Scorpio Man and Virgo Woman

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by WildFlower01 on Friday, February 7, 2020 and has 9 replies.
Hello all,

I am Sun Virgo with other 3 Virgo placements in my chart and my boyfriend is Sun Scorpio with 3 important placements in Scorpio as well smile from the very beginning he never hesitated to show his interest in me, he is very attentive almost to the point of being obsessed with me but he never ever expresses his feelings for me. The only way for me to understand his love is his undivided attention and laser-like focus on me but after 1 year and now living in different countries for the promotion I got lately it is not enough. I easily get insecure and withdraw to my cave to heal myself and he also seems getting insecure and jealous when I get silent. It has never been an easy relationship but now as LDR it is even worse. What can I do to make him communicate a little bit more? Thank you in advance.
Communication is key in everything. Everything. Understanding one another's love language is important too. These two factors shouldn't be compromised, but complimentary.

You said that the relationship has "never been easy". Naturally, an uneasy situation will become more difficult w added space/distance between it. I don't know what kind of advice to give you honestly. This may be a relationship you should've hung up some time ago.
Will you guys ever be able to be physically together in the future? If not, I hate to say it but a Virgo and especially a Scorpio can’t do LDR forever. High strung emotions like love/hate and jealousy can get too outta control in this pairing period. But having you guys lack that physical contact may make it a lot more difficult.
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What do u think she should do
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be more upfront about the problem i guess

i get impatient when i'm not seeing results
Thank you very much for the comments, I appreciate them all. I do agree on that it will get even worse while we are living in different countries. I have always been surrounded by Scorp ladies throughout my life but it is the first time I come to realize that Virgo & Scorp is so similar in many ways. He disappoints me often, yet I always forgive him as I know I would give the very same reaction Big Grin
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Will you guys ever be able to be physically together in the future? If not, I hate to say it but a Virgo and especially a Scorpio can’t do LDR forever. High strung emotions like love/hate and jealousy can get too outta control in this pairing period. But having you guys lack that physical contact may make it a lot more difficult.
It seems that there is no way to be physically together in the near future. We both tried to end relationship but he always comes back and wants to reconcile.