Scorpio/sag cusp lying to me?

Stories aren't matching up.

Scorpio says he drinks and even says he might come out drinking with me and my friend and then later I'm talking to my sister and she says he doesn't like drinking at all. But he could be saying that just to impress her cus she's not for drinking at all.

I've noticed that a lot with scorpio guys, they will say one thing then change what they thing to fit with what the other person wants to hear.

Anyone else been through this? It's pretty annoying when you trust someone (I'm sagi so I'm very trusting) and they turn out to be liars.

Thats kind of weird. Sor/sag here.. I don't ever lie, but I do frequently contradict myself (at least it appears that way to others). Theres always a reason that makes sense to have it both ways in my head though. I wonder what his reason is, I highly doubt he's lying OR trying to impress anyone. At least I wouldn't be. Probably just some convoluted reason that looks contradictory but isn't.

oh YES.....some scorpio men think that your so blinded by the passion that they can say whatever and you wont be paying attention.

they switch up all the time. its a character flaw that some of them have.

you cannot lie to a sag woman!

now to catch him in an actual lie is tough. they just say things in different ways. gotta pay attention

I think catching him in the lie will be easy. Getting him to fess up...not that may be hard...maybe if I tag team it. I need solid proof that he drinks tho. So if he goes out with me you bet I'm gonna tell my sister and then call him out on it.
You're right. No one lies to a sag women. That's something I will not tolerate

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you need a sag bad

Idk I think a sag would see him as too clingy. Libras tend to be that way...maybe thats an air sign thing cus gems tend to be clingy too... or maybe that's just them clinging to me -.-

Lol I don't have many guys lie to me. I think as long as I don't catch it then I don't mind so much. I'm all about being able to work the system so if you're smart enough to outsmart me then I guess I deserved it.
This guy just doesn't know how to play the game right tho... so disappointing

Posted by THEKingofLibra

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you need a sag bad

Do Sags take care of boners? Cause I have needs you know.. I need it taken care of, sucked dry and placed back in my pants. Ain't no use for me if you just staring at it. Its not gonna suck itself, honey.

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sorry i already made plans to give my sag dude the best blow job of his life tonight.

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you need a sag bad

Do Sags take care of boners? Cause I have needs you know.. I need it taken care of, sucked dry and placed back in my pants. Ain't no use for me if you just staring at it. Its not gonna suck itself, honey.

sorry i already made plans to give my sag dude the best blow job of his life tonight.

Thats tonight. Are you booked for rest of the week?

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your answer is why i love libras!

i do have a former libra fling coming over later on, he hasnt told me when....he said it will be surprise

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Posted by happykitsune
Idk I think a sag would see him as too clingy. Libras tend to be that way...maybe thats an air sign thing cus gems tend to be clingy too... or maybe that's just them clinging to me -.-

Lol I don't have many guys lie to me. I think as long as I don't catch it then I don't mind so much. I'm all about being able to work the system so if you're smart enough to outsmart me then I guess I deserved it.
This guy just doesn't know how to play the game right tho... so disappointing

And as for you, I'm not taking the bait again. Sags may be wise, but Libras would wipe the floor with you intellectually. Don't even go there 😛

Just be glad we like to bang some Sags, you get far more out of this arrangement than we do. We still have to deal with firey PMS and clingy Sags in heat like they are 8 months preggo. Sex is good, but really compulsive and unemotional at times. We are getting used and it feels wrong, but shit if I'm complaining.

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omg a sag in heat! story of my life lol

do you really feel used? i could see that

yeah love cuddling with my libras....you guys are good cuddlers

Sex is not a sign that I love or even like you. I do it when I'm horney. If I really like you I will make you wait for sex because I want to keep you around.
Ever hear the saying don't confuse sex with love? Yeah, we go by that.

That's prob why I find libras clingy...you guys think too much of sex and it makes me want to cringe and leave

Posted by THEKingofLibra
Sags are pretty much always trying to escale cuddling into sex by either touching my dick or just engulfing it with their pussy. Horny fuckers! Wish you were more loyal though.. I won't tolerate cheating. And not like yeah I guess we'll just break up, naw bitch there is gonna be consequences.

i do escalate cuddling into more sex. why the hell not? lol. its win-win for us both!

i usually just snatch the covers us and proceed to sucking. my libra used to tell me to HEEL.

we are loyal, once committed

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Yeah I am an expert cuddler. The leo chicks are fun to cuddle if you give her a nice stern backrub followed with a rubdown, and Sags are pretty much always trying to escale cuddling into sex by either touching my dick or just engulfing it with their pussy. Horny fuckers! Wish you were more loyal though.. I won't tolerate cheating. And not like yeah I guess we'll just break up, naw bitch there is gonna be consequences.

We are very loyal. It's when you don't define the relationship that we people call us cheaters. If it's not serious then why bother to hold ourselves to one person.

Posted by happykitsune
Sex is not a sign that I love or even like you. I do it when I'm horney. If I really like you I will make you wait for sex because I want to keep you around.
Ever hear the saying don't confuse sex with love? Yeah, we go by that.

That's prob why I find libras clingy...you guys think too much of sex and it makes me want to cringe and leave

i couldnt have written that better myself......

It's only more within a commited relationship

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Sex is a commitment.. its not given out casually. And I certainly find that a huge turn off if you don't think its more than just physical exercise.

sex is a vitamin. for some signs, its hard to comprehend the way some saggis view sex

Posted by THEKingofLibra
Shit the reason why I haven't had it in 5+ years is cause its fucking disgusting that random bitches don't think of it twice. I could just as well sit home and masturbate with a person I love the most. Me! Why the fuck would I go out to a party, waste money on drinks, listen to your psychobabble, rent a hotel room, just to stick it in your std infested cunt, when I could save myself the time and get it down in under 10 minutes, and then go back to reading whatever random shit I fancy that night.

if that works for you. it works for you

Posted by THEKingofLibra
Well when that crab hooked up with another crab, I felt disgusted for her (I called her a jump off hoe), and it was my idea of her that was shattered. I mean sure I don't put women on pedestals anymore, but still I thought I had more respect for her than what the reality turned out to be. Always sucks when you get disappointed to learn what kind of a slut a chick is

that slut could be just as hurt as you are right now. there was something that happened to her to not place her own self on a pedestal.

hurt people, hurt other people

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Well when that crab hooked up with another crab, I felt disgusted for her (I called her a jump off hoe), and it was my idea of her that was shattered. I mean sure I don't put women on pedestals anymore, but still I thought I had more respect for her than what the reality turned out to be. Always sucks when you get disappointed to learn what kind of a slut a chick is

you ever think you could have been that guy who rescues her from herself?

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Well when that crab hooked up with another crab, I felt disgusted for her (I called her a jump off hoe), and it was my idea of her that was shattered. I mean sure I don't put women on pedestals anymore, but still I thought I had more respect for her than what the reality turned out to be. Always sucks when you get disappointed to learn what kind of a slut a chick is

that slut could be just as hurt as you are right now. there was something that happened to her to not place her own self on a pedestal.

hurt people, hurt other people

I think she dated this guy and lived with him for a while, it was a long term relationship (4 or so years), whatever it didn't work out so she was all sad or something.

But then I came along. I was interested, she seemed interested, I did all the physical contact and let her know I am interested, hell even done the so uncharacteristic for me Scorpio stare at her.. I mean shit she made my cusp come out on this one. Made me feel all sorts of intense shit, and then she pretty much shags up with a crab, in the same house I was sleeping in. I don't know if she tried to make me feel jealous, but it certainly worked. Jealousy and anger, not something you want to experience

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ok no, yes that was not a nice thing for her to do

I haven't read everything but your original post because I'm feeling lazy today but....I say the same thing as this guy. I drink, I'll go drink with mates...but I don't drink.

The thing about that is I only drink socially if a mate is doing it and I'll only have one or two drinks...so in my head both answers are true. In saying that, though, I won't flat out say something like "Oh I never drink, I'm absolutely against alcohol!". It will either be "Yeah, I drink, let me know if you want to go out some time." Or "Yeah I don't really drink alcohol".

Maybe to people who aren't in my head that may seem like a lie but to me it doesn't...I'm big on words so the 'really' means a lot to me and I look for it when others use certain words...I don't know...maybe I'm weird 😛

When someone says something to me and then to someone else and that someone else talks to me about it, I usually ask what they had said word for word...because other people paraphrase things (innocently) and it can totally change it's context.

So he's either doing the same thing or flat out lying.

^^^ Thanks. That helps a lot. I did think about that.

We all have things that we don't tolerate. I don't mind manipulation as long as you're good at it. I do mind lying if you get caught tho

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dmv and happy, it's interesting how you two view sex like a sag while you both have scorp moon. conflicts ever?

as long as sex stays on the superficial level, im sagitarrian. when dudes wanna get close, in pops scorpio moon to test their resolve. then i will throw in a little venus in cap for some confusing hot/cold action. sprinkle in some mars in virgo sex to send them off into LA LA land. if all that turns them on and they STILL want a relationship, they may have just struck gold.

scorp moon takes full control when my emotions start to get involved.

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Or it's using astrology to defend your less than desirable traits maybe ?

astrology has helped me put a "finger" on why i do the things that i do. its been like an awakening.

less desirable traits? naw, i dont have any of those. to love me is to love ALL of me.

ok let me re write it.

90% of the time, im just interested in sex and having a good time. i will sleep with whomever floats my boat. my heart/love is a different story. completely seperate from sex. when feelings from both parties start to develop, my first reaction is to hear them, feel them, and see them out. i dont dive into love recklessly, but interestingly enough i know that i love the other person probably from the first intial contact, but i dont give my heart to just anyone. so i make men work for it. some advance and some do not. some can handle my personality and others cant. its not a hard personality but it is strong and different. your going to work for every inch of my heart. im going to study you and figure out who you are from the stuff you are telling me and what your not.

i have to test their resolve. i dont like a normal life. its unstable as fuck. but its a fortunate fun life and i cant just share my blessings with any ol dude.

i have to be comfortable to completely open up to someone. trust is big with me. if i cant trust you, i cant open up. this process of evaluation can take days, weeks, months. and its unpredictable. i internalize my emotions untill im ready to talk about them. im an akward customer in love.

i dont move on from love as easy as the next person. so when i do fall in love, i AIM to be with that person forever. when it doesnt work out its devestating. if i love the other person, i will be anything they want me to be. anything. after a breakup, im an emotional cesspool. no one is safe. i dont care who i act up on. im mean. the only person who an heal me is the one who caused me pain.

i need my potential partner to be OPEN with me. id rather not play manipulative games, but i will and on whoever i need to. the dude may do something that i dont care for, so i withdraw to think things through. if im allowed to think without interruption, i can come to a rational answer. men dont realize how much power they have over me and over the flow and direction of the relationship.

meanwhile, im still sexing you like nobodys buisness and happily allowing you to join my circus.

if the dude thinks that he's met his dream girl after some undetermined time. he's right. i just have to make sure that HE knows that hes right.

i dont think i have undesirable traits. if you love me, you will desire them all.

its kinda l

* i initially answered with astrology because the question related to astrology.

im one of those people who believes in love at first sight. i know that im in love but im not saying shit till im comfortable. while im courting the dude, its like im discovering more reason why im in love and validating my own love.

sex is different. sex is essential to my bodliy functions.

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dmv and happy, it's interesting how you two view sex like a sag while you both have scorp moon. conflicts ever?

scorp moon takes full control when my emotions start to get involved.

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Aye, same here. I've gone through a bit with relationships so I'm very cautious on who I let see my emotions or "mess" with them. That's why the sagi part of me is the one taking over when I feel the urge to sex it up.
Sometimes my scorp moon decides to get the best of me tho and I'll have those times where I don't want to have sex because I just want a relationship.
I was in a thing for almost 3 yrs tho where I was having sex with someone I loved who didn't want to be with me...I won't let that happen again if I can help it. Conflicts? Yes

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"90% of the time, im just interested in sex and having a good time. i will sleep with whomever floats my boat. my heart/love is a different story."

your sag.

"i have to be comfortable to completely open up to someone. trust is big with me. if i cant trust you, i cant open up. this process of evaluation can take days, weeks, months. and its unpredictable. i internalize my emotions untill im ready to talk about them. im an akward customer in love."

your cap.

"i dont move on from love as easy as the next person. so when i do fall in love, i AIM to be with that person forever."

your scorp.

"men dont realize how much power they have over me and over the flow and direction of the relationship."

VERY interesting. i feel the same way, but i hide it well. my scorp dominates, but he thinks i dominate. so we try to work together and get things balanced out.

and i understand better now. the difference between sags and scorps with sex is that we usually can't just fuck around - just have sex for the sake of sex. there has to be strong feelings/love involved. sags separate the two, but your scorp moon is still looking for intense love.

yep thats the difference. sex is like religion to scorpios.

i do find that once i do have those intense feelings, sleeping with the person takes on a whole other meaning. sometimes i dont even want to sleep with that person. i just want to be close to them.

yes, i dont have as much control over myself as i would like to when im in love. the person usually controls me and they dont even know it! i definitely want to please the other person.

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dmv and happy, it's interesting how you two view sex like a sag while you both have scorp moon. conflicts ever?

scorp moon takes full control when my emotions start to get involved.

Aye, same here. I've gone through a bit with relationships so I'm very cautious on who I let see my emotions or "mess" with them. That's why the sagi part of me is the one taking over when I feel the urge to sex it up.
Sometimes my scorp moon decides to get the best of me tho and I'll have those times where I don't want to have sex because I just want a relationship.
I was in a thing for almost 3 yrs tho where I was having sex with someone I loved who didn't want to be with me...I won't let that happen again if I can help it. Conflicts? Yes

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i definitely agree that there are times where i just want to love the shit outta somebody.

Yes the person I like tends to have a lot of control over me as well... this is usually after a while has passed tho