Scorpio MAN + Virgo WOMAN - Karmic Bond ?

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by Already-use on Monday, December 19, 2016 and has 24 replies.
I know there have been some discussion about this subject ( 8 years ago) , but I really want to have a clear insight from scorpio men .I am a virgo woman and I feel that I attract scorpio men quite easily . Not everything has to do with astrology but they seem to be quite super extra intense with me .

I have venus in leo so I like the attention and the intensity . But my last two scorpios were like glue . The last one even told me he loved me the moment we met , the other was like : you mean the world to me , you are perfect , super extra loving . I mean I didn't have to guess anything , it was pretty obvious . etc .. As a virgo I'm skeptical , I don't know if I should believe it or is he playing with me .


Also the stare is like so intense - I would stare at him and just feel so much ( love , passion ..) . We have amazing conversation , we can talk for hours and there is also a lot of understanding = there were no need for us to be together all the time. I'm quite self-sufficient so I don't like to be with someone 100% of the time.

In general , they say I play hard to get , I'm just very cautious , I take my time and I'm not giving in easily .

I show I'm interested but I still have some reservation .Which they apparently like , one even told me he liked the chase smh . I'm not playing , I'm just cautious and willing to see if they are serious . Overall the sexual tension is quite awesome . It just feel so easy and natural , I feel quite comfortable to be who I am from the beginning . To be honest , I tried to get away from a scorpio but I always coming back no matter how hard I tried .


Is there really a karmic "bond" or something ?


PS : 7th house is in scorpio

No Virgo way
This sounds like the same thing that goes with me n Virgo men. But I don't feel that *karmic* kinda intensity. There's always nice chemistry but not any intensity.
Yeah exactly it's not just about relationship it's also about friendship.

Yeah I heard about scorpio and pisces , but I feel like in this type of relationship scorpios have the upper hand , they seem to be " the strongest" in the relationship . Where in virgo / scorpio I feel like the virgo won't accept the shit from scorpios .


When I mean karmic bond => great attraction + great pair together .

I'm also quite worried , and I OVERTHINK a lot , well I'm trying not to , but I feel they soothe me and I feel at ease very quick .

To be honest I love it !
I was going to post a meme (which I will later on) but honestly and truly...

I suppose this is a cool match. I SUPPOSE. Never been in a relationship w a Scorp guy but I had a crush on one. LMFAOO that was quite the experience all in itself, so I can only imagine what it's like actually dating one
But dxp is very stereotype-friendly. So the textbook pair of Scorpio X Pisces conquers here, OP. Juuuuussst letting you know
It is a Karmic thing.

Asap I saw a Virgo, I knew there was something between us. And hey, I am just Scorpio Ascendant.


Even though we don't talk much these days, I was pulled towards her and I expressed her how I felt immediately.


She being a Virgo, over analysed it and got it all wrong at the end (typical Virgo).


But, it felt karmic and almost so effortless.

We saw each other for few weeks before it all went south.

(She said I did not respect her enough, wtf!!)
The problem with this pair (I feel) is that usually the Virgo f gets wayyyyyyy too invested in a guy she's not even 100% sure feels the same way about her. I mean, Scorps get obsessed about a lot of stuff, so how can you be so sure you're the most important. And they're pretty secretive. Idk, I don't want to steer you off of this, because I agree with the weird bond between us.

I just think that Virgo can sense vibes off of people really well, and when she senses a dark unsettling vibe from the scorpio she gets curious. The Scorp notices that someone has detected the wall he's put up. So he either gets intrigued himself or weirded out that someone's noticed.

But idk
But you could try out a Leo @Op 10/10 recommend ^^^^^
I feel that as virgos we just don't mess around . I don't know about others but I'm very honest and genuine . If I like someone , I really do . If I don't well you don't stand not even a little chance .

Scorpio do indeed get passionate about a lot of things and I sometimes find it quite over the top . I tend to think that there are a lot of understanding between virgos and scorpios because it's based on trust . I do think there is a mutual curiousity .

The chemistry have always been great with them .

Karmic or whatever is the term is not what I mean - Strong intense bond , where it's easy from the start yes . To be honest I have seen a lot of virgo / scorpio couple .
Almost forgot.

My ORIGINAL answer to this:


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Karma and karmic bonds have a lot less to do with sun sign and a lot more to do with the energy one has put out in this and previous lifetimes. We're talking about things like soul contracts, etc. Familiarity, "connections" etc do not mean you have a karmic bond with another. Everything works with divine timing and soul mates, twin flames etc arrive in ones life on a schedule of manifestation.


With that being said, there are some indications of soul ties or karmic bonds in composites and synastry. For example, placements in the 12th house that are key, like the sun, moon, Venus. If you notice the glyph of Virgo and Scorpio are very similar. The reason for this is that the two signs occupy the same axis. There is familiarity there and understanding but in a lot of ways the two signs are different. It's the same principle with Virgo and Pisces being opposite. Familiarity. Notice how all three have the same negative polarity.



Therefore, familiarity and understanding do not make a karmic bond or tie. It's just a, familial(family) connection on which to build.
Earth and water relationships can be magical. Whether it be friendships, business or lovers.

I don't know what it is but, when I meet a Taurus man, he just forgets who he came with and all his attention goes to me.


Just had that happen with a Taurus man who was with a Scorpio woman.

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The problem with this pair (I feel) is that usually the Virgo f gets wayyyyyyy too invested in a guy she's not even 100% sure feels the same way about her. I mean, Scorps get obsessed about a lot of stuff, so how can you be so sure you're the most important. And they're pretty secretive. Idk, I don't want to steer you off of this, because I agree with the weird bond between us.

I just think that Virgo can sense vibes off of people really well, and when she senses a dark unsettling vibe from the scorpio she gets curious. The Scorp notices that someone has detected the wall he's put up. So he either gets intrigued himself or weirded out that someone's noticed.

But idk
Oh also, I just don't see what scorps would like about us tbh if all we do is nag nag nag. Like ? I genuinely don't know.

Like scorps like our opposite Pisces BC of their magic fairy mist or something. Like Scorp would see Virgo like "oh wow great wood dust there" LMFAOO what.
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Scorpio men have intense feelings. Virgo women don't. So, at last it's not a good pairing.
Hmm no we do. We just have trouble expressing it.

Pisces and Virgo when looked at in the deepest of sense are the same. Both helpful and intense emotionally. We just channel it differently.
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Scorpio men have intense feelings. Virgo women don't. So, at last it's not a good pairing.
Yes, we do.
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I wear my feelings on my sleeve... however... Scorpio dude is so damn cryptic/on again/off again... it make me question his motives.
We are cautious but we DO have emotions and we do care a LOT . It's just that we dont necessarily show it .
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Scorpio men have intense feelings. Virgo women don't. So, at last it's not a good pairing.
What made you say the bolded part?


I'm curious.
Yeah, sorry for the "sharp" message, I'm just coping with some Virgo shit lately.

I find Virgo women very cryptic and mind games players. They appear cold, although they are not. That's why I told that they got no feelings.
Virgo women just have a hard time understadning and expressing their own feelings. They get obessed over scorpio men though. They just don't show that side.

And yes, they can be mind game players.
I don't know, you can never know with these women.

Anyway, OP sorry for the off topic messages.

When Scorpios spend time with Virgos, yeah, you feel blessed.
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Mmm now, now. Don't think scorps are a Virgos kryptonite or anything.

You are the same Scorp whose Virgo broke up with him, yes?

If so, I followed your thread (figuratively speaking) and I'm sorry about the way she handled the breakup. But not all of us are like that, honestly speaking, I'm not sure if I could break up with a guy I was in love with like that. But I can't remember all the details.

Oh well, I'm not a huge fan of this pairing myself, but I'm just trying to help the virgos who do believe in this pairing.
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Scorpio men have intense feelings. Virgo women don't. So, at last it's not a good pairing.
What made you say the bolded part?


I'm curious.
Yeah, sorry for the "sharp" message, I'm just coping with some Virgo shit lately.

I find Virgo women very cryptic and mind games players. They appear cold, although they are not. That's why I told that they got no feelings.
Virgo women just have a hard time understadning and expressing their own feelings. They get obessed over scorpio men though. They just don't show that side.

And yes, they can be mind game players.
I don't know, you can never know with these women.

Anyway, OP sorry for the off topic messages.

When Scorpios spend time with Virgos, yeah, you feel blessed.
Mmm now, now. Don't think scorps are a Virgos kryptonite or anything.

You are the same Scorp whose Virgo broke up with him, yes?

If so, I followed your thread (figuratively speaking) and I'm sorry about the way she handled the breakup. But not all of us are like that, honestly speaking, I'm not sure if I could break up with a guy I was in love with like that. But I can't remember all the details.

Oh well, I'm not a huge fan of this pairing myself, but I'm just trying to help the virgos who do believe in this pairing.
Yeah, I'm this one. Since then, there are back and forth moments. So, I don't know if it's a virgo thing.

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Do you love her?

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Scorpio men have intense feelings. Virgo women don't. So, at last it's not a good pairing.
What made you say the bolded part?


I'm curious.
Yeah, sorry for the "sharp" message, I'm just coping with some Virgo shit lately.

I find Virgo women very cryptic and mind games players. They appear cold, although they are not. That's why I told that they got no feelings.
Virgo women just have a hard time understadning and expressing their own feelings. They get obessed over scorpio men though. They just don't show that side.

And yes, they can be mind game players.
I don't know, you can never know with these women.

Anyway, OP sorry for the off topic messages.

When Scorpios spend time with Virgos, yeah, you feel blessed.
Mmm now, now. Don't think scorps are a Virgos kryptonite or anything.

You are the same Scorp whose Virgo broke up with him, yes?

If so, I followed your thread (figuratively speaking) and I'm sorry about the way she handled the breakup. But not all of us are like that, honestly speaking, I'm not sure if I could break up with a guy I was in love with like that. But I can't remember all the details.

Oh well, I'm not a huge fan of this pairing myself, but I'm just trying to help the virgos who do believe in this pairing.
Yeah, I'm this one. Since then, there are back and forth moments. So, I don't know if it's a virgo thing.



Do you love her?

Of course yes...
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What do you love about her? If you don't mind me asking
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Scorpio men have intense feelings. Virgo women don't. So, at last it's not a good pairing.
What made you say the bolded part?


I'm curious.
Yeah, sorry for the "sharp" message, I'm just coping with some Virgo shit lately.

I find Virgo women very cryptic and mind games players. They appear cold, although they are not. That's why I told that they got no feelings.
Virgo women just have a hard time understadning and expressing their own feelings. They get obessed over scorpio men though. They just don't show that side.

And yes, they can be mind game players.
I don't know, you can never know with these women.

Anyway, OP sorry for the off topic messages.

When Scorpios spend time with Virgos, yeah, you feel blessed.
Mmm now, now. Don't think scorps are a Virgos kryptonite or anything.

You are the same Scorp whose Virgo broke up with him, yes?

If so, I followed your thread (figuratively speaking) and I'm sorry about the way she handled the breakup. But not all of us are like that, honestly speaking, I'm not sure if I could break up with a guy I was in love with like that. But I can't remember all the details.

Oh well, I'm not a huge fan of this pairing myself, but I'm just trying to help the virgos who do believe in this pairing.
Yeah, I'm this one. Since then, there are back and forth moments. So, I don't know if it's a virgo thing.



Do you love her?

Of course yes...
What do you love about her? If you don't mind me asking
Her being tender. He hugs. Her kisses. Her enthousiasm.

But all the above are being killed by her stubborn and moody nature
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The bad outweighs the good
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Scorpio men have intense feelings. Virgo women don't. So, at last it's not a good pairing.
What made you say the bolded part?


I'm curious.
Yeah, sorry for the "sharp" message, I'm just coping with some Virgo shit lately.

I find Virgo women very cryptic and mind games players. They appear cold, although they are not. That's why I told that they got no feelings.
Virgo women just have a hard time understadning and expressing their own feelings. They get obessed over scorpio men though. They just don't show that side.

And yes, they can be mind game players.
I don't know, you can never know with these women.

Anyway, OP sorry for the off topic messages.

When Scorpios spend time with Virgos, yeah, you feel blessed.
Mmm now, now. Don't think scorps are a Virgos kryptonite or anything.

You are the same Scorp whose Virgo broke up with him, yes?

If so, I followed your thread (figuratively speaking) and I'm sorry about the way she handled the breakup. But not all of us are like that, honestly speaking, I'm not sure if I could break up with a guy I was in love with like that. But I can't remember all the details.

Oh well, I'm not a huge fan of this pairing myself, but I'm just trying to help the virgos who do believe in this pairing.
Yeah, I'm this one. Since then, there are back and forth moments. So, I don't know if it's a virgo thing.



Do you love her?

Of course yes...
What do you love about her? If you don't mind me asking
Her being tender. He hugs. Her kisses. Her enthousiasm.

But all the above are being killed by her stubborn and moody nature
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I saw you PM'd me but It's not letting me see any of my PM's actually Sad
Virgo woman here, with a scorpio Venus in the 12th and scorpio rising, cancer Mars in the 8th, Pisces moon in the 4th.

To say Virgo women don't have feelings is absolutely ridiculous. I wish I felt LESS. The whole chart matters. Not just the sun.

My SO is a scorpio sun, rising, and Mars in the 1St, Virgo Venus in the 11th,and Libra moon in the 12th. Very deep. And he has AIR placements! Not all Virgos are that "cold". Js. The pairing is highly dependent on the whole chart and the synastry.
I am married (separated) to a Virgo man


We have a very strong bond (Sun-Pluto conj)



He depends on me quite a lot emotionally


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