Posted by andrea13
So...the scorpio is already in a confuse/hazy/uncertain relationship for about 5 months with someone. He said that their relationship doesn't work because she sometimes wants to be with him and sometimes wants to be alone. He said to me that he wants to take things slowly(that's want i want too) He also said that he has his heart broken and don't want to make me suffer hurring up things. I told him I understand his point of view, i appreciate cuz he was honest and told him to follow his heart. Our friendship was just starting, we were seeing 3 times we kissed and also want to take things slowly. Is it to early to make plans for our future relationship? How to deal with this problem?
Posted by tizianiPosted by andrea13
So...the scorpio is already in a confuse/hazy/uncertain relationship for about 5 months with someone. He said that their relationship doesn't work because she sometimes wants to be with him and sometimes wants to be alone. He said to me that he wants to take things slowly(that's want i want too) He also said that he has his heart broken and don't want to make me suffer hurring up things. I told him I understand his point of view, i appreciate cuz he was honest and told him to follow his heart. Our friendship was just starting, we were seeing 3 times we kissed and also want to take things slowly. Is it to early to make plans for our future relationship? How to deal with this problem?
This question seems so out of context I wasn't even sure I had read the right post.click to expand
Posted by Arielle83
Damnata logically assassinated him!
Posted by andrea13
He needs to figure out what he wants to do with his current relationship before starting anything with me. That's all!
Posted by andrea13
Is it to early to make plans for our future relationship?click to expand
Posted by PhoenixRisingPosted by andrea13
He needs to figure out what he wants to do with his current relationship before starting anything with me. That's all!
Therefore you've answered this:
Posted by andrea13
Is it to early to make plans for our future relationship?
Where do y'all come up with this stuff?...click to expand
Posted by PhoenixRisingPosted by andrea13
He needs to figure out what he wants to do with his current relationship before starting anything with me. That's all!
Therefore you've answered this:
Posted by andrea13
Is it to early to make plans for our future relationship?
Where do y'all come up with this stuff?...click to expand
Posted by IwillPosted by andrea13
He needs to figure out what he wants to do with his current relationship before starting anything with me. That's all!
This will be a great lesson in your life to teach you, that sometimes, MANY times in fact, people lie to get what they want. Men, women, the political and economical leaders and "saviors" of the world. It's very sad but also very real.click to expand
Posted by andrea13Posted by PhoenixRisingPosted by andrea13
He needs to figure out what he wants to do with his current relationship before starting anything with me. That's all!
Therefore you've answered this:
Posted by andrea13
Is it to early to make plans for our future relationship?
Where do y'all come up with this stuff?...
You're too annoyingclick to expand
Posted by PhoenixRisingPosted by andrea13Posted by PhoenixRisingPosted by andrea13
He needs to figure out what he wants to do with his current relationship before starting anything with me. That's all!
Therefore you've answered this:
Posted by andrea13
Is it to early to make plans for our future relationship?
Where do y'all come up with this stuff?...
You're too annoying
this may be true, but does it make what I pointed out untrue? I find it interesting that you decided to quote my post though. Transparent much?
Anyhoo, I won't hold you up with any more obvious points. I believe you have a penis to share somewhere---or are you debating if it's too early to do that? Carry on.click to expand
Posted by flowingwaterPosted by andrea13
That's what i wouldn't do. I don't want to lose my virginity until marriage. Choosing him is already out. I can't make things better and I can't do anything to change the way the situation is and that's what bothers me...because I can't do anything. Thanks you all for advices!
Your so emotional..
Get your damn 19yr old ignorance ass out of here.
Don't come with that crying bullshit.
Nobody cares, share the damn D.click to expand
Posted by flowingwaterPosted by andrea13Posted by flowingwaterPosted by andrea13
That's what i wouldn't do. I don't want to lose my virginity until marriage. Choosing him is already out. I can't make things better and I can't do anything to change the way the situation is and that's what bothers me...because I can't do anything. Thanks you all for advices!
Your so emotional..
Get your damn 19yr old ignorance ass out of here.
Don't come with that crying bullshit.
Nobody cares, share the damn D.
Just because you're a crone doesn't make me a "19yr old ignorance ass". Don't like, don't watch! Nobody forced you to comment here! If you don't like GO AWAY CRONE!
Coming from a floozy, who's nothing but a side piece of ass!
You will never be #1!!
Let me define Ignorance- coming on here asking for a advice on how to accommodate your new side bitch life style .click to expand
Posted by Arielle83
Haven't you just gone on 2 dates? How could he have become any bit important at all? He has a girlfriend so don't bother. Plus your a virgin so what are you offering him? Please don't give him that, because you'll regret it one day. Foolish man and only thinking with one thing.
Posted by flowingwaterPosted by andrea13Posted by flowingwaterPosted by andrea13
That's what i wouldn't do. I don't want to lose my virginity until marriage. Choosing him is already out. I can't make things better and I can't do anything to change the way the situation is and that's what bothers me...because I can't do anything. Thanks you all for advices!
Your so emotional..
Get your damn 19yr old ignorance ass out of here.
Don't come with that crying bullshit.
Nobody cares, share the damn D.
Just because you're a crone doesn't make me a "19yr old ignorance ass". Don't like, don't watch! Nobody forced you to comment here! If you don't like GO AWAY CRONE!
Coming from a floozy, who's nothing but a side piece of ass!
You will never be #1!!
Let me define Ignorance- coming on here asking for a advice on how to accommodate your new side bitch life style .click to expand
Posted by Rambunctious76Posted by andrea13
So...the scorpio is already in a confuse/hazy/uncertain relationship for about 5 months with someone. He said that their relationship doesn't work because she sometimes wants to be with him and sometimes wants to be alone. He said to me that he wants to take things slowly(that's want i want too) He also said that he has his heart broken and don't want to make me suffer hurring up things. I told him I understand his point of view, i appreciate cuz he was honest and told him to follow his heart. Our friendship was just starting, we were seeing 3 times we kissed and also want to take things slowly. Is it to early to make plans for our future relationship? How to deal with this problem?
1) There is NO future relationship. You are a side dish. Accept that, or drop him immediately!
2) Take everything he says from now on with a pinch of salt (and hot peppers).
3) Ask him straight up if his gf knows about you. If his answer is no, drop him immediately! If his answer is yes, ask if it's possible to meet her. If he says no to that as well, drop him immediately!
Unless of course, you're in it just for the sex and you can guarantee emotions won't get involved, then carry on!click to expand
Posted by Rabbit
Hazy?
Girl...you're a hazy shade of thirsty.
Posted by Rabbit
Hazy?
Girl...you're a hazy shade of thirsty.
Posted by Hotbeefy
Only missing thing is her mercury, Saturn, Venus & Mars.
I really do bet that she has venus in aries since she's very straightforward to do this.
But seriously, DMV has got right on the nose when it comes to reality. Because you never know what kind of person is he. Plus telling him that you're virgin is asking for sex rather than taken serious in relationship.
It's to built up knowing each other who they are and see if he's capable of. THATS the mature thing (& cautious) things to do.
Posted by Arielle83Posted by andrea13Posted by Arielle83
Haven't you just gone on 2 dates? How could he have become any bit important at all? He has a girlfriend so don't bother. Plus your a virgin so what are you offering him? Please don't give him that, because you'll regret it one day. Foolish man and only thinking with one thing.
I told him I'll not be on the side chick position and he said again that he's not on a really serious relationship with his gf. So he claim his relationship unstable and wonky just to make accept it?
i missed this.
ya he wants you to think she's not important. so doesn't that tell you he's a douche? i mean if this other chick was all into him and found out he was trying to get you in on him, don't you think she would be hurt? just put yourself in the other persons shoes, because if it actually was hazy, i think it would of ended. it hasn't. someones going to get hurt. he said he wants his space and she wants to be with him. she likes him and he's making you think she isn't important. how rude.click to expand