Scorpios, can anyone decipher this for me?
I've been seeing a 37 year old Scorpio man (I'm 28 Taurus) for about a month. Only a have full of overnight visits.
Intense connection, get on fabulously.
Then last week at his place, after spending a wonderful night and day together, he just went really weird.
Like, I could practically taste the distance and switch in energy in the air around him.
I immediately blamed his mood on me overstaying my welcome. Then I got this text:
The exact text is below (English is not his first language):
"I just wanted to tell you something to look a bit less strange, it is very personal. When I was with my ex she became pregnant, but unfortunately the baby, just born, did not make it and she got sick.
She became depressed. I tried in every way to help her but the situation was no longer sustainable, it had become a nightmare, we came together in *CITY* but she could not stay here and came back to *COUNTRY*. I did not.
She says that I abandoned her, I was working only to not think about it and that's why I work so much even now!
Told in a few words, when I meet a girl who starts to like me too much, I feel strange, it's happened once, just to let you know because I think you deserve it. Here, just a few people know about it! I'm sorry for yesterday, really!
I hope it does not change much but I know it's my problem and not yours, well, now I feel better. I hope your day was good and have a sweet night!
Bye beautiful"
He's coming over tonight and we've spoken since then but I still don't understand what the ex has to do with me liking him "too much" ??? Is this a manipulation of his own feelings, is he projecting them onto me as if I like HIM too much? Or is it one of those "Scorpio tests"?
I'd love some Scorpio perspectives on this! Thank youuuuuu
Our profiles:
Him:
Sun - Scorpio
Moon - Aries
Mercury - Scorpio
Venus - Libra
Mars - Sagittarius
Rising - Aries
Me:
Sun - Taurus
Moon - Pisces
Mercury - Gemini
Venus - Taurus
Mars - Cancer
Rising - Gemini
He's emotionally unavailable.
The End.
He *still* works a lot ... so it looks like he’s *still* not over what happened & he’s wanting you to know. Don’t invest too much or at all really ... he needs to heal.