Hi I am a Cancer female and he is a Scorpio male, met on an online dating site we are both 54 so we are not young, I do not have any experience dating a Scorpio except one male friend, and from that I feel I understand them so well, I understand how emotional they get and why, and me and my scorpio friend get along great, he is very caring towards me and is always worried about me. They can be tough and strike with their stinger as I have felt this from him but he feels so bad afterwards that he obsesses about it and always comes to apologize to me, his girlfriend says he never apologizes but he always comes to me looking for me to forgive him, we just understand each other. Sorry for that long story, anyway I always read how we two are suppose to be a perfect match so when this Scorpio guy contacted me I became intrigued to find out if it was true. We said we would start this off as friends first and see where it goes. He came on strong, wanting to know everything about me, my family, said he wanted to know if I was close to my family that it was important to him. He kept telling me about his family, his children, their names, his life, his friends. Told me he could tell I write to him through my heart, told me he likes to send messages to me thru the dating site so he can look at my pic at the same time, told me my writing made him feel flutters in his stomach, we also email each other as he gave me his work email. We have talked about taking a cooking class together.
Here is some things he said to me:
Love the thought of sharing our likes of music,
Hi again,forgot to ask for your birthday date ,didn’t have time to scan the birthday book,you’d love looking up and reading all your loved ones,you can borrow it if you like.
I’d be flattered to join you in a class ,great way to meet.As for dancing ,yes too.
Just a quick hello and hope you got outside for some freshness,theres “diamonds” twinkling in the snow.
Hows Gina (lovely sound calling her). I’m in the “field” today , sorry forgot to mention ive no cell,(had a company phone but they deleted me),its nice to be able to send a flirt xo
We’ll be selective and creative writing each other and other times just to quick hello to make me smile.
You’re at a wonderful stage in your life and I’ve now have a new friend.
I’m looking forward to reading July 14th in my birthday book
We had a bad ice storm last night and he sent me this message today:
my daughter has the “book” at her moms ,I looked everywhere with such anticipation !! Take care outdoors ,and hope you’ve got some salt.
So does this mean he likes me, I feel like we have this great chemistry already and he has also shared with me stories of sentimental value, lots of stories filled with feelings, which I love, he is always telling me how he feels and I told him to keep writing like that as it is my thing to hear about feelings...
So my question to you all is, does he like me, does he sound genuine, should I trust him, I am a Cancer for god's sake, we are so afraid of being hurt and taken advantage of, I care too much and love too hard, this Scorpio has me letting go of my walls, my shell and that is just really scary for me....I just want to let go and feel all of this, been thru so much hurt in my life....should I let my guard down, should I let myself be happy about all this, and yeah I am a true Cancer, so sensitive
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Jun 20, 2014Comments: 1 · Posts: 3847 · Topics: 1
Just meet him and stop worrying.
He sounds like he has a Virgo Venus or some Virgo somewhere. What’s his chart?