Scorpio & Sagittarius - How Does It Usually Go

Someone posted something similar on the Sag forum but I thought it would be better to come straight to the source....

Had some experience (and disappointment) in this area myself...so I'd like to hear what others have experienced to try to define where I'm at. Also simply because I'm curious.

Have at it.

Posted by JustaSag
Someone posted something similar on the Sag forum but I thought it would be better to come straight to the source....

Had some experience (and disappointment) in this area myself...so I'd like to hear what others have experienced to try to define where I'm at. Also simply because I'm curious.

Have at it.

You already know. Go write your blog.

If I knew I wouldn't be here, I can assure you of that 😉

"The relationship stories from users here typically have drawn out, painful back and forth endings. I do know of a few outside the boards that work though.

I think the main problem is that both signs are very sensitive in completely different ways. Sag seems blunt and strong all the time, like nothing Scorp does or says could hurt them. Scorp seems controlled/controlling, like they're always out for themselves first.

They seem to work best when there's mutual Saturn aspects or earth energy between the charts. Tones down all the emotionalism of fire/water. They have that typical fire/water issue, where both people are emotionally driven but in opposite ways." - FrostAndBite

Posted by JustaSag
If I knew I wouldn't be here, I can assure you of that 😉

MrFirebird,

I don't know you, I don't have any problem with you. You seem intent on creating one though.

For anyone else that would like to contribute, I'd love to see what you have to say.

—Hold out baits to entice the enemy. Feign disorder, and crush him.?? — Sun Tzu

My last three exes have been Scorpios. I'm guessing my Venus in Scorpio attracts them.
The first one is a great guy he is probably the most devoted and loyal man I have ever met. We fell for each other pretty quickly but things didn't work out due to certain circumstances. Two years later he is still trying to get back together.
The second one was on and off (not so much an ex more like dating). He was very private and we would go thru periods with no contact at all. He was more on the mysterious and secretive side. He professed his love for me and altho he is very attractive I felt like the chemistry was too physical attraction based. Mentally/intellectually we didn't mesh that well so I had to let it go.
Third one was honestly just a complete lunatic. Seemed fine when we first got together but later found out he had many issues. When I tried to break things off with him after our constant arguments and him freaking out at me out of the blue, he threatened my life so needless to say he is one of the few exes I did not keep around as a friend. He still contacts me once in a while with long emails pouring his heart out saying he wants me back. Thanks but no thanks.

Overall, I love the level of passion and devotion a Scorpio has to offer but then again every one of them is different so it really depends which kind you get.

Posted by vesperlynd83
My last three exes have been Scorpios. I'm guessing my Venus in Scorpio attracts them.
The first one is a great guy he is probably the most devoted and loyal man I have ever met. We fell for each other pretty quickly but things didn't work out due to certain circumstances. Two years later he is still trying to get back together.
The second one was on and off (not so much an ex more like dating). He was very private and we would go thru periods with no contact at all. He was more on the mysterious and secretive side. He professed his love for me and altho he is very attractive I felt like the chemistry was too physical attraction based. Mentally/intellectually we didn't mesh that well so I had to let it go.
Third one was honestly just a complete lunatic. Seemed fine when we first got together but later found out he had many issues. When I tried to break things off with him after our constant arguments and him freaking out at me out of the blue, he threatened my life so needless to say he is one of the few exes I did not keep around as a friend. He still contacts me once in a while with long emails pouring his heart out saying he wants me back. Thanks but no thanks.

Overall, I love the level of passion and devotion a Scorpio has to offer but then again every one of them is different so it really depends which kind you get.

Interpretation of Sagittarius: You never know what you'll get, until you got it.

Or..... shall I rip a Forrest Farht and say
Sagittarians are like a box of chocolate, you never know whatcher gonna get!

Been trying. I'll let you know if a relationship with a scorpio sticks lol. Btw I am a sag.

Right now I am talking to a scorpio. My 4th one if I'm not mistaken. They are fun for me because I have a lot of scorp and cap influence in my chart and I enjoy the dark/mysterious types. The others had some really weird placements I guess because they all had their issues, including the one who was a schizo.

This one is looking to be like the best one as he is on the cusp of scorp and sag with a gemini moon so we compliment each other very well. I actually understand this one and we flow well.

So basically it really just depends on your charts and if essentially his meshes with yours. Sun sign may not match up with yours, but their chart could speak a lot of volume so it is best to look into that.

dealt with 1. he slept around, tried to cuff me, i slept around, didnt want him to cuff me.

didnt work for me.

I feel like there is always a very strong attraction...although its hard to say if it's a good idea to follow through with it or not.

I love sag. Best of all fire signs..

I've just started dating my sag we've been together a month now, she is about as thrilled about sex as I am which is pretty satisfying. I'm surprised at how emotional sags are, fire really puts on a loud and confrontational image to hide their inner sensitivity, scorps do it similarly. I've found sags share a sense of humor close to mine, what I assume is due to that close proximity sign overlap from the two months. She is very ambitious talkative and open yet she understands my desire to yank her into the depths of my possession, so she complements my possessive nature with loyalty. The only difficulty I've seen thus far is the carelessness that accompanies fire that typical sloppy attitude and aggressive front. Also no emotional intuition versus me constantly being aware of my surroundings including others at all times. A pretty predictable relationship between our signs I suppose, the true myth buster was discovering our emotional compatibility which I've heard depends on the person and chart specifics anyway which I haven't looked into yet. She's a by the book sag so far though. I've had thorough training with sags as well though being 29 and having a sag mom so I already had a head start on most of the games

Never dated or met a sag man oh wait there was this one sag man who was annoying. He was so immature and childish and would say shit that he thought was funny when it wasn't.

He eventually grew up and gained some maturity and now has a daughter with a long time girlfriend.

But that's the only sag that I knew of.

It can really good or really bad. If you found a long term middle ground go YOU.

I feel like Sag women (no offense to any on here) are more likely to give a bad name to us...since in my experience they have a tendency to show some of our bad characteristics more often. The sag guys are know are all awesome and have never really done anything I consider to be "wrong" per se. The women...well...I've been screwed over by a couple, and don't talk to any of them anymore...and my sister is one and we only get along half the time since she is so irresponsible. I know this of course doesn't mean all are like this, but just in my experience they show the more extreme sides of our personality envelopes.

I think there is some understanding between these two... but their fire will douse us out. One moment they are ALL about someone, then the flames disappear and next thing you know... they are with someone new!

Also, I think they are VERY much into casual sex. But, when they do like someone, they are very loyal to them. My teacher who is a scorp is married to a sag and I notice she was all about adventure and learning new things.

This sag boy was always saying things to me and teasing me in my high school class. Lol he was very funny and I felt like I understood him... Idk the same wavelength or something. He gave me a lot of attention and I liked having him around. He still talks to me outside of school, a little. The other sag was just a weirdo...

***we will douse their fire out

The other sag guy randomly contacted me via facebook. I hung out at his place, he was ALL about weed, went on and on about other crazy girlfriends he's had, and he literally would not get off me... very cuddly/huggy/affectionate. He was very sweet and nice, very understanding and was telling me about his depression and I was telling him about how I also struggle with depression, seemed SO like me... But he wanted me on his bed the whole time while we watched a movie. I mean damn I just met him and he was already holding hands and trying to kiss me... I knew what he really invited me over for.
I was like... hahahaha NO YOU FUCKER.

Then a week later went to the mall to meet him... knew where I was, I even saw him. He even bought me mcdonalds. Waited three fucking hours and he never came over to where I was waiting. Then I tried to contact him again a week later and guess what he said...?
Who's this?
After that I was like okay, fuck em.

Like humbleknight said sags are hot and cold, which stems from their gemini polar opposition. I'm beginning to see that with my sag now, one minute she's distant the next really close so she lives within the two extremes with seemingly no middle ground.