Scorpio Needing Advice on Pisces Woman

I am am a 42year old Scorpio Man dating a 44year old pisces woman. We have been dating for about 8 months now. At first when we met she told me she had been in a 2 year relationship with a guy and had broken off. The guy ended up marrying someone else 3 months later after they broke off. She did tell me in the beginning of the relationship she was not ready for a relationship. She said lets date and see what happens. Well at first everything was great. We kissed passionately. We made love passionately. She got to know my family and loved them. Then these last several months she has changed. She stopped kissing me. We hardly make love anymore. Before she would call me every morning and for several months now she doesn't do that anymore. For her birthday and valentine's day I took half of my day off to go in person at her work and dropped of dozen roses, teddy bears, bracelet, chocolates, and other goodies for her. I always open the car door for her. I buy her a rose just about everyweek and tell her how much I love her. She has yet to tell me that she loves me. She keeps telling me to give her time. She tells me that she is not ready. I tell her i understand but why did she stop kissing me and why is it that she hardly ever wants to make love anymore. We talk on the phone everyday and work out at the gym together 5 days a week. We go to the park and go feed turtles and ducks and some stray cats that are there. I have tried to read on pisces women likes and dislikes and I thought pisces women fell in love fast. She has not. I don't want to lose her. I am so in love with her...Please help!! Need Advice...

1) Change your name. "Freddy" is a big sign on your back that says "Kick me!"
2) You don't ask Scorpio people about Pisces Women - That's what the Pisces forum is for.
3) Change your name to "Leo". It suits you better.
4) I don't care what they say about you, it's all true.
5) Good day.

I feel for you Freddy I really do! My ex was a Scorpio and he is still trying to chase me and get me back but I am with my Virgo man now and love him and just don't have those feelings for the Scorpio I don't think I ever had the feelings for my Scorpio ex like I do my Virgo yet my Scorpio treated me like a true Princess,Flowers,cards,gifts,vacations ect and my Virgo man is so hard to figure out not romantic at all non emotional can be cold and distant sometimes and other times all over me esp when I ignore him back he drives me crazy yet I am so madly in love with him and yes I fell in love with my Virgo man fast!.

I think what "stinger baby" said has some truth to us Pisces I know sounds awful right! But I secretively do like to be dominated by my man mushy sentiments is really nice sometimes.... but to much for me I get turned off. I like a man to be a man let her Chase you! Trust me if you ignore her she will come running to you in a couple days, tell her your busy and have such and such to do and you will call her when you get a chance stop talking everyday! don't be so Available to her all the time, slow down on the mushy stuff and trust me if she likes/loves you she will come after you!

Posted by Piscescorp
*I agree with the advice here, same thing I was trying to tell him*

+ 1

Fred, it seems like your mermaid has been swimming away for quite some time now. You must understand the waters which they live in as their home is not a place where you can contain them, it is boundless and endless, once they decide to go, let them, you can not force them to stay no matter how much you grovel or throw yourself down for her. Please for the sake of being a worthwhile Scorpio, gather yourself together, get some sort of emotional/mental grip. Take a step back, breathe, you are so lost in this jumble of a mess, focusing on one minute detail you have lost sight of the bigger picture, which is her swimming off. Let it be, work on you, who knows that may be the very key to drive her interest back, you as the complete utter melting pot right now will not get you that remote chance.

Otherwise good luck 🙂

Posted by freddy42
I am am a 42year old Scorpio Man dating a 44year old pisces woman. We have been dating for about 8 months now. At first when we met she told me she had been in a 2 year relationship with a guy and had broken off. The guy ended up marrying someone else 3 months later after they broke off. She did tell me in the beginning of the relationship she was not ready for a relationship. She said lets date and see what happens. Well at first everything was great. We kissed passionately. We made love passionately. She got to know my family and loved them. Then these last several months she has changed. She stopped kissing me. We hardly make love anymore. Before she would call me every morning and for several months now she doesn't do that anymore. For her birthday and valentine's day I took half of my day off to go in person at her work and dropped of dozen roses, teddy bears, bracelet, chocolates, and other goodies for her. I always open the car door for her. I buy her a rose just about everyweek and tell her how much I love her. She has yet to tell me that she loves me. She keeps telling me to give her time. She tells me that she is not ready. I tell her i understand but why did she stop kissing me and why is it that she hardly ever wants to make love anymore. We talk on the phone everyday and work out at the gym together 5 days a week. We go to the park and go feed turtles and ducks and some stray cats that are there. I have tried to read on pisces women likes and dislikes and I thought pisces women fell in love fast. She has not. I don't want to lose her. I am so in love with her...Please help!! Need Advice...

Could you post your charts please?

Posted by freddy42
She has yet to tell me that she loves me. She keeps telling me to give her time. She tells me that she is not ready.

Have a frank talk,lay your cards on the table and ask her what is that she is not ready for?Relationship/commitment/emotional involvement of a deeper kind?Demand an honest answer and settle for nothing less than that.Open and honest communication is the key to any successful relationship.

This has nothing to do with her being pisces, it has more to do with her fear.
Sort it.