HappyCapper
@HappyCapper
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Posted by Stensco21Oh, that's fine.🙂
I wouldn't want anything to do with you. And I'm a Scorpio sun moon and Mercury and Pluto. I would be defensive around you


Posted by Stensco21Three friends of mine proves that statement wrong.
You guys will end up being enemies. If you meet as children you will be friends but as adults you will be enemies

Posted by Stensco21It definitely started out with a lot of tention, agreed! But we zooned into each other.🙂
You guys will end up competing and trying to destroy each other

Posted by Stensco21As I said, I was asking how scorpios feel about other scorpios when they try to figure eachother out. I'm not a scorpio. I may have a lot of plutonian action in my chart, but I'm still not a scorpio.
Then why did you ask
Posted by Stensco21Yes, that would be bad. Hasn't happened so far, but who knows, it might one day with someone I meet.
That's what I mean what if the tension never went away

Posted by Stensco21Oh, I was talking Sun Sq Pluto natal. I used to have a work collegue with that in addition to her scorpio stellium. I think we worked really well together.🙂
Prb of was just Scorpio energy and not squared Scorpio energy we would be neutral but squared sun to Pluto energy fights on
Posted by FrostedEllyThanks for your reply!🙂
I either adore or despise other scorps. No in between, of course, lol. That goes for sun and moon scorps.
But I'm always the one first to open up and initiate things. 9/10 times I have more scorpio in my chart than them. Only person I've met in person that had more than me was my ex, but I was still on the side of more give.
Posted by FrostedEllyInteresting. I have also found cancers to be very guarded. Not pisces, though.Posted by HappyCapperNo. Lol. I think it's easier for me than others but it still takes time and constant reassurances for a while. They're not as bad as some other signs that I know though. Typically the most difficult I've run into have been cancers and Pisces. I find them to be the most guarded, cancer a Front runner over the fish.Posted by FrostedEllyThanks for your reply!🙂
I either adore or despise other scorps. No in between, of course, lol. That goes for sun and moon scorps.
But I'm always the one first to open up and initiate things. 9/10 times I have more scorpio in my chart than them. Only person I've met in person that had more than me was my ex, but I was still on the side of more give.
Do you tend to feel that it's easier to initiate things with other scorpios than with other signs?
What scorpionic placements do you have, if I may ask?
I have Scorpio Sun/Mercury/Venus/Pluto stellium. And chart ruler, Jupiter, in the 8th. And a giant crap pile of Pluto aspects to pretty much my entire chart lol. I think my Pluto score is always so high because of aspects really. I've met people with five and six scorp placements that score lower than me in weighted charts. 😕click to expand
Posted by FrostedEllyCould possibly be that your Pluto placement is so much stronger than your other planet placements and that your other planets have, like, one aspect each, so that, weighted, it would tip over dramatically?Posted by HappyCapperThe few I pulled have no 8th house planets except my ex who has moon in the 8th.Posted by FrostedEllyInteresting. I have also found cancers to be very guarded. Not pisces, though.Posted by HappyCapperNo. Lol. I think it's easier for me than others but it still takes time and constant reassurances for a while. They're not as bad as some other signs that I know though. Typically the most difficult I've run into have been cancers and Pisces. I find them to be the most guarded, cancer a Front runner over the fish.Posted by FrostedEllyThanks for your reply!🙂
I either adore or despise other scorps. No in between, of course, lol. That goes for sun and moon scorps.
But I'm always the one first to open up and initiate things. 9/10 times I have more scorpio in my chart than them. Only person I've met in person that had more than me was my ex, but I was still on the side of more give.
Do you tend to feel that it's easier to initiate things with other scorpios than with other signs?
What scorpionic placements do you have, if I may ask?
I have Scorpio Sun/Mercury/Venus/Pluto stellium. And chart ruler, Jupiter, in the 8th. And a giant crap pile of Pluto aspects to pretty much my entire chart lol. I think my Pluto score is always so high because of aspects really. I've met people with five and six scorp placements that score lower than me in weighted charts. 😕
Pluto is aspecting every single planet in my chart(plus asc) except for Uranus and Mars and my chart ruler is in the 8th too, as well as my sun and my Pullen pluto score is still only 14,5. What do these people have in the 8th house?
My pulled score is 25 for Scorpio and my ex's is 26. There are a few people on dxp with like 27/28/29 I believe. But they're on the quieter side posting wise, imagine that. 😆
I feel like an anomaly though. I'm ridiculously social and open for a Scorpio.click to expand

Posted by Stensco21U dont like ppl figuring u out
I wouldn't want anything to do with you. And I'm a Scorpio sun moon and Mercury and Pluto. I would be defensive around you


Posted by HappyCapperAll depends on the approach. If you come off like a crazed person trying to invade my privacy vs enjoying the ride as you get to know me then I'm more guarded and actually repulsed because you clearly lost your Scorp handbook. How dare you lose the handbook!!
...I was wondering how this would work between scorpios seeing as they are supposed to be guarded and penetrating at the same time. Do you get more guarded or do you feel more at ease when you feel someone is trying to figure you out in that scorpionic way? This goes especially for doubble scorpios - if your moon is a less guarded one, I'm guessing it would be easier. Or?

Posted by HappyCapperNo. The same. The approach is simply different when I engage a fellow Scorp.
Do you tend to feel that it's easier to initiate things with other scorpios than with other signs?
Posted by PhoenixRisingIf I'm not mistaken, you're a gem moon like me and I must say this is the first time anyone described their or other's gem moons in a way I could fully identify with. Wow!Posted by HappyCapperAll depends on the approach. If you come off like a crazed person trying to invade my privacy vs enjoying the ride as you get to know me then I'm more guarded and actually repulsed because you clearly lost your Scorp handbook. How dare you lose the handbook!!
...I was wondering how this would work between scorpios seeing as they are supposed to be guarded and penetrating at the same time. Do you get more guarded or do you feel more at ease when you feel someone is trying to figure you out in that scorpionic way? This goes especially for doubble scorpios - if your moon is a less guarded one, I'm guessing it would be easier. Or?
Moon doesn't have much to do with it. My Moon is described a social and chatty and I'm far from. I hate pointless chatter. Funny banter and somthing mentally stimulating cool, but I digress. My moon just mellows me out a bit making me a bit more flexible and "meh whatever you want" when it comes to approaching various issues---as long as it doesn't involve getting all up in my business without an invitation. My moon be d*mn if you try to push before you get the green light.click to expand
Posted by PhoenixRisingIn what way, if I may ask?Posted by HappyCapperNo. The same. The approach is simply different when I engage a fellow Scorp.
Do you tend to feel that it's easier to initiate things with other scorpios than with other signs?
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Posted by RyokoInteresting! Too much alike.🙂
When I meet another Scorpio i feel like "you're my brother from another mother" or "paesano" "cumpadre"
And then I decide if I like them or not after getting to know them.
But other Scorpios don't interest me enough to try to figure them out--probably because I understand them and how they think.
I'm just friendly with them but not deep.
Posted by ElleDuMondeNo, that's not enough - I draw the line at ten years. Jk.
I was married to another scorpio for 7 years. does that count?
I don't really feel anything, tbh.
Posted by ElleDuMondeThat's interesting. Makes me think. Don't you just love astrology.🙂Posted by HappyCappernot really.Posted by ElleDuMondeNo, that's not enough - I draw the line at ten years. Jk.
I was married to another scorpio for 7 years. does that count?
I don't really feel anything, tbh.
You don't feel anything in the way that you don't feel any tension or that you feel no difference between them and other signs?
could be the conjunction? it might just make it go flat for me.click to expand
Posted by FrostedEllyThat, I feel, proves that the Pullen sign ranking takes little or no notice of planetary aspects. A guy I know has a 4 planet scorp stellium in the 8th with a pluto - mars conj and a pluto - moon trine as the only major pluto aspects(unless you count the other planets in the stellium as conjunctions just because they're in the same sign and house, ofc) and he has a rate of over 40% , if I remember correctly. I really need to figure out Pullen or i'll go insane!🙂Posted by HappyCapperI totally missed this lol.
@FrostedElly
Eeeverything except NN? Oh my! That's a looot! I thought I had it bad lol. Plus that scorp stellium...plus your 8th house. How high is your scorp ranking, if I may ask? That number must be huge!
Ooo! There you go. I have a gem rising...inconjunct my cap sun... and I know it was difficult to control when I was younger...and so was(and is) my sag venus. 11th house seems to me like a good place for a scorpio stellium.
On pullen its a 25. And I like having an 11th house stellium. I feel like it breaks up and detaches certain qualities. Still don't have it figured out to use to its best potential, but I'm working on it lol.click to expand

Posted by HappyCapperI can actually. I just pick up the energy. Usually it starts off with "you're a water sign" then as I observe, which I do a lot, it's "ah, you're a Scorp", and then I get "bored" and move onto other observations. Lol.Posted by PhoenixRisingIf I'm not mistaken, you're a gem moon like me and I must say this is the first time anyone described their or other's gem moons in a way I could fully identify with. Wow!Posted by HappyCapperAll depends on the approach. If you come off like a crazed person trying to invade my privacy vs enjoying the ride as you get to know me then I'm more guarded and actually repulsed because you clearly lost your Scorp handbook. How dare you lose the handbook!!
...I was wondering how this would work between scorpios seeing as they are supposed to be guarded and penetrating at the same time. Do you get more guarded or do you feel more at ease when you feel someone is trying to figure you out in that scorpionic way? This goes especially for doubble scorpios - if your moon is a less guarded one, I'm guessing it would be easier. Or?
Moon doesn't have much to do with it. My Moon is described a social and chatty and I'm far from. I hate pointless chatter. Funny banter and somthing mentally stimulating cool, but I digress. My moon just mellows me out a bit making me a bit more flexible and "meh whatever you want" when it comes to approaching various issues---as long as it doesn't involve getting all up in my business without an invitation. My moon be d*mn if you try to push before you get the green light.
Can you usually tell if you're dealing with another scorpio(or someone scorpionic/plutonian)?click to expand

Posted by HappyCapperSorry, that first response wasn't actually very clear.Posted by PhoenixRisingIn what way, if I may ask?Posted by HappyCapperNo. The same. The approach is simply different when I engage a fellow Scorp.
Do you tend to feel that it's easier to initiate things with other scorpios than with other signs?
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Posted by ElleDuMondeI was reading this and thinking about when I dated another Scorp. I can't say I've ever felt the "intensity" people talk about. It just feels "comfortable" and familiar. The stare...? Meh, doesn't make my panties wet, just listened to, like I'm your only focus without the spotlight. It's simply nice. "Nice" trumps a lot of other emotions at times.Posted by HappyCappernot really.Posted by ElleDuMondeNo, that's not enough - I draw the line at ten years. Jk.
I was married to another scorpio for 7 years. does that count?
I don't really feel anything, tbh.
You don't feel anything in the way that you don't feel any tension or that you feel no difference between them and other signs?
could be the conjunction? it might just make it go flat for me.click to expand
Posted by FrostedEllyNo, I think you should apologize for your birthtime , place and date right away! 😛
LMAO. yeah I never figured pullen out. I tend to score high on Pluto tests. One person on here told me I was lying about one of the by hand ones my score was so high. Which I found hilarious because if anything I'm always saying thank god for my non-scorp placements. Lol.
I love other 11th house peeps! I feel like there aren't a lot of us. It's been so difficult for me to find good info on it over the years. The only astrologers that seem to get it have it in their own chart. Other descriptions are generic or outdated. For me it's been about leadership and community. I used to always put such emphasis on finding a friend group to belong to and would never really be welcomed.
Then I stopped trying. And focused more on developing things that mattered to me on my own. By doing so I developed better communication and leadership qualities and found people drawing near to me without me even trying. 11th house is the opposite of the 5th, so instead of creativity through the presentation of the self it is developed through the presentation of others. Leader based on the ability to unite a community and bond others together instead of my own individual presence.
It's a fascinating house. To me anyways. 😛 But air like qualities are always underrated in astrology lol. People like fire and water.

Posted by HappyCapperAre you sure you're a Cap? 😛
"Baby" scorps sounds a bit like capricorns, as you discribe them. lol. Not that we're the best, but those characteristics.
Posted by HappyCapperHaha, good for you for telling her to back off. She probably respected you for then regrouped, which is where the understanding can came from.
...I remember one scorp especially, (another collegue, actually) with sun, moon, merc and neptune in scorp and with her cap mars in the 8th and pluto on top of her venus. I had to tell her to back off. I know she meant well and that she was only trying to get to know me, because we were supposed to work closely together, but she was veeery penetrating and I wanted to just stare into a corner all day. She totally got it, though, and we worked really well together for years. One of my best collegues to this day...click to expand
Posted by PhoenixRisingInteresting! I'm very much an observer too, but I have a different strategy than you - I throw my gem rising at them...if I'm in the mood. 🙂Posted by HappyCapperSorry, that first response wasn't actually very clear.Posted by PhoenixRisingIn what way, if I may ask?Posted by HappyCapperNo. The same. The approach is simply different when I engage a fellow Scorp.
Do you tend to feel that it's easier to initiate things with other scorpios than with other signs?
I'm an observer. I rarely initiate conversation with anyone. I can honestly count on one hand how many time I have. When I do engage someone, it is after I've observed them for a few and have determine the best way to engage them. For me it's not about being a Scorp vs another sign. It's more about what I'm picking up. There are some Scorps that I'm more social with then others and that may or many not have anything to do with if I like them or not. I'm simply observant and act accordingly. There are some Scorp I really like, but I haven't said a word to. Probably never will.click to expand
Posted by PhoenixRisingShe was very sweet about it.🙂Posted by HappyCapperAre you sure you're a Cap? 😛
"Baby" scorps sounds a bit like capricorns, as you discribe them. lol. Not that we're the best, but those characteristics.
Oh alright, so we're the best. Just didn't want to rub it in your face, that's all. See how understanding us capricorns are of other people's feelings. Yes, definitely the best. *pats self on the shoulder* 😛Posted by HappyCapperHaha, good for you for telling her to back off. She probably respected you for then regrouped, which is where the understanding can came from.
...I remember one scorp especially, (another collegue, actually) with sun, moon, merc and neptune in scorp and with her cap mars in the 8th and pluto on top of her venus. I had to tell her to back off. I know she meant well and that she was only trying to get to know me, because we were supposed to work closely together, but she was veeery penetrating and I wanted to just stare into a corner all day. She totally got it, though, and we worked really well together for years. One of my best collegues to this day...click to expand
Posted by RyokoWell, the birthday is indeed the only sure way to find out someones sun sign.🙂Posted by HappyCapperI'm the worst at guessing someone's zodiac sign. I usually only know for sure if I know the person's birthday which isn't toi hard to find out since most Scorps i come across are into astrology and want to know everyone else's signs so the work is done for me.Posted by RyokoInteresting! Too much alike.🙂
When I meet another Scorpio i feel like "you're my brother from another mother" or "paesano" "cumpadre"
And then I decide if I like them or not after getting to know them.
But other Scorpios don't interest me enough to try to figure them out--probably because I understand them and how they think.
I'm just friendly with them but not deep.
May I ask, can you usually tell that you're dealing with another scorpio?click to expand

Posted by HappyCapper😉
Since your user name is PhoenixRising, I'm going to assume your rising is scorpio?
*Edit: I take that back. I know you're not a scorpio rising.
Posted by scorpx3So happy for you!🙂
Scorpio pairings can be beautiful. I read somewhere that this kind of pairing has the potential to be the deepest of all zodiac couples - including opposite "twin flames".
I'm devoted to another Scorp. We've hung each other over the edge, but we're more gentle with each other now. He makes me the happiest I've been by far, so, needless to say I encourage more scorpios to date other scorpios - it's an intense and meaningful experience.
Posted by scorpx3Thanks for your reply!🙂Posted by HappyCapperThe approach is usually a quiet one; nothing too intense at first. The more we'd talk, the more we open up to one another...I've noticed the one willing to be vulnerable first is usually not disappointed being that the other will repay them with more attention and will put down their ego.
Now, I'm not a scorpio, and I was wondering how this would work between scorpios seeing as they are supposed to be guarded and penetrating at the same time. Do you get more guarded or do you feel more at ease when you feel someone is trying to figure you out in that scorpionic way? This goes especially for doubble scorpios - if your moon is a less guarded one, I'm guessing it would be easier. Or?
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Posted by PhoenixRisingNp, ofc. It's not your job to answer my posts, but I'm happy when you do.🙂Posted by HappyCapper😉
Since your user name is PhoenixRising, I'm going to assume your rising is scorpio?
*Edit: I take that back. I know you're not a scorpio rising.
Sorry for not replying. All of my notifications are off, so I have no idea if someone quotes me or tags me unless I come back to a thread. My username actually has nothing to do with astrology. A lot of people think so and I simply don't care enough to explain it. It is honestly pure coincidence that my birthday falls between Oct and Nov. if I were born under another Sun sign the name would still be the same.click to expand
Posted by scorpx3Do you feel judged by the other signs and do you think they feel judged by you?Posted by HappyCapperThere is a very strong understanding of the other. The two of you won't be judgmental of the other and if you do criticize it's to help the other and not hurt the other.Posted by scorpx3Thanks for your reply!🙂Posted by HappyCapperThe approach is usually a quiet one; nothing too intense at first. The more we'd talk, the more we open up to one another...I've noticed the one willing to be vulnerable first is usually not disappointed being that the other will repay them with more attention and will put down their ego.
Now, I'm not a scorpio, and I was wondering how this would work between scorpios seeing as they are supposed to be guarded and penetrating at the same time. Do you get more guarded or do you feel more at ease when you feel someone is trying to figure you out in that scorpionic way? This goes especially for doubble scorpios - if your moon is a less guarded one, I'm guessing it would be easier. Or?
In what way do you think it differs from meeting other signs?click to expand
Posted by scorpx3LOL Awsome! That's the best way, isn't it? 😄Posted by HappyCapperWe hit it off! And then we began easing in. Both! HahaPosted by scorpx3So happy for you!🙂
Scorpio pairings can be beautiful. I read somewhere that this kind of pairing has the potential to be the deepest of all zodiac couples - including opposite "twin flames".
I'm devoted to another Scorp. We've hung each other over the edge, but we're more gentle with each other now. He makes me the happiest I've been by far, so, needless to say I encourage more scorpios to date other scorpios - it's an intense and meaningful experience.
Did you hit it off from first meet, or did you "ease into" each other?click to expand
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Now, I'm not a scorpio, and I was wondering how this would work between scorpios seeing as they are supposed to be guarded and penetrating at the same time. Do you get more guarded or do you feel more at ease when you feel someone is trying to figure you out in that scorpionic way? This goes especially for doubble scorpios - if your moon is a less guarded one, I'm guessing it would be easier. Or?