Scorpio men in love?

Hi all. Thanks in advance for taking the time to look at my post. I'd apppreciate any type of insight I can get on this. The search function is acting up my computer is old so that may have something to do with it. So if this has been asked before please forgive me for asking it again.

For one time in my life my logic isn't exactly able to make sense of this situation and I'm a little nervous.

My first love is a scorpio man. I'm an aquarius with a moon in cancer so I guess I'm a lot less aloof and more emotional than most aquarius you may meet. So I have fallen quite hard for this scorp man and I have a lot of feelings that I get confused about sometimes. I'm 29 and hes 31.

A brief background. We knew each other for many years. Then one day we started to get really close like he opened up in every way to me, no lies, no games, no manupulation nothing. I was the person he could talk to at anytime anywhere about any thing. And he never lied or played the games that people say scorpios are famous for with me. I had told him so long as he did not lie to me I wouldnt get angry at him no matter what he told me, because he didnt lie. He tested me a few times telling me some crazy stuff to see my reactions and I stayed true to my word. So from then on he never lied or played games.

Unfortunately I had to leave (it was my choice a painful one but I believe the best given the situation) I'd prefer not to get into it due to respect for his privacy. And now 6-7 years later I'm back and it seems like we have picked up from where we left off with him still as honest as ever baring his soul and self like an open book. And with me still loving him just as much as I did before.

So my question is how does a scorpio man act when he is in love? What does he say/do?

I really care for him deeply and I don't wanna risk losing him by not recogizing his feelings or showing mine in a way so that he understands how I feel. I've seen how easily hurt scorpio men can be. I also don't want to scare him off either.. Geez I'm so confused he brings out this really sweet caring, affectioniate side that I don't really show anyone but him. I really don't know what to do...

Posted by Aquariana
Then one day we started to get really close like he opened up in every way to me, no lies, no games, no manupulation nothing. I was the person he could talk to at anytime anywhere about any thing. And he never lied or played the games that people say scorpios are famous for with me.

THIS is how they behave when they are in love. Girl, you're already there. Just keep doing what your doing and being yourself, and stop worrying. That can create problems when there are none. Stop questioning. You should be happy. Just ENJOY! 🙂

Sorry if my question wasn't clear in all that. How does a scorpio man act when he is in love? What does he say/do? Cause I know how I feel about him but I'm not too sure about his feelings..

Yeah, I'm confused, too. Are you waiting for him to say "I love you?"

Because you'll have to say it first. lol

Yes I am getting a kind of vibe that makes me confused and unsure and we were just talking me writing this post gave me the courage to ask him how he honestly felt about me...he told me he is in love with me and has been for many years. But in my absence, I was gone for 6-7 years, he fell in love with someone whom he dated for 2 years.

He wasn't expecting me to ever come back and when I did it threw him for a loop. The relationship with the other person had went bad prior to me coming back and he was dating other people but he still had feelings for her. When I came back we still had the same closeness we had before and he told me how he that he still had feelings for that other person, he has never lied to me so he didnt about that.

So I knew everything he was dating, and he had feelings still for that other women and I didn't interfere with that. I just kept it as friends despite my feelings for him. But after a while 3-4 months I noticed that he started spending more time with me going out multiple times a week, on the phone every day and little by little he cut off the people he was dating. I never asked him to do so he just did.

The only thing was he would still mention the women he dated for 2 years. Now I know that it was because he was/is in love with her.

So now he tells that he is in love with me and has been for many years but hes also in love with her. Then he literally broke off contact with her saying he couldn't be with her and the other women he was dating over the phone right in front of me..I'm totally thrown for a loop..

Would it be say to say he really is in love with me moreso than that other person? I really was not expecting this and I don't want to get happy or my hopes up, and in all honesty I wonder if he did love her could he really let go all that easily as a scorpio man..

Sorry in advance if it takes me a while to post after this he is in the shower so I am using this chance to type all this..

Erase your history lol

I found tons of gems digging through my exs history... Including... *drum roll* naked men pics! haha! So yeah cover your tracks... then again he might see that you covered your tracks and become suspicious.

oh geez naked men pics?? wow

Posted by Aquariana

Would it be say to say he really is in love with me moreso than that other person? I really was not expecting this and I don't want to get happy or my hopes up, and in all honesty I wonder if he did love her could he really let go all that easily as a scorpio man..

I would take him at his word. You said yourself he's never lied and played games with you. Scorpios can be loyal to a fault, so it's natural that if he had feelings for her, it was difficult for him to let her go and caused pain. But, he did it, right? The only advice I would give at this point would be to take things slow. That way you can both be sure you are right for each other.

Posted by Eleni
...but he's also in love with her

and there lies ur problem...when a scorp man is in love there is NO OTHER...period.

ur asking these questions cuz u know he's playing u...listen to ur instinct...stop questioning it

if i were u, i'd drop him and find someone who really deserves u or until he's done "being in love with the other", whichever comes first

personally i wouldnt wait around for him...

he'll come looking for u if he truly wants u...trust me on that one

Spot on Eleni!

@LovelyScorp How do i feel? I'm happy and sad. Happy he said he loves me, sad that he also loves someone else although she is no longer around and he spends his time with me only. They don't drop feelings easily? I guess that explains him saying he has loved me for years. Maybe his feelings for the other woman will fade in time I hope.

I'm not really sure what you mean about aqua games. I was willing to go all in the first time around but it was because of a situation with him in his life that I left. It was basically terrible timing for us to be together. There was never a problem with cheating or commitment issues. And I am willing to go all in now.

@Eleni If only it were that simple to just drop it. He is my first love. The first guy I was ever in love with. For the past few years hasn't a day gone by that I haven't thought of him. Lol "he'll come looking for u if he truly wants u" The funny thing was he did come looking for me that's why I came back after all that time. I kinda figured when a scorp man is in love there is no other period. I guess that's why i got confused when he said he loved us both.

Well he's with me now and not with the other person. So I guess I should look at that as he made his choice in a way. I will take the advice to take it slow.

All you need to do to keep him is show him your post on this board,
assuring him that you just wanted to be sure you didn't lose him
by doing something wrong or missing something you should do.

PS. I bet he LOVES the way you know everybody ... work the room
and though jealous about it ... as long as he knows (tell him)
that you are going HOME with HIM at the end of the night - all good.

Posted by LovelyScorp

Posted by Aquariana
I was willing to go all in the first time around but it was because of a situation with him in his life that I left.

you don't have to share, but this is it.

you leave us once....you don't get to leave us again. we are ride or die. period.

everything may be good, just be careful. he may want you back for the sake of wanting you back. do you know what I mean?

if he told you he has feeling for the other woman he is justifying his actions for later.

just watch yourself.

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lol TMI