Scorpio man disappeared again!!! How can I make him stay for good??

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by sweet_cancer on Wednesday, January 11, 2017 and has 1 replies.
Hello. I met a Scorpio guy (Nov 12) and we're really good friends but I'm almost sure he likes me and I like him too. I don't know his whole birth chart but he's the one that started talking to me and chasing me. I feel a strong connection with him and I feel like I know him and I can literally READ HIM. We get along so well and he's the sweetest and most caring guy ever but he recently disappeared without a valid reason!!!!! I didn't do anything to upset him or make him act cold and distant. He just starts acting like I don't exist anymore Sad He doesn't communicate with me and starts ignoring me, which makes me think he doesn't care about me. This is the second time it happens because it has happened before and he was gone for almost 2 months!!!!!! And then he came back as if nothing happened being the same sweet guy as before. He even started flirting with me a lot, showed he cared about me, and was the perfect man a girl could ask for. I have shown him subtle signs that I like him and I told him that I really need him as a friend because I'm going through a lot of problems in my life and he said I can always count on him and that he would always listen to me. But now since he disappeared I'm a little upset about it because I really needed him since I'm having some issues and I thought I could vent with him. Right when I needed him he disappears!!!! Ohhh great so I don't think it's a good idea to chase him because of his attitude. I'm thinking of telling him to stay away next time he comes back because his attitude is hurting me and I thought I could count on him but he's acting like he doesn't want anything to do with me. If he can't be a real friend, then it's better if he leaves me alone. I don't know if it's a good idea to say this. Since he's also used to girls chasing him all the time he'll know that I'm a girl he can't mess around with. But at the same time I'm scared of being mean like that because I really like him. When he doesn't play games, he's the coolest guy ever!!!! So if I don't say anything and I act like everything is okay, then he's gonna walk all over me and disappear all the time. Is there a way to make him stop playing these games? I know Scorpios do this but I've also heard that they don't do this when they're really interested. So what's going on here????