Scorpio man I am dating talks a lot about random

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by ariesfireice on Saturday, May 12, 2012 and has 28 replies.
Scorpio man I am dating talks a lot about random things - He can go on and on and on about stupid things that are far from who HE is. If I ask him a personal question to get to know him, he is SUPER vague. But then if I ask him about some shop or restaurant, he can go on and on...
we've been on 3 dates and he wants to go on the 4th. I am being cautious because what I just mentioned above.. sounds like he either does not have an interesting life or he is hiding things.
Another thing is that on the 3 date, we kissed for the first time. He's a passionate kisser which I just loved! But he said things like "lick your P*ssy" or your tits wants to be sucked. I am totally turned off by this.
Pls. shed some light... he says he's not looking but hook up but looking for long term, but I think he's measuring in penis. Is he seriously looking for a relationship?
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Ya, my guy friend says that I should give this Scorpio another chance as he's just being a guy and probably hasn't been laid in a while.. But that next time I go out with him he should be more respectful. My guy friend says that this Scorpio doesn't sound like a jerk however.
Truth is, his kisses were passionate and now my thinking is a little muddled
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Posted by DazedScorp
"But he said things like "lick your P*ssy" or your tits wants to be sucked. I am totally turned off by this."
Dafuq?



Agreed.
Maybe he hasn't had a lot of long term/serious relationships, but mostly just fuck buddies, etc, and he may not know how to act in a serious relationship? idk, man, but if he said that to me on the third date/first kiss, I'd be gone.
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I do that all the time and it's because I'm not ready to open up to the person.
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Posted by ariesfireice
Scorpio man I am dating talks a lot about random things - He can go on and on and on about stupid things that are far from who HE is. If I ask him a personal question to get to know him, he is SUPER vague. But then if I ask him about some shop or restaurant, he can go on and on...
we've been on 3 dates and he wants to go on the 4th. I am being cautious because what I just mentioned above.. sounds like he either does not have an interesting life or he is hiding things.
Another thing is that on the 3 date, we kissed for the first time. He's a passionate kisser which I just loved! But he said things like "lick your P*ssy" or your tits wants to be sucked. I am totally turned off by this.
Pls. shed some light... he says he's not looking but hook up but looking for long term, but I think he's measuring in penis. Is he seriously looking for a relationship?



He just wanna fucc, that's why he keep taking you on dates, he's gonna lower your guard and go for the kill. That's why he avoids personal questions with vague answers, to keep emotions out and keep it strictly sexual that long term shit he saying is just game. But u could always just give up tha goodies and see if what he wanted was something long term

Sex for a couple hours is long term
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Posted by DazedScorp
"But he said things like "lick your P*ssy" or your tits wants to be sucked. I am totally turned off by this."
Dafuq?



Agreed.
Maybe he hasn't had a lot of long term/serious relationships, but mostly just fuck buddies, etc, and he may not know how to act in a serious relationship? idk, man, but if he said that to me on the third date/first kiss, I'd be gone.
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Seconded.
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omg this is my pet HATE with men. are we supposed to melt into their arms cos they wanna lick our pussy? i mean it sounds almost too romantic to pass up doesn't it? it's a surefire sign of a man who either hasn't been laid in ages (more than a week) or one who just wants to get his kicks without all the irritation of actually developing a relationship.
i'm impressed he left it til the third date though...i've had that kind of talk before i've even been on a first date and i kid you not!!! unbelievable!! like i must be sooooo gagging for it i'm FLATTERED by their sexual attention.
imagine if the roles were reversed and you started mentioning how you'd like to lick his dick on the third date. obviously you would be on your knees in a nanosecond cos no man would say no....but what does it say about your motives let alone your self respect??? why does a guy think he's any different?? do they think we're fucking STUPID???
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Posted by ellessque
if he's annoying you and you are not clicking, why are you forcing things?
because of a kiss?
seems you are just as shallow as he is. *shrugs*
"He can go on and on and on about stupid things"
he probably has merc in sag. we tend to do that. it means something to us when we can go on and on about "stupid things" and someone listens.
don't waste each others time, just call it a day.


Oh wow, nice read I related to this I guess because my merc is in sag lol.
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ellessque - that is harsh and uncalled for. I didn't asked to be talked to that way! If I did then I wouldn't be here asking for clarity - instead I would be in his bed!
And NO! I am not shallow either. I like to think that everyone has flaws and maybe this this guy's flaw is that he talks without thinking. Yes, the kiss was passionate and it muddled my thought. Because I am a woman with needs, too! But I am here questioning things because my head is telling me something else.
You did get one thing right though - he has something in SAG - He is a Scorpio-Sag Cusp.
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Well, I was never under him so there is no question of getting over him. I haven't dated in a long time and frankly this is the first time I am actually being this cautious.
Being honest is one thing and being a judgmental dick is another.
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he said these things after we kissed, you dumb Bitch. Go advice someone else!
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No, no and NOOOOO!
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Posted by ellessque
whatever Big Grin
he acted like and assface and you kissed him anyways.
if you can't see some kind of "flaw" in that within yourself than I don't know what to tell you.
we teach others how to treat us.


sorry elle but you're talking bollocks. the OP barely knows this guy and so it's nothing to do with her behaving anyway in particular that's created his impression of what might turn her on.
quite alot of men have this opinion that women genuinely want them to talk that way and are turned on by it. men are not the cleverest when their dicks are doing the talking either and they tend to be really surprised when you're offended by it.
it's like random compliments a guy makes when you first start seeing them...they're pretty meaningless and designed mostly to achieve effect...some guys just take it further and cut straight to the dirty talk.
a man has his attitude towards women in his head when he first starts dating someone....it doesn't matter how she behaves in the early stages...his attitude will remain the same. men are dumbfucks like that.
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Posted by ellessque
Posted by DazedScorp
I'm willing to bet that there was a conversation about sex during one of their dates.
I'm a gentleman when it comes to dating, but if you give me the slightest hint, sexual innuendo, whatever... I'm likely to test the waters to see how far you'll let me go.
Yes, sex is important to a male Scorp, but we won't throw it out there like that, unless we feel it's welcomed.
Women assuming men are always thinking with their slingers... knuckleheads.


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not to mention, a past thread called "Wow, SCORPIOS CAN FUCK" had been deleted by the OP.
....and another thread about her complaining about the same thing with a leo.
carry yourself like a lady and you'll be treated like one.
believe me, I've done the same damn thing JUST to see if someone would stoop so low and to see EXACTLY where I stood with them.
by any means, we are not a simple minded group (scorpios) EVEN if we can ramble on and on about "stupid stuff".
we attract what we are ready to attract. if we are attracting commitment phobes, slimey "want to lick your pussy" cum tossers or the like....then perhaps we should reflect on our "approach" and where we are at in the entire arena of dating.
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oh my word...i was quick to insert my foot there!! sorry elle...can i blame hormones please?
dazed..i appreciate you're a gentleman but even you have to recognise you're in the minority group?
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dammit!! i posted a retraction of my foot in mouth comment to you elle but it's not here. no offence intended. just a misery guts today and i wasn't aware of the OP's previous track record.
sorry smile
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Posted by ariesfireice
Ya, my guy friend says that I should give this Scorpio another chance as he's just being a guy and probably hasn't been laid in a while.. But that next time I go out with him he should be more respectful....
Truth is, his kisses were passionate and now my thinking is a little muddled


If you want to sleep with him, then sleep with him. If he wanted a serious relationship with you he would have pursued you in a way that would tell you exactly that. I have dated a few Scorpios (doesn't make me an expert--but speaking as a Scorpio), horny or not, if they want a deeper connection with you they will try to pursue that with you. There wouldn't be any question. "He should be more respectful"? Perhaps, but the fact that he wasn't from the first date speaks volumes to me. Sooooo, if you're horny as well and want to have sex with him just do it, but waiting to see if he will become a gentleman, eh you'll be waiting for a while and will just be disappointed.
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Posted by ellessque
....and one more thing.
you obviously opened the door to be talked to like that.
quite honestly, I'm not a guy but.....if someone "opens that door" with me, I'll talk to them accordingly just to see how much I can get away with and to find out if they are genuine or just a douchebag.
it's an easy way to weed out idiots.


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Posted by ellessque
wanna kiss me now? Tongue


LOL!
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Posted by ariesfireice
He can go on and on and on about stupid things that are far from who HE is.




::: raises eyebrows :::

Let me get this straight ... you don't know this man per se, but, you know that things he talks about are not who he is?
Really?

Posted by ariesfireice
I like to think that everyone has flaws and maybe this this guy's flaw is that he talks without thinking.

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Aries are notorious for speaking before they think and I believe you have demonstrated this quite accurately in the quote above where you proclaim to know what things this man is suppose to talk about to represent himself, eventhough you barely know him.

You are a control freak.
Scorpios do have flaws, many of them, actually ... but, stupid they are not, blind they are not, oblivious - nope not that either. In fact, they are probably more intuitive than any of the other 12 (except for me, of course Tongue) ... and there is no doubt in my mind, basing it off of what you've written here that he was 20 paces ahead of you at "hello" and realized that if he plays his cards right, your knickers will come down .... because being a control freak, you're not really worth anything else.
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Posted by P-Angel
Scorpios do have flaws, many of them, actually ... but, stupid they are not, blind they are not, oblivious - nope not that either. In fact, they are probably more intuitive than any of the other 12 (except for me, of course Tongue) ... and there is no doubt in my mind, basing it off of what you've written here that he was 20 paces ahead of you at "hello" and realized that if he plays his cards right, your knickers will come down .... because being a control freak, you're not really worth anything else.



*etches in gold*
*passes blunt to p*
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Ah Hah.
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Posted by DazedScorp
I'm willing to bet that there was a conversation about sex during one of their dates.
I'm a gentleman when it comes to dating, but if you give me the slightest hint, sexual innuendo, whatever... I'm likely to test the waters to see how far you'll let me go.
Yes, sex is important to a male Scorp, but we won't throw it out there like that, unless we feel it's welcomed.
Women assuming men are always thinking with their slingers... knuckleheads.


I agree..you triggered something.
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Posted by DazedScorp
@Aries...
Put the conversation plus kiss into context for me. Like this:
You: "blah blah blah"
Him: "blah blah blah"
*kiss*
Him: "Let me slurp that pussy gurl!"
Something like that?


Hahahahahaaaaaaaaa. Wow... smile
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I loved this thread, glad it's brought back up.

I'm still wanting to know how she knew that what he was talking about was far from who he was, when she's only gone on 3 dates with him, which means, she doesn't know shit about him at that point.

I've thought about that often since this thread was created ... are people so stupid that they don't even know that when you first meet a new potential boy/girl friend that they are being pretentious, they are trying to make impressions upon you so who you see isn't them? You have to sift through the surface egotistical bullshit to get to the real person underneath ... so who is really so stupid that they think the superficial surface bullshit that is presented on the first couple dates is actually who he is.

and then when he begins to talk about the other stuff on the 3rd date ... THAT is the real him coming out.

Is this lady really this dumb?
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Haaaaaaa!! Touche', Seraph!
You are brilliant, sir!!
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My scorp talks a lot about "random stuff" that seems outside of himself, compared to ~feelings or social interaction or analytical things about self~ but I know that it's because he is sharing with me his interests, or observations about things or places, which is still apart of him.
I have thought about this thread too since it was created, because I found the OPs judgement about her date a little harsh.
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Posted by LouLore
My scorp talks a lot about "random stuff" that seems outside of himself, compared to ~feelings or social interaction or analytical things about self~ but I know that it's because he is sharing with me his interests, or observations about things or places, which is still apart of him.
I have thought about this thread too since it was created, because I found the OPs judgement about her date a little harsh.


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e3 i heart you lol
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^^^Smh......lol. Let's see where this goes.
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