Scorpio Man Scorpio woman: Advisable or not ??

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by Rituv13 on Wednesday, October 19, 2011 and has 24 replies.
Hi,
I am a Scorpio woman and just met a Scorpio man for 30 mins. & I am not able to take my mind off him.
Any suggestions ? Is it worth it to take him off my mind or do I try and persue him ahead. and how ?
I do not see myself being able to do either of the 2.
Pls suggest !!
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What does that mean ???
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Well, I am not sure if I can do it. I want a person long term in my life, not for just sex.
Moreover I am a bit shy to send a hot sexy vm to him. I really dont want to blow it off. I can do it probably if he initiates it.
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I know, that's y I am worried. Well I think he is single, that's y he met me. We officially met to know each other.
It's kinda arranged thing, where in some people who know us get us connected (through emails, etc) and we then take it further by meeting each other and trying to see if we gel, if we don't ... next. I am not sure if you are aware or you know the concept of arranged marriage. It's very common from where I come.
I have met guys before, but its never been like this. No one's ever got into my head in just 30 mins of casual talk. I can't stop thinking about him.
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"leans against wall and looks @ everybody".
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Thanks u all for this. It is indeed helpful. But I'm quite curious what the chats have to say. Where do I get them from ? I have his birth details.
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India but now working in US
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Awww. Two Venus in Scorp. How sweet smile
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Thanks a ton to u 2. I was so nervous. I guess since i know now that its a common Scorpio trait, i will learn to atleast not show it smile I would like to know more about what the charts say though.
But I will surely wait for him to come back to me smile this really makes me feel a lot better smile
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? can you pls be more clear ??
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Wow what a chart you have with all that Scorp.
What's important for now is that he has Mercury and Mars in Sagittarius, so he will hold on from showing his feelings to you untill his Cappy moon and especially Scorp Venus feel more secure.
You are much more passionate, so Elly's advice is right on. Sagittarius needs the freedom to move whenever he wants to, ok? If you want to make him happy (and feel right yourself), let him take his time smile
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will the hot sexy vm work ? I dont have the guts to do it anyways !!! forget it.
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Someone's Mars sign determines how he acts. Sagittarians put a poker face first untill they are sure. I understand your impatience, however there is a benefit in waiting (Gawd isn't this what women hear for about 10 thousand years lol) He is like that, first wants to make sure, then moves. Elly suggested you occupy your head to release that intensity somewhere more productive so tha your actions don't spoil the fun. Which would be great if you can.
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(Lol Elly I am a Pluto in Libra smile and acknowledge the Pluto in Scorp are all so special smile
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Thank you guys. How do I know if he is interested in me ? That's all I wanna know. N how long does he stars take ? Meaning how many times a week do I need to txt him to get a response ?
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Rituv,
Take it slow, don't be in a hurry. Mistakes are made when you rush things.
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I too am overwhelmed with it. The thing is I didn't contact him for 2 months n he too didn't contact me. But I had not met him then. I just met him last week. So does meeting make a diff ?
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Posted by Rituv13
I too am overwhelmed with it. The thing is I didn't contact him for 2 months n he too didn't contact me. But I had not met him then. I just met him last week. So does meeting make a diff ?


Well, meeting is a bit more than phone conversation and phone conversation is more than writing/texting.
I think at the moment that you are quite impressed by the individual, however you need to get to know him a bit
more, in person, before you start getting too tied up in knots. Remember, if you were raised to honor your
self-respect, keep those virtues in mind.
Remember, that falling in love is for serious people who are long-term minded. IF that is your aim, then
you would be wise to find out about his past to some extent. Beware of multiple girlfriends. ie think
about it if he's had a few because there is no telling how many guys his past few girlfriends had been with.
For you know, you might in fact be kissin' the cemetary.
Again, if your looking for long term (marriage) Get to know his family FIRST before considering dropping your panties
and opening your mouth.
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Well, my parents contacted his family n they got our horoscope matched n then asked d guy to get in touch with me. So v know we.can't drop our guards before we comit. I accept I'm impressed but I need him to communicate. And as u all suggested he won't do that pretty soon. So all I can do is wait. I'm Ofcourse not going to hurry up. But I do need an ans if he wishes to proceed or not. Don't u think I deserve at least so much ? N y is it that all d guys I have met till date want everything else but marriage ?
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Well that's called arranged marriage ! N its very common from.where I come. Now it all depends on how d guy n girl gel.
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Posted by DazedScorp
Posted by Rituv13
Well, my parents contacted his family n they got our horoscope matched n ?


What????
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Arranged marriages are common in the east.
Cultural and Relgious reasons.
And quite worthy of respect.
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Posted by Rituv13
Well, my parents contacted his family n they got our horoscope matched n then asked d guy to get in touch with me. So v know we.can't drop our guards before we comit. I accept I'm impressed but I need him to communicate. And as u all suggested he won't do that pretty soon. So all I can do is wait. I'm Ofcourse not going to hurry up. But I do need an ans if he wishes to proceed or not. Don't u think I deserve at least so much ? N y is it that all d guys I have met till date want everything else but marriage ?



What I think you should do is to follow up with him.
Be mindful, as you go along... to consult your parents for advice on more critical issues when in doubt. -
remember others who are not familiar with your traditions may lead you astray. Your parents or family should have
your best interests at heart.

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Yeah I know. Hope for d best. I will follow yo with him after a week now.
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Well they just check overall to see if some planets dont clash and the points matched are more than 18. Which it does. Thats all.
I doubt if his family even noticed if I am a Scorpio.
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