Scorpio Sun with Gemini Moon - Smash, But Don't Attach

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by recoveringsimp79 on Wednesday, January 26, 2022 and has 31 replies.
So, I have this girl who is mid 20's Scorp Sun, Gemini Moon, Mars and Venus in Sagittarius interested in me.

That kind of chart gives me the vibe she's more looking to play the field, especially her being mid 20's

I mean I dont care, she's hot and Im fine with hooking up. But I am just wanting to know if my suspicions are correct to slap the cheeks only. I have Scorp Sun Sag Moon and Mars in Sag Venus in Libra Our charts are compatible for a FWB situation but not a real situation.

I'm older now (not in my 20's), so Im careful about who I give my time and commitment to. I'm down with being a sex toy, just not in for being a relationship toy.

Does anyone on here have past experiences with a woman that has the same kind of chart as the girl - Scorp Sun, Gemini Moon, Mars and Venus in Sagittarius ? If so, would you say I'm right to be commitment phobic towards her if things went well and she wanted exclusivity?
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Posted by MareInfame

Wtf?!?!

So, you are putting her in a player “box” because of her chart? Not because of anything she actually did?!?

This is so odd to me 🙄🥴…

What about your chart with all that Sag? Are you saying you are also a player?


have you a problem with sag stellium people ?????!
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She just has problems generally. Lol
Recoveringsimp

Idk, with a username like yours, she should stay away from you. Even how you talk about her and yourself.

You reduced her to slapping cheeks only situation.

You drag this girl and want us to validate your paranoia and possibly future behavior of you being rude to her in an effort to be a commitment phobe.

If you don’t measure up, just say so

She's a Scorpio Sun- Do you guys even know how to do fwb??Laughing

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Posted by recoveringsimp79

So, I have this girl who is mid 20's Scorp Sun, Gemini Moon, Mars and Venus in Sagittarius interested in me.

That kind of chart gives me the vibe she's more looking to play the field, especially her being mid 20's

I mean I dont care, she's hot and Im fine with hooking up. But I am just wanting to know if my suspicions are correct to slap the cheeks only. I have Scorp Sun Sag Moon and Mars in Sag Venus in Libra Our charts are compatible for a FWB situation but not a real situation.

I'm older now (not in my 20's), so Im careful about who I give my time and commitment to. I'm down with being a sex toy, just not in for being a relationship toy.

Does anyone on here have past experiences with a woman that has the same kind of chart as the girl - Scorp Sun, Gemini Moon, Mars and Venus in Sagittarius ? If so, would you say I'm right to be commitment phobic towards her if things went well and she wanted exclusivity?
She probably tells herself the same lies you are telling yourself with all those cool ass Sag placements!Laughing

"Recovering" my ass!

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“Smash but don’t attach”

Subtle as an air raid 🥴
My ex is a Scorpio Sun, Gemini Moon. He is a lovely human being, but had this effect on me - like I was always very anxious around him, his mood swings had a bad effect on me. I never knew what he was feeling or thinking. Also I think he always had other women around, not physically, but for verbal flirtation...
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She's a Scorpio Sun- Do you guys even know how to do fwb??Laughing

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Yup….you see right.
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The only way a Scorpio does fwb is if they're cheatingLaughing Tongue

Even I didn't consider dating a Scorpio because I knew I wouldn't be able to be wishy washy and date multiple people and be my normal indecisive self.

Anyone actually looking for a relationship can find one in an interested Scorpio. They are the one sign that there are no doubts about what type of relationship it is or will be. It's a great quality to have.
Yes, leave her alone. She can do better than you.

How do you know she is interested?

Cause it seems like if she was you would be having this convo with her and set up the fwb you want.

Less talking about slapping cheeks and more doing.
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Posted by MareInfame
Posted by saggurl88

She's a Scorpio Sun- Do you guys even know how to do fwb??Laughing

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Yup….you see right.


The only way a Scorpio does fwb is if they're cheatingLaughing Tongue

Even I didn't consider dating a Scorpio because I knew I wouldn't be able to be wishy washy and date multiple people and be my normal indecisive self.

Anyone actually looking for a relationship can find one in an interested Scorpio. They are the one sign that there are no doubts about what type of relationship it is or will be. It's a great quality to have.


I was talking to my Scorpio friend the other day and he is the Scorpio that I find very plutonic in the sense that crazy/heavy things happen to him… often, but he also had a way that surprises me.

ATM… he is dating a married woman (Virgo) that is separated from her husband but husband wants to win her back.

The Scorpio is so in love… he told her - « I like what we have now, I don’t care if he stays with you - we can always do a ménage a trois ». Like he doesn’t give a fu $ & about the hubby.

Seriously… sometimes Scorpios surprise.

But generally speaking… yes, pretty much what you said.
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This is actually why I like Scorpios, just like my Venus, they can do things to their detriment because they can handle it. They are surprisingly open minded and bendable when it comes to love.
Posted by LadyNeptune

How do you know she is interested?

Cause it seems like if she was you would be having this convo with her and set up the fwb you want.

Less talking about slapping cheeks and more doing.


What he's busy doing insteadLaughing

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Posted by saggurl88
Posted by LadyNeptune

How do you know she is interested?

Cause it seems like if she was you would be having this convo with her and set up the fwb you want.

Less talking about slapping cheeks and more doing.


What he's busy doing insteadLaughing

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Omg 😆 yeah pretty much.

Op I believe the kiddos actually use the lingo “clap those cheeks”.

Slapping requires a bit more prep work.
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Posted by saggurl88

She's a Scorpio Sun- Do you guys even know how to do fwb??Laughing

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Bet $ 10 bucks and a challah dog that we'll see a post about how to get her back because she went ghost before June is over
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Pretty much.
I have the same sun and moon signs and I’m clingy af with my person so… 🧐
Posted by MareInfame
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Posted by MareInfame
Posted by saggurl88

She's a Scorpio Sun- Do you guys even know how to do fwb??Laughing

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Yup….you see right.


The only way a Scorpio does fwb is if they're cheatingLaughing Tongue

Even I didn't consider dating a Scorpio because I knew I wouldn't be able to be wishy washy and date multiple people and be my normal indecisive self.

Anyone actually looking for a relationship can find one in an interested Scorpio. They are the one sign that there are no doubts about what type of relationship it is or will be. It's a great quality to have.


I was talking to my Scorpio friend the other day and he is the Scorpio that I find very plutonic in the sense that crazy/heavy things happen to him… often, but he also had a way that surprises me.

ATM… he is dating a married woman (Virgo) that is separated from her husband but husband wants to win her back.

The Scorpio is so in love… he told her - « I like what we have now, I don’t care if he stays with you - we can always do a ménage a trois ». Like he doesn’t give a fu $ & about the hubby.

Seriously… sometimes Scorpios surprise.

But generally speaking… yes, pretty much what you said.
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.....................damn
Posted by peachy06
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Actually...we can.
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This.

However I'm sure Saggurl was just teasing. Fire signs know how to activate water signs for real lol.
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Posted by saggurl88

She's a Scorpio Sun- Do you guys even know how to do fwb??Laughing

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Actually...we can.

This.

However I'm sure Saggurl was just teasing. Fire signs know how to activate water signs for real lol.
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Lol I was. I think anyone is capable of fwb when they are half interested in a person and just want their needs met. 🥴

Posted by MareInfame
Posted by peachy06

Never said you have to be friends. 😉


FWB means Friends with Benefits, though 😕.

I think it needs to be re-titled….lol
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Lol. "we f*ck" just sounds crass.

Honestly, I blame Facebook. It started this whole calling everyone you knew from Junior Kindergarten to a one night stand a "friend"
LOL @ "little slave boy"
I can’t do FWB

Five planets in Scorpio
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Posted by saggurl88

She's a Scorpio Sun- Do you guys even know how to do fwb??Laughing

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Actually...we can.


We sure can!


Yeah. I think other signs think we can't because we're a water sign, but the truth is we can.
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Laughing
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Posted by peachy06
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Posted by peachy06
Posted by saggurl88

She's a Scorpio Sun- Do you guys even know how to do fwb??Laughing

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Actually...we can.


We sure can!


Yeah. I think other signs think we can't because we're a water sign, but the truth is we can.


All the Scorpios with Sag placements chiming in with a

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Laughing
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I ain’t got any of them lol 😂

My Taurus moon says “no way jose”

....and if a bloke said to me “I want to smash you” I’d tell him to shag off

Ewww😂
Posted by MareInfame
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by peachy06
Posted by WarAngel
Posted by peachy06
Posted by saggurl88

She's a Scorpio Sun- Do you guys even know how to do fwb??Laughing

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Actually...we can.


We sure can!


Yeah. I think other signs think we can't because we're a water sign, but the truth is we can.


All the Scorpios with Sag placements chiming in with a

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Laughing


I enjoyed noticing that too!! Well… also the Axis…lol
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Scorpio and Sag are the little friendly, sexy neighborsLaughing

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Posted by peachy06
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by peachy06
Posted by WarAngel
Posted by peachy06
Posted by saggurl88

She's a Scorpio Sun- Do you guys even know how to do fwb??Laughing

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Actually...we can.


We sure can!


Yeah. I think other signs think we can't because we're a water sign, but the truth is we can.


All the Scorpios with Sag placements chiming in with a

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Laughing


As if It was just us...

There's this misconception that Scorpios need to be "emotional" to be intimate. It's a bad stereotype.
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I didn't think that, I just thought they actually ARE emotional. People usually like a connection with someone they can see a future with. If there is no future, there's always SEX to pass the time Big Grin

It's nice when you can be adults about it and realize what you're good at and what you're not. If sex is the thing that works in the FWB, but they aren't relationship material, then it's good when both people are fine with it.
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Laughing

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LOL
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Posted by MareInfame
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by peachy06
Posted by WarAngel
Posted by peachy06
Posted by saggurl88

She's a Scorpio Sun- Do you guys even know how to do fwb??Laughing

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Actually...we can.


We sure can!


Yeah. I think other signs think we can't because we're a water sign, but the truth is we can.


All the Scorpios with Sag placements chiming in with a

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Laughing


I enjoyed noticing that too!! Well… also the Axis…lol


Scorpio and Sag are the little friendly, sexy neighborsLaughing

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Posted by PhoenixRising
Posted by saggurl88

All the Scorpios with Sag placements chiming in with a

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Laughing

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LOL
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Posted by Hypnotoad
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by peachy06
Posted by WarAngel
Posted by peachy06
Posted by saggurl88

She's a Scorpio Sun- Do you guys even know how to do fwb??Laughing

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Actually...we can.


We sure can!


Yeah. I think other signs think we can't because we're a water sign, but the truth is we can.


All the Scorpios with Sag placements chiming in with a

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Laughing


I ain’t got any of them lol 😂

My Taurus moon says “no way jose”


I can, my T moon likes a warm body too much.
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Yes I used to feel that way but all the other stuff that comes with the warm body wasn’t always great lol

Now i have comfort in other ways

😀

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