Scorpio man says he wants me but doesn't move forward??

I met this guy 3 weeks ago. He is Scorpio born only one day after me( I am Scorpio woman ). He was the one who was pushy in the begging and he didn't have a relationship for 3 years.. We saw each other for our first date for breakfast. He didn't want to leave and we spent the whole day together till the next morning. We didn't have sex but we kissed and I can tell he was really into me. We, Scorpios, are very good at feeling what's going on. He said he likes me. He said he is going to think about me the whole day tomorrow at work and when I said "what?" He said something else.. He was so afraid that he was so into me and thinks won't happened!
After the date I showed too much interested.. I said , " not seeing you for two weeks will only make me want you more" because I was trying to tease him.. He took me on a long ride! He went back home for two weeks.. Silence!! He said I will be the first person he will see when he comes back .. But we lost connection .. As a Scorpio woman that hurts me.. He came back didn't text me and I said if you are not interested let me know, I can handle it! He said he wants me but he is trying to settle back in etc.. I couldn't take it ! I said that I think he is bullshitting me and holding me but never moves forward.. I said I am done with the games .. He said maybe it's not the right time for him .. I wished him all the best! I want him and he said he wants me ..he is worth it but I don't know what to do! He said he wants a relationship too but he runs away when I push ..idk

Same like my Scorpio guy. I met him at work like 7months ago. We always tease each other (I secretly like him I know he feels the same way... But I never showed it like I'm always mean to him) Until I've decided to quit cause I'm moving somewhere far & that's when he messaged me & asked me out. After our 2nd date, he told me he wanted to kiss me so bad at that night... But he stopped himself. then I played hard to get & he seem to like it & chased me but when I give in that's when he started to be distant like he don't text much anymore... I think Scorpio men don't like it when you give them too much attention it'll make them go away? They prefer it when you show them physically? Haha well I'm a Taurus they say Scorpio & Taurus attracts each other physically. Lol

Well, that's easy to read 🙂 he likes you and when you said you are moving to another place he didn't want to lose you and that pushes him to action, that's why he speeded up. Then he stopped himself of kissing you because he thought that's after you move out he will feel bad and lonely. We are complicated people and very emotional! I would suggest tell him how you feel and if you can stay other him do it! Actually funny but telling you my advice as a Scorpio woman only makes me understand my Scorpio man better now. Sometimes we get scared of our feelings and get cold.. It's like we gonna lose ourself when we fall in love! For example I always make it very complicated when I fall for someone because I don't know if I can trust the person enough to give him everything I can .. Weird! But that's the way we are.. Good luck with your guy!

We're not actually dating tho. He told me he likes me but he don't want a relationship. he opened up to me he said he was in a relationship before & got into depression when they broke up.. One of my colleague warned me about this Scorpio guy, she said he just want to sleep with me. There are lots of rumours about him flirting with married customers. I'm really confused now... I said I'm never gonna see him again. You think he just want to sleep with me?

lady i think u and that other scorpio are both crazy.....

u guys went on 1 date..... promised eachother a bunch of BS being caught in the moment like some kind of hilary duff movie... then he leaves nd realizes his stupidity and ur still there waiting for him to come back nd contact u :/ of course he didnt contact u when he got back!!!

move forward—?? after 1 date——? im still so confused by this :/

i want u

*go to zleep*

Posted by Foreign_flower
...He said he likes me. He said he is going to think about me the whole day tomorrow at work ...After the date I showed too much interested.. I said , " not seeing you for two weeks will only make me want you more" because I was trying to tease him..

I don't know if you showed too much interest because it sounds like he was laying it on pretty thick as well, but you did begin to unravel way too easily:

Posted by Foreign_flower
...He went back home for two weeks.. Silence!! He said I will be the first person he will see when he comes back .. But we lost connection .. As a Scorpio woman that hurts me.. He came back didn't text me and I said if you are not interested let me know, I can handle it! He said he wants me but he is trying to settle back in etc.. I couldn't take it !

Seriously? It was 3 weeks of whatever. I'm not even sure if you're counting to 2 weeks of silence in that 3 weeks. Given he lives a fair distance I'll assume the 3 weeks didn't involve much physical contact. My point, you got really worked up over nothing. You could have easily called him to say hi. Why didn't you? If he was ignoring your calls then you move on. Instead you chose to get "hurt" over his silence. As for this:

Posted by Foreign_flower
......I said that I think he is bullshitting me and holding me but never moves forward.. I said I am done with the games .. He said maybe it's not the right time for him .. I wished him all the best! I want him and he said he wants me ..he is worth it but I don't know what to do! He said he wants a relationship too but he runs away when I push...

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First off, no one is "holding" you. You're making a choice to sit around for this guy. You could date others while you wait until he gets himself sorted, but if you choose not to do so, own your decision.

You sound really worked up for only 3 weeks of nothing more than a breakfast date and some convo. I mean he's "worth it"? Based on what exactly? Maybe he is, but you don't know him enough and it doesn't sound like he's shown you much to make that statement. I mean the man can't even call you within a 2 week span of "settling back in", yet he's worth you putting things on hold? I'd use a different measure to decide whom to be commit to.

Lastly, if he runs when you push, perhaps don't push? Live your life and if he comes around, he comes around. You're already setting the stage for this relationship.

The following is a PSA for all the ladies, to avoid shooting your potential relationship in the skull, no matter what he fucking tells you.