I met this guy online and we had an instant connection, we both said...we talked for 5 hrs the first night. He's in new zealand I'm in america...he became all lovey by the 4th or 5th day stating he loved me..and i was starting to feel the same way...i just wouldn't tell him. He understands my zodiac sign, and he is a Taurus...so we would either be really good together or really bad, depending on how well we can compromise and understand each other. he kept wanting me to tell him i loved him, because he said he was in love with me. he also has a past of talking to lots of girls online. but he blocked all of them and even cancelled his internet when we started talking, stating he wanted to protect 'my heart' and wanted only me...even spoke of marriage. We had a few arguments over the first week, mostly because he would say whatever came to mind and i would be hurt by it, and he said i shouldn't be easily hurt, but i am. he knows it. so tonight, after a particularly intense, deep, informative talk on the phone, i finally told him i loved him. i really feel it. i shouldn't have said it so quickly, but then, he was like...well, when i visit you i want to visit my 'internet friend' (who is a virgo, a virgin, and doesn't want a bf) since she is so close to you...one state away. he asked if he could date me and her too, if she would date him. so naturally we had an argument about this. when i'm in relationships, i feel my ease of getting hurt and ability to close myself off til i explode w/ too much emotion, it hurts it. but, why do ppl do things to hurt people who they know are easily hurt? bait and switch, every time. Do other scorps feel this way?
Scorpio stung by Taurus

I have to cuncur with Let it Be....
May I ask your age?
May I ask your age?

You can't truly be in love with someone you haven't met in person.

Posted by TheLadySagittarius
You can't truly be in love with someone you haven't met in person.
NOT true!
but the thread did make me *lol*
FIVE WHOLE DAYS?!?! how DARE he!?

Posted by TheLadySagittarius
You can't truly be in love with someone you haven't met in person.
i agree although you can undeniably have very strong feelings. most of the senses are deprived with online things....you can't touch, smell or taste them (😛), so how can you really know if you love them in the romantic sense of the word.
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