot during this time but then again there are still a lot of games involved which can be very exhausting.


Be specific pls. Just because one does not communicate their feelings in the same way you do does not mean their playing games. Besides that, what is he doing exactly?

Posted by TrulyScorpio
Also this is my boyfriend's and my chart..

His chart:

Sun in 28° Scorpio

Moon in 28° Scorpio

Mercury in 11° Scorpio

Venus in 21° Sagittarius

Mars in 28° Libra

Jupiter in 20° Aries (r)

Saturn in 20° Sagittarius

Uranus in 25° Sagittarius

Neptune in 6° Capricorn

Pluto in 10° Scorpio

North Node in 29° Pisces (r)

Chiron in 27° Gemini (r)

Ascendant in 17° Aquarius

MC in 0° Sagittarius

My chart:

Sun in 6° Scorpio

Moon in 7° Leo

Mercury in 22° Scorpio

Venus in 19° Virgo

Mars in 9° Scorpio

Jupiter in 9° Virgo

Saturn in 0° Aquarius

Uranus in 10° Capricorn

Neptune in 14° Capricorn

Pluto in 19° Scorpio

North Node in 13° Capricorn (r)

Chiron in 9° Leo

Ascendant in 21° Aquarius

MC in 0° Sagittarius



Hmph. Looking at your charts I can see where some of the challenges may be. More importantly, if you're calling him your boyfriend, you clearly know where you stand. So where do the "games" come in?

Half the battle with a Scorp is knowing where you stand lol. I'm sure you already know this.

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Posted by AgentP911
You're still dating or he's your boyfriend? Which is it?
Boyfriend for the past one month but the mind games dont end. His reason being he isnt very vocal about emotions.
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Personally, I think it's still exceptionally early for you both. In your first post you said you've only had a few long dates but it's only been TWO months. One of which is as bf/gf.

I think you need to adjust your expectations here. You might be really open and vocal but he's not. He's a bloke. He's not going to communicate like you. Plus he's a Scorp with heavy Scorp placements including Scorp moon. It will be like getting blood out of a stone for a long time. He's not going to roll over and spill the beans everyday like a lap dog just to massage your Leo moon!

Examples of games would be good. He's a Scorp, he might throw something out there. You're a Scorp so as you've said you'll smell that behaviour from miles away.

I would honestly just ENJOY the time with him and continue building on what you have instead of constantly worry about it all. So many women want declarations of love now, now, now!

Two scorps can work. A very good friend and colleague of mine has been married to another Scorp for 26 years. There can be a nice familiarity between two scorps. Somehow you kinda know what you're signing up for.

My ex is heavy Scorp placements with Scorp moon. It took years to build trust with him. We broke up years ago but even now he's still an untrusting, overly paranoid, awkward shit!!

Just chill and go with it. Be a very strong woman. With strong barriers. Take NO shit from him. He'll know he can't pull shit with you and that you won't be a doormat. Scorps hate doormats. No respect for them. Be vulnerable gradually. No big dramatic overly emotional scenes. We need time to get used to it. Even now when my Taurus fella is having an emotional moment, in my head I'm thinking 'OK he's just a little overwhelmed and it will pass' and it always does. I'm not great with emotional stuff. Scorp sun and Venus here. He doesn't ball his eyes out but he's a soft git but in a way it's nice.
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Posted by TrulyScorpio
Update: So we have been dating for almost 2 months now and he seems like a wonderful guy with all these passionate feelings that are a little too much for me to take in at times. I am very vocal about the way I think and feel while as he keeps them all bottled up. These 2 months have been a roller coaster ride as we have bonded a lot during this time but then again there are still a lot of games involved which can be very exhausting.


Be specific pls. Just because one does not communicate their feelings in the same way you do does not mean their playing games. Besides that, what is he doing exactly?

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Well to be specific when he is upset about something he keeps it bottled up and then rather than clarifying things with me he chooses to avoid the topic by taking time off... he expects me to understand what he thinks and feels and if I dont then he gives me the silent treatment...

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Posted by TrulyScorpio
Also this is my boyfriend's and my chart..

His chart:

Sun in 28° Scorpio

Moon in 28° Scorpio

Mercury in 11° Scorpio

Venus in 21° Sagittarius

Mars in 28° Libra

Jupiter in 20° Aries (r)

Saturn in 20° Sagittarius

Uranus in 25° Sagittarius

Neptune in 6° Capricorn

Pluto in 10° Scorpio

North Node in 29° Pisces (r)

Chiron in 27° Gemini (r)

Ascendant in 17° Aquarius

MC in 0° Sagittarius

My chart:

Sun in 6° Scorpio

Moon in 7° Leo

Mercury in 22° Scorpio

Venus in 19° Virgo

Mars in 9° Scorpio

Jupiter in 9° Virgo

Saturn in 0° Aquarius

Uranus in 10° Capricorn

Neptune in 14° Capricorn

Pluto in 19° Scorpio

North Node in 13° Capricorn (r)

Chiron in 9° Leo

Ascendant in 21° Aquarius

MC in 0° Sagittarius



Hmph. Looking at your charts I can see where some of the challenges may be. More importantly, if you're calling him your boyfriend, you clearly know where you stand. So where do the "games" come in?

Half the battle with a Scorp is knowing where you stand lol. I'm sure you already know this.

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Sometimes its not about naming the relation.. i do know where i stand but the problem is the way he behaves to certain things and most importantly make me feel about myself in the bargain..

Posted by AgentP911
Posted by TrulyScorpio
Posted by AgentP911
You're still dating or he's your boyfriend? Which is it?
Boyfriend for the past one month but the mind games dont end. His reason being he isnt very vocal about emotions.
Personally, I think it's still exceptionally early for you both. In your first post you said you've only had a few long dates but it's only been TWO months. One of which is as bf/gf.

I think you need to adjust your expectations here. You might be really open and vocal but he's not. He's a bloke. He's not going to communicate like you. Plus he's a Scorp with heavy Scorp placements including Scorp moon. It will be like getting blood out of a stone for a long time. He's not going to roll over and spill the beans everyday like a lap dog just to massage your Leo moon!

Examples of games would be good. He's a Scorp, he might throw something out there. You're a Scorp so as you've said you'll smell that behaviour from miles away.

I would honestly just ENJOY the time with him and continue building on what you have instead of constantly worry about it all. So many women want declarations of love now, now, now!

My ex is heavy Scorp placements with Scorp moon. It took years to build trust with him. We broke up years ago but even now he's still an untrusting, overly paranoid, awkward shit!!

Just chill and go with it. Be a very strong woman. With strong barriers. Take NO shit from him. He'll know he can't pull shit with you and that you won't be a doormat. Scorps hate doormats. No respect for them. Be vulnerable gradually. No big dramatic overly emotional scenes. We need time to get used to it. Even now when my Taurus fella is having an emotional moment, in my head I'm thinking 'OK he's just a little overwhelmed and it will pass' and it always does. I'm not great with emotional stuff. Scorp sun and Venus here. He doesn't ball his eyes out but he's a soft git but in a way it's nice.
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We have been out on multiple dates and started dating two months back and I know it is too soon to expect things but it honestly affects me when he gives me the silent treatment and most of the time I don't even know the reason for it... making me feel lost and a bit miserable at times!

We both have major trust issues which is the root cause of all our problems.. Also, I honestly do enjoy the time we spend together and am not looking for any kind of a declaration but as I said earlier the basic trust factor is missing cause of which the silent treatment..
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Posted by AgentP911
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Posted by AgentP911
You're still dating or he's your boyfriend? Which is it?
Boyfriend for the past one month but the mind games dont end. His reason being he isnt very vocal about emotions.
Personally, I think it's still exceptionally early for you both. In your first post you said you've only had a few long dates but it's only been TWO months. One of which is as bf/gf.

I think you need to adjust your expectations here. You might be really open and vocal but he's not. He's a bloke. He's not going to communicate like you. Plus he's a Scorp with heavy Scorp placements including Scorp moon. It will be like getting blood out of a stone for a long time. He's not going to roll over and spill the beans everyday like a lap dog just to massage your Leo moon!

Examples of games would be good. He's a Scorp, he might throw something out there. You're a Scorp so as you've said you'll smell that behaviour from miles away.

I would honestly just ENJOY the time with him and continue building on what you have instead of constantly worry about it all. So many women want declarations of love now, now, now!

My ex is heavy Scorp placements with Scorp moon. It took years to build trust with him. We broke up years ago but even now he's still an untrusting, overly paranoid, awkward shit!!

Just chill and go with it. Be a very strong woman. With strong barriers. Take NO shit from him. He'll know he can't pull shit with you and that you won't be a doormat. Scorps hate doormats. No respect for them. Be vulnerable gradually. No big dramatic overly emotional scenes. We need time to get used to it. Even now when my Taurus fella is having an emotional moment, in my head I'm thinking 'OK he's just a little overwhelmed and it will pass' and it always does. I'm not great with emotional stuff. Scorp sun and Venus here. He doesn't ball his eyes out but he's a soft git but in a way it's nice.
We have been out on multiple dates and started dating two months back and I know it is too soon to expect things but it honestly affects me when he gives me the silent treatment and most of the time I don't even know the reason for it... making me feel lost and a bit miserable at times!

We both have major trust issues which is the root cause of all our problems.. Also, I honestly do enjoy the time we spend together and am not looking for any kind of a declaration but as I said earlier the basic trust factor is missing cause of which the silent treatment..
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How old are you both? Bit more background on both of you might be helpful.
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Posted by AgentP911
You're still dating or he's your boyfriend? Which is it?
Boyfriend for the past one month but the mind games dont end. His reason being he isnt very vocal about emotions.
I think you need to adjust your expectations here. You might be really open and vocal but he's not. He's a bloke. He's not going to communicate like you. Plus he's a Scorp with heavy Scorp placements including Scorp moon. It will be like getting blood out of a stone for a long time. He's not going to roll over and spill the beans everyday like a lap dog just to massage your Leo moon!

Examples of games would be good. He's a Scorp, he might throw something out there. You're a Scorp so as you've said you'll smell that behaviour from miles away.

I would honestly just ENJOY the time with him and continue building on what you have instead of constantly worry about it all. So many women want declarations of love now, now, now!

My ex is heavy Scorp placements with Scorp moon. It took years to build trust with him. We broke up years ago but even now he's still an untrusting, overly paranoid, awkward shit!!

Just chill and go with it. Be a very strong woman. With strong barriers. Take NO shit from him. He'll know he can't pull shit with you and that you won't be a doormat. Scorps hate doormats. No respect for them. Be vulnerable gradually. No big dramatic overly emotional scenes. We need time to get used to it. Even now when my Taurus fella is having an emotional moment, in my head I'm thinking 'OK he's just a little overwhelmed and it will pass' and it always does. I'm not great with emotional stuff. Scorp sun and Venus here. He doesn't ball his eyes out but he's a soft git but in a way it's nice.
well I am 24 y/o and he is 28
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Hell on earth
Not true.
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I mean too hot
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Posted by LaScorpio
Like Scorpico said. I am a scorp dating a scorp. The connection is intense and beautiful. We have a lot of respect for one another. The key is communication and no mind games. We can read each other very well, so we know that being straightforward is vital. We are both committed to protecting the bond. Lots of meaningful conversations, laughter and passion awaits. Absolutely no manipulation! Good luck!
thankyou.. hopefully it does turn out that way in the near future. I can see him warming up a bit and letting his guard down.. also, the part about meaning conversations, passion and laughter is so true!!

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