Scorpio men only please...Is he playing me?

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by LaDivalish on Sunday, September 4, 2016 and has 12 replies.
this sounds annoying. looks like a typical scorpio/taurus obsession/possession game. this still goes on in your 40s? christ.
He clearly wants to have sex. Relationship eh.
I love me a Scorpio guy but I have to agree with rein, this guy sounds really immature, I would keep my distance.
Him flaunting images of other women to you is childish and just disrespectful. If he wanted to lock you down he would never indulge in this behavior.

Sure your not together and he can sleep with whomever he wants. But to call you when he's in bed (presumably) with another woman is disrespectful and insulting.

There are two red flags and they both boil down to the same thing. Why be with someone who doesn't respect you?
Posted by M143
Hahaha. Im not a Scorpman but scorpio woman. had 3 scorp exes.

Sorry Taurus. He just need sex.

A scorpio interested in a relationship with you will never start that sex topic too early. Scorpio men has an integrity in courting a lady send you roses and gifts. These men are serious in approaching a lady. Now, if you threw hint that you like him and honestly speaking these men dont like a chaser. They value their lady who dont act like needy.

So how do you win a Scorpio heart? Don't do the first move. He is a man. A manly man. He takes his time in searching the real one and not just anybody he meet online. Trust me. You better start ignoring him till he knows to treat you right.
This doesn't make any sense as I read this... you two don't seem to be on the same page with each other in terms of wants.

It may be best if you let this one go. You both are 40, he's just now wanting to settle down and have kids, you don't want any and seem to have fear of intimacy.

I wish you the best.
Sounds like he has issues with women. He didn't give you a kiss, it's been six weeks lol??

The masterbation thing was probably an awkward attempt at being "sexy". Possibly a sheltered rich kid, would explain why he is 40 no kids.

Idk scorpios are strange creatures, usually hard to read too an extent.
I think he likes you, but I don't know if it's intimately or just sexually. He was willing to open up to quite a bit and has let you know to a degree and see to a degree his personal life and business life. Since there's nothing he can bring to for a relationship I say you should avoid him, because he only makes you confused. There's no benefit in that really. Scorpio men naturally somewhat play mindgames, because they don't tell you everything they're thinking. There is ALWAYS more. At least that's it for me.
Posted by Ophiuchus
this sounds annoying. looks like a typical scorpio/taurus obsession/possession game. this still goes on in your 40s? christ.
Tell me about it! I hate the whole dating thing but he´s the first in a long while to catch my eye...

Posted by Impulsv
U need to point black ask him what he wants

He's immature n trying to guage ur interest by making jelous

He probably doesn't know where he stands with U since U shown no hint of it so he is resorting to make U jelous

Granted wrong approach but how have u showed him u like him?
In all honesty, I freeze when he flirts with me and pretend I didn't hear a thing. So I know I have a hand in creating a monster but the shyness has me absolutely tongue-tied. I feel like an idiot, lol! #tooawkward
Posted by exo
Posted by LaDivalish

Two weeks in, he asks me if I am into masturbation. I blocked him outright telling him he is a virtual stranger and I would not be broaching such topics with him.

what exactly did you say when you called him a "virtual stranger"? quote?
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I said "Nope, you are a virtual stranger, and I'm not discussing anything of the sort with you. Period."
What is the "playboy gift?" Just curious.