Scorpio moved on ALREADY ?
A year long relationship full of love & happiness !! Then I get caught in a few lies we go round & round ... Trying to r...
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NOW you see why I am so hurt and flipped out and to much involved with being obsessed
Posted by WynterPosted by VenusScorpio1976
No he never caught me in any lies the entire year I always backed myself with truth and never lied to him .. The petty ones was so minor and stupid I was like UH seriously ? Like that is crazy !! Example forgetting how many days you had to spend in the hospital .. I say 5 he finds out it was 14 and that's a huge deal ? That kept him bringing it up ? Smh !!
Except it wasn't a hospital, it was Jail that you spent 14 days in.
And yes I know you said "Example" but it's this kind of air-headed Libra/Gem bullshit twisting of facts that has you in trouble with your Scorp ::shrugs::
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what in the world.
Posted by VenusScorpio1976
Except it wasn't a hospital, it was Jail that you spent 14 days in.
And yes I know you said "Example" but it's this kind of air-headed Libra/Gem bullbutter twisting of facts that has you in trouble with your Scorp ::shrugs::
THING IS there Wynter I used an example of something ...DOES IT have to be that?? Nobody SAID it was ....So do not judge had I wanted to go in depth I would have ...He knows it just a few days off
a few days? like a week or more
Posted by VenusScorpio1976
Move on. Go take a class, do some volunteer work, keep yourself busy...etc. Mr. Scorpio will come back because Scorpio males always come back around BUT, he will never take you seriously as a significant other. He will downgrade you to drunken booty call.
Impossible ..W was engaged for an entire year & here is the kicker I kept to myself ...we have a set of newborn twins ,,,He left a week before due date
drunken baby mama booty call
Posted by VenusScorpio1976
Move on. Go take a class, do some volunteer work, keep yourself busy...etc. Mr. Scorpio will come back because Scorpio males always come back around BUT, he will never take you seriously as a significant other. He will downgrade you to drunken booty call.
Impossible ..W was engaged for an entire year & here is the kicker I kept to myself ...we have a set of newborn twins ,,,He left a week before due date
how can any of us help you when you lie and omit important details. i dont know where the rabbit hole ends with you. my goodness
how can any of us help you when you lie and omit important details. i dont know where the rabbit hole ends with you. my goodness
I am not telling lies ...Idk where that come from... What I was doing was just not trying to put my whole personal issue out there
a few days? like a week or more
5
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Posted by VenusScorpio1976
how can any of us help you when you lie and omit important details. i dont know where the rabbit hole ends with you. my goodness
I am not telling lies ...Idk where that come from... What I was doing was just not trying to put my whole personal issue out there
i think you both need alot of time off from one another. alot. not for your own sanity, your kids. you also have to be ready to deal with the fact that you may be a single mom.
im a scorp moon and merc, omitting facts = lying to me. no other way around it gemster.
what happened to the engagement?
The Engagement was still there when we broke up
Thank you. I have no idea if anything is true on this thread.
VERY much true !!! There is not anything else so there rabbit hole ends with the twins which was planned
VERY much true !!! There is not anything else so there rabbit hole ends with the twins which was planned
Posted by VenusScorpio1976
Thank you. I have no idea if anything is true on this thread.
VERY much true !!! There is not anything else so there rabbit hole ends with the twins which was planned
im not even dumb enough to believe that. you 2 were engaged or was or are or not, who knows. so theres plenty more im sure. no MAN walks out on his pregnant fiance without a whole lotta other shit going on.
im not even dumb enough to believe that. you 2 were engaged or was or are or not, who knows. so theres plenty more im sure. no MAN walks out on his pregnant fiance without a whole lotta other butter going on.
BELIEVE IT!!! I have the ring on my hand still an his whole family knew about the twins buying things for them and loved me to death. I never thought he would over something as I put and that was all there was too it..I have no reason to sit here and rant and go on just for the hell of it...I mean damn
BELIEVE IT!!! I have the ring on my hand still an his whole family knew about the twins buying things for them and loved me to death. I never thought he would over something as I put and that was all there was too it..I have no reason to sit here and rant and go on just for the hell of it...I mean damn
And another thing..you were in a relationship for a year and now just gave birth. That means you got pregnant 2-3 months into this. How did that happen? Did someone forget to take their birth control?
Funny...No We planned them..We rushed our relationship from the start and I wanted kids ..Middle 30's and still none...We was HS sweethearts and 22 years later we met and it took off like a rocket
Funny...No We planned them..We rushed our relationship from the start and I wanted kids ..Middle 30's and still none...We was HS sweethearts and 22 years later we met and it took off like a rocket
Posted by VenusScorpio1976
And another thing..you were in a relationship for a year and now just gave birth. That means you got pregnant 2-3 months into this. How did that happen? Did someone forget to take their birth control?
Funny...No We planned them..We rushed our relationship from the start and I wanted kids ..Middle 30's and still none...We was HS sweethearts and 22 years later we met and it took off like a rocket
yeah...no
this is messy.... where was the voice of reason??? all the air between you 2 and no one went "hmmm, maybe this is going too fast"
Posted by IntriguedScorp
My bullshit radar is going off like a motherfucker.
word to the bird. dont no MAN in his right mind leaves his pregnant with twins fiance after the parents lover her to death and have brought things and high school sweethearts UNLESS some shit happened.
either, he has feelings for someone else, which ironically, you've already given HINT 2. OR this shit is shenanigans.
word to the bird. dont no MAN in his right mind leaves his pregnant with twins fiance after the parents lover her to death and have brought things and high school sweethearts UNLESS some butter happened.
either, he has feelings for someone else, which ironically, you've already given HINT 2. OR this butter is shenanigans.
Go back to my first post I made and how upset I was trying to type that! This is as real as it gets hon, and everything that I said is true to the core. THAT is why I AM floored!!!! Now as for someone else ?? I dont know maybe thats the only logical soultion I could come up with or he is testing me I have NO idea and have to clue how to handle it really/ OR WHAT to do ...So NOW you see why I am SO upset and obbessed over all this and confused as hell
either, he has feelings for someone else, which ironically, you've already given HINT 2. OR this butter is shenanigans.
Go back to my first post I made and how upset I was trying to type that! This is as real as it gets hon, and everything that I said is true to the core. THAT is why I AM floored!!!! Now as for someone else ?? I dont know maybe thats the only logical soultion I could come up with or he is testing me I have NO idea and have to clue how to handle it really/ OR WHAT to do ...So NOW you see why I am SO upset and obbessed over all this and confused as hell
can't believe I'm still reading this.
Believe it cause it is all true !
Believe it cause it is all true !
i mean drama like this IS possible but there is usually a 3rd party involved. someone had to have gone outside of the 2-3 month courtship, engagement, pregnancy. maybe he was with someone else b4 they met. they met, they both got swept away, but the 3rd person never was truly out of the picture.
was he completely single when you 2 met?
was he completely single when you 2 met?
Nice troll.
Posted by VenusScorpio1976
word to the bird. dont no MAN in his right mind leaves his pregnant with twins fiance after the parents lover her to death and have brought things and high school sweethearts UNLESS some butter happened.
either, he has feelings for someone else, which ironically, you've already given HINT 2. OR this butter is shenanigans.
Go back to my first post I made and how upset I was trying to type that! This is as real as it gets hon, and everything that I said is true to the core. THAT is why I AM floored!!!! Now as for someone else ?? I dont know maybe thats the only logical soultion I could come up with or he is testing me I have NO idea and have to clue how to handle it really/ OR WHAT to do ...So NOW you see why I am SO upset and obbessed over all this and confused as hell
you know whats weird. your whole mood changed as you wrote this. im even amazed that i felt that. you suddenly were not erratic but calm as you talked about the possibility of someone else.
Posted by VenusScorpio1976
Also ... Him saying " I have no feelings left in us " .. Means he no longer is in love me with & no chance in hell of him missing me & regretting it ? After a year ? OR is it him pushing me away & saying out of spite & hurt .... Rebound maybe ?
was the relationship a rebound?
was he completely single when you 2 met?
He had broke up with a girl he really liked over something stupid HE said that lives close and works near him...He added her back to B too after our split actually first oe he added back so idkou know whats weird. your whole mood changed as you wrote this. im even amazed that i felt that. you suddenly were not erratic but calm as you talked about the possibility of someone else.
its called XANAX
He had broke up with a girl he really liked over something stupid HE said that lives close and works near him...He added her back to B too after our split actually first oe he added back so idkou know whats weird. your whole mood changed as you wrote this. im even amazed that i felt that. you suddenly were not erratic but calm as you talked about the possibility of someone else.
its called XANAX
did u have the twins yet?
Yes on the 8th
Posted by IntriguedScorp
Don't do anything foolish. Put the Xanax down and step away from the vodka. Your hormones are going crazy because you just had children which may be affecting you right now. Just remember it always gets better. Always. Eventhough it might not feel like it right now. You never know what wonderful things are waiting for you around the corner and maybe Scorp guy was actually an impediment to you.
i dont believe that xanax line. too convenient.
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Ex-spouse still receive drunken booty calls. It can happen. Kids or no kids. Once upon a time, you were something special in his life. But, fast forward to the present and you are not. I am not trying to sound mean but, I think that there is a 3rd Party involved in some way. It could be someone from WAY before you guys got together. And it might not be a physical relationship. It could just be that he's emotionally attached to someone else. Regardless, he does not seem to want you.
The worst thing that you can do is hang on or try to use your twins as leverage over him.
The worst thing that you can do is hang on or try to use your twins as leverage over him.
And, to lose feelings for you that easy? LOL I vote you betrayed the man or talked behind his back. And you have a Gemini moon to go with a Libra sun and telling lies... did you cheat on him maybe, lie about it? Just a question
I did not cheat no....NOW the talk behind his back >> my FB blew up with stuff and I had no idea he could see it somehow bc I thought it wasnt to see for him I deleted him
this was right after the break up friends was floored and went off
I did not cheat no....NOW the talk behind his back >> my FB blew up with stuff and I had no idea he could see it somehow bc I thought it wasnt to see for him I deleted him
this was right after the break up friends was floored and went off
Posted by VenusScorpio1976
Yes on the 8th
2 saggis with venus in scorpios...possible libra moons.
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Posted by firewaterearthpiscesvenus
Ex-spouse still receive drunken booty calls. It can happen. Kids or no kids. Once upon a time, you were something special in his life. But, fast forward to the present and you are not. I am not trying to sound mean but, I think that there is a 3rd Party involved in some way. It could be someone from WAY before you guys got together. And it might not be a physical relationship. It could just be that he's emotionally attached to someone else. Regardless, he does not seem to want you.
The worst thing that you can do is hang on or try to use your twins as leverage over him.
Ok, if you were high school sweethearts then it is someone whom he encountered along the way.
Either way go get counseling and let him go.
Seriously ??? I wish this all was not true but it is and no its who I said I am this is crazy
My TWINS are in NICU unit Where I have been for the past 2 weeks damn
My TWINS are in NICU unit Where I have been for the past 2 weeks damn
Posted by DMVPosted by VenusScorpio1976
Yes on the 8th
2 saggis with venus in scorpios...possible libra moons.click to expand
plus they have venus sq saturn AND moon sq pluto, moon sq uranus. venus sq saturn points to unresolved issues with the father. either he wasnt in the picture because he worked alot or he just wasnt around. moon sq pluto points to issues with the mama especially the moon/uranus aspect.
your kids will need ALOT of nurturing early on. venus sq saturn especially with both being in scorpio will be a challenge for them.
Posted by IntriguedScorp
Oh boy...bad mouthing him in public. This is NEVER ever going to happen again. Best you forget about him and try to get your life together. Forget him for your own sake.
yeah youve made him look inferior to your friends and possibly family.
Posted by VenusScorpio1976
And, to lose feelings for you that easy? LOL I vote you betrayed the man or talked behind his back. And you have a Gemini moon to go with a Libra sun and telling lies... did you cheat on him maybe, lie about it? Just a question
I did not cheat no....NOW the talk behind his back >> my FB blew up with stuff and I had no idea he could see it somehow bc I thought it wasnt to see for him I deleted him
this was right after the break up friends was floored and went off
so you deleted him so that he wouldnt be able to see what was being said about him? you also said that you erased a post about moving on trying to entice him. so u were back being friends?
Posted by DMV
Posted by VenusScorpio1976
Yes on the 8th
2 saggis with venus in scorpios...possible libra moons.
plus they have venus sq saturn AND moon sq pluto, moon sq uranus. venus sq saturn points to unresolved issues with the father. either he wasnt in the picture because he worked alot or he just wasnt around. moon sq pluto points to issues with the mama especially the moon/uranus aspect.
your kids will need ALOT of nurturing early on. venus sq saturn especially with both being in scorpio will be a challenge for them.
I got cold. Chills off that dead on hon he's a truck driver 6 days. A week and I live on a military base about to be discharged if I don't resign we haven't got to be with each other in months
Posted by VenusScorpio1976
Yes on the 8th
2 saggis with venus in scorpios...possible libra moons.
plus they have venus sq saturn AND moon sq pluto, moon sq uranus. venus sq saturn points to unresolved issues with the father. either he wasnt in the picture because he worked alot or he just wasnt around. moon sq pluto points to issues with the mama especially the moon/uranus aspect.
your kids will need ALOT of nurturing early on. venus sq saturn especially with both being in scorpio will be a challenge for them.
I got cold. Chills off that dead on hon he's a truck driver 6 days. A week and I live on a military base about to be discharged if I don't resign we haven't got to be with each other in months
so you deleted him so that he wouldnt be able to see what was being said about him? you also said that you erased a post about moving on trying to entice him. so u were back being friends?
No we are not back friends on there .. U can make a post public ., someone on my friends list told him had to not sure who
No we are not back friends on there .. U can make a post public ., someone on my friends list told him had to not sure who
No I deleted bc we broke up but. Get this I block him mad he blocks me I unblock him he unblocks me Smh I mean really ?
hahah the ol blocking game. take some time off. leave him BE.
Posted by DazedScorpPosted by VenusScorpio1976
It's real love hon that's why .. Soulmates only come 1 time in your lifetime
I bed to differ.
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Man, Dazed I know this was a typo, but WHAT A TYPO! Love....
Posted by WynterPosted by VenusScorpio1976
No he never caught me in any lies the entire year I always backed myself with truth and never lied to him .. The petty ones was so minor and stupid I was like UH seriously ? Like that is crazy !! Example forgetting how many days you had to spend in the hospital .. I say 5 he finds out it was 14 and that's a huge deal ? That kept him bringing it up ? Smh !!
Except it wasn't a hospital, it was Jail that you spent 14 days in.
And yes I know you said "Example" but it's this kind of air-headed Libra/Gem bullshit twisting of facts that has you in trouble with your Scorp ::shrugs::
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No judgement, just a question: do you seriously think this is a simple white lie?
*sigh* all the advise given was really really good, however when you present half truths and omit information the advice can only help you so much because it's based on WHAT you presented. In any case, good luck.
Posted by VenusScorpio1976
how can any of us help you when you lie and omit important details. i dont know where the rabbit hole ends with you. my goodness
I am not telling lies ...Idk where that come from... What I was doing was just not trying to put my whole personal issue out there
I understand ^^^this well, but if you ask for advice on a relationship that is broken because of a fight and lies you've said you need to truthfully state what the lies are and to *some extent*, what the fight was about to receive the "best" advice available.
Posted by VenusScorpio1976
"im not even dumb enough to believe that. you 2 were engaged or was or are or not, who knows. so theres plenty more im sure. no MAN walks out on his pregnant fiance without a whole lotta other shit going on".
BELIEVE IT!!! I have the ring on my hand still an his whole family knew about the twins buying things for them and loved me to death. I never thought he would over something as I put and that was all there was too it..I have no reason to sit here and rant and go on just for the hell of it...I mean damn
Yet, you said that he just cut you off, plans to cut off the phone and stated he just doesn't have feeling for you/us anymore. Someone doesn't just stop caring as deeply as you're say he felt for you and leave his new born twins without some other stuff going on. Now, I'm not saying he didn't have issues (solely based on what you posted ) or that this is all your fault--who knows--but this deep connection your presenting doesn't just blow up due a "few white lies" and a 2 day fight .
Posted by DMVPosted by IntriguedScorp
My bullshit radar is going off like a motherfucker.
word to the bird.click to expand
Lawd, DMV....
Posted by VenusScorpio1976
And, to lose feelings for you that easy? LOL I vote you betrayed the man or talked behind his back. And you have a Gemini moon to go with a Libra sun and telling lies... did you cheat on him maybe, lie about it? Just a question
I did not cheat no....NOW the talk behind his back >> my FB blew up with stuff and I had no idea he could see it somehow bc I thought it wasnt to see for him I deleted him
this was right after the break up friends was floored and went off
If you have mutual friends he can still see your post. He just needs to use their page to lurk...
I never understood why people 1) put their relationship status on social media site 2) decide to play out their romantic drama on social media site. Set some boundaries and show some respect for your/his personal business--esp if this is the man you plan to be with. So, if you happen to get back together now you friends think he's an assh*le and better still, he knows your friends think he's an assh*le. Very comfortable indeed.
Posted by PhoenixRisingPosted by VenusScorpio1976
And, to lose feelings for you that easy? LOL I vote you betrayed the man or talked behind his back. And you have a Gemini moon to go with a Libra sun and telling lies... did you cheat on him maybe, lie about it? Just a question
I did not cheat no....NOW the talk behind his back >> my FB blew up with stuff and I had no idea he could see it somehow bc I thought it wasnt to see for him I deleted him
this was right after the break up friends was floored and went off
If you have mutual friends he can still see your post. He just needs to use their page to lurk...
I never understood why people 1) put their relationship status on social media site 2) decide to play out their romantic drama on social media site. Set some boundaries and show some respect for your/his personal business--esp if this is the man you plan to be with. So, if you happen to get back together now you friends think he's an assh*le and better still, he knows your friends think he's an assh*le. Very comfortable indeed.click to expand
me neither. i would never be friends with my boyfriend, husband, whathaveyou. we would only have one page together.
yeah Phoenix, the scorp has definitely been a bad boy and he has some secrets of his own, maybe 1976 will share. scorpio fathers do not take child-rearing lightly, especially if its a first born. they will either procreate everywhere or they will be very choosy. i dont know which scorp yours is 1976. but like i said no man, scorpio or not, is going to leave his fiancee, pregnant with twins, and risk getting cursed out by his own family (especially the grandmother). the only time i can think of if a father would not be there is if paternity is in question OR these are not his first born. you mentioned that YOU didnt have any kids, but didnt mention if he had some previously.
1976, does your moon make any aspects to pluto? does it sit in the 8th? that would point toward a difficult birth that probably runs in either of your families. are the twins boys or girls?
were YOU completely single when you 2 got together? i ask because i have a few friends who have been in the military and well, 3somes and swinging is all too common. no judgements here. i got voted biggest ho on DXP.
im not placing all the blame on you, that would be far too naive. i know scorpios are just as good as cancers with playing things close to the chest. I remember another poster (who i liked fondly) who was engaged to a scorpio and found out that he had a whole other life going on with another women. so its quite possible to have been led astray and feel blindsided.
so, what bad aspects do you 2 have? the squares and oppositions. to some extent the conjunctions?
and why the fuck is he paying for your phone if you live on a military base getting all those good rebates/discounts and shit.
Posted by P-Angel
What the fuck is the matter with a person's mind, that they have no control over such dramatic needy emotions?
So, it took you guys 10 pages of her bullshit to realize what I detected in one Opening Post?
Really?
How dense does that make you all?
http://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/scorpio/Stunng-bad-!!it-really-over-3562107.asp
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