Scorpio Man Virgo Woman

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by Lunarmoongirl on Tuesday, October 30, 2018 and has 22 replies.
Hey everyone,


Currently I’m in a very complicated situation and seriously I don’t know what to do so your comments about Scorpio men are highly appreciated! I am a Virgo woman with with lots of Virgo and Aries placements in the chart and have been dealing with a Scorpio guy who also has lots of Scorpios in his chart (Sun, Moon and Venus). We both know we love each other but are not able to take this relationship to a further stage, it feels like we are stuck and noone is willing to take to lead to make it work again. As a Virgo, for me when the guy is not dominant it is huge turun-off for me. This guy makes it obvious with his every act that he likes and cares about me but way sooo slow in getting committed to. Lately I have just cut all my communication with him and just disappeared as it is going nowhere and this feeling of stagnancy drives me nuts. He is still trying to stalk me and get the every little bit of information about me from our mutual friends yet still no action. I just expect him either to make a bold move or forget me completely and move on but he seems keeping everything on hold. Do you have any advice or suggestion about how to deal with this guy?


Thank you very much in advance.
Have you told him you want to take things to the next stage?
He's been scoping you out, and if he's still around he's waiting for you to let him know you're interested. From my experience Scorps are cautious about relationships, just like us virgo women can be. Don't open that door unless you mean it though...
Posted by CaptainSpaceLady

Have you told him you want to take things to the next stage?
I’m very cautious in the initial stage and that’s why I have not been investing much to the relationship. He came so strong to me and wanted to move so fast in the beginning but I was scared and couldn’t trust him. Then he started to distance himself which made me even more cautious as I thought maybe he has been playing with me.
Posted by Jules-ll

He's been scoping you out, and if he's still around he's waiting for you to let him know you're interested. From my experience Scorps are cautious about relationships, just like us virgo women can be. Don't open that door unless you mean it though...
I can’t trust him because he doesn’t reveal much about himself yet tries to learn everything about me and expects me to trust him. He is holding his cards so close to his chest that I have started to question his intentions to approach me
Posted by Lunarmoongirl

Posted by CaptainSpaceLady

Have you told him you want to take things to the next stage?
I’m very cautious in the initial stage and that’s why I have not been investing much to the relationship. He came so strong to me and wanted to move so fast in the beginning but I was scared and couldn’t trust him. Then he started to distance himself which made me even more cautious as I thought maybe he has been playing with me.
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He backed off because you were scared. How do you feel about him? If you want something let him know, sometimes we have to let down that mile-high virgo wall and let people in...


Some of the virgo women on DXP are thumbs down on scorpio men, but this combo works well for me. What is his mars?
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Posted by Lunarmoongirl

Posted by CaptainSpaceLady

Have you told him you want to take things to the next stage?
I’m very cautious in the initial stage and that’s why I have not been investing much to the relationship. He came so strong to me and wanted to move so fast in the beginning but I was scared and couldn’t trust him. Then he started to distance himself which made me even more cautious as I thought maybe he has been playing with me.

He backed off because you were scared. How do you feel about him? If you want something let him know, sometimes we have to let down that mile-high virgo wall and let people in...


Some of the virgo women on DXP are thumbs down on scorpio men, but this combo works well for me. What is his mars?
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I do have feelings for him but that much mystery is more than I can handle. Trust equals love for me, as he is hiding everything about him I am not able to put my trust in him which is a huge turn off. His Mars is Gemini, my Venus Leo and Mars Aries.
@Ladies, why does a Scorpio mirror you? or reply late to your message, like 2 days later as if he is responding 5 mins later?
Posted by s_i_e_r_r_a

no coz scorpio energy with aries is an abomination
To the point, it leads to power game as well imo
Posted by Lunarmoongirl

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Posted by Lunarmoongirl

Posted by CaptainSpaceLady

Have you told him you want to take things to the next stage?
I’m very cautious in the initial stage and that’s why I have not been investing much to the relationship. He came so strong to me and wanted to move so fast in the beginning but I was scared and couldn’t trust him. Then he started to distance himself which made me even more cautious as I thought maybe he has been playing with me.

He backed off because you were scared. How do you feel about him? If you want something let him know, sometimes we have to let down that mile-high virgo wall and let people in...


Some of the virgo women on DXP are thumbs down on scorpio men, but this combo works well for me. What is his mars?
I do have feelings for him but that much mystery is more than I can handle. Trust equals love for me, as he is hiding everything about him I am not able to put my trust in him which is a huge turn off. His Mars is Gemini, my Venus Leo and Mars Aries.
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You have a lot of fire, does he have any? You would probably do better with an Aries or other fire dominant if his reserve turns you off already...
Posted by tiziani

I'd ask what it is about his behaviour that's caught your attention?


Not a leading question, just one to take matters into your own hands (I realise that's what you said you don't want to do but worth a shot).
He directly came to me and expressed his interest and was persistent for awhile. This was just words though, I need actions as well. I do think we are not able to understand each others love language and are not compatible.
Posted by Jules-ll

Posted by Lunarmoongirl

Posted by Jules-ll

Posted by Lunarmoongirl

Posted by CaptainSpaceLady

Have you told him you want to take things to the next stage?
I’m very cautious in the initial stage and that’s why I have not been investing much to the relationship. He came so strong to me and wanted to move so fast in the beginning but I was scared and couldn’t trust him. Then he started to distance himself which made me even more cautious as I thought maybe he has been playing with me.

He backed off because you were scared. How do you feel about him? If you want something let him know, sometimes we have to let down that mile-high virgo wall and let people in...


Some of the virgo women on DXP are thumbs down on scorpio men, but this combo works well for me. What is his mars?
I do have feelings for him but that much mystery is more than I can handle. Trust equals love for me, as he is hiding everything about him I am not able to put my trust in him which is a huge turn off. His Mars is Gemini, my Venus Leo and Mars Aries.

You have a lot of fire, does he have any? You would probably do better with an Aries or other fire dominant if his reserve turns you off already...
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He only has one fire sign in his all chart, the rest is water and earth.
Posted by Lunarmoongirl

Posted by CaptainSpaceLady

Have you told him you want to take things to the next stage?
I’m very cautious in the initial stage and that’s why I have not been investing much to the relationship. He came so strong to me and wanted to move so fast in the beginning but I was scared and couldn’t trust him. Then he started to distance himself which made me even more cautious as I thought maybe he has been playing with me.
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If you want to be with him just tell him. He’s probably pulling back Bc he’s mirroring your withdraw so he withdrew. So maybe put yourself out there. Sounds like a classic case of mirroring to me.
In the words of @SunsetVirgo, just grab him by the dick already!
Posted by -MadHatter-

I'm not a scorpio, but how old is this guy?


Some people operate on different levels, and that's okay, all because you find each other attractive doesnt mean its relationship material. Some people dont even know what they want, so they cant initiate anything. Those people need someone to lead them, and that's cool if that's what you want to do.
He will turn to 30 in a couple of days
Posted by Jules-ll

In the words of @SunsetVirgo, just grab him by the dick already!
This works on Taurus men😭 not sure if it’ll work on a Scorpio 🤔
Posted by Sunsetvirgo

Posted by Jules-ll

In the words of @SunsetVirgo, just grab him by the dick already!
This works on Taurus men😭 not sure if it’ll work on a Scorpio 🤔
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It does! Devil
Posted by Jules-ll

Posted by Sunsetvirgo

Posted by Jules-ll

In the words of @SunsetVirgo, just grab him by the dick already!
This works on Taurus men😭 not sure if it’ll work on a Scorpio 🤔


It does! Devil
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Good to know! Lol
Posted by Jules-ll

Posted by Sunsetvirgo

Posted by Jules-ll

In the words of @SunsetVirgo, just grab him by the dick already!
This works on Taurus men😭 not sure if it’ll work on a Scorpio 🤔


It does! Devil
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now i wanna try it for myself
Posted by LostinmyMind11

Posted by Jules-ll

Posted by Sunsetvirgo

Posted by Jules-ll

In the words of @SunsetVirgo, just grab him by the dick already!
This works on Taurus men😭 not sure if it’ll work on a Scorpio 🤔


It does! Devil
Good to know! Lol
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It's worked for me...usually they don't wait though. Have fun this weekend!
Posted by Sunsetvirgo

Posted by Jules-ll

Posted by Sunsetvirgo

Posted by Jules-ll

In the words of @SunsetVirgo, just grab him by the dick already!
This works on Taurus men😭 not sure if it’ll work on a Scorpio 🤔


It does! Devil
now i wanna try it for myself
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What's stopping you?
Posted by Jules-ll

Posted by Sunsetvirgo

Posted by Jules-ll

Posted by Sunsetvirgo

Posted by Jules-ll

In the words of @SunsetVirgo, just grab him by the dick already!
This works on Taurus men😭 not sure if it’ll work on a Scorpio 🤔


It does! Devil
now i wanna try it for myself

What's stopping you?
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I don’t know any Scorp men lmaooo

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