Scorpio takes all

This is my first post and it is a crazy one. I fell in love with a Scorpio woman about three years ago. We have been extremely close in every way. Everything was "we" "us" and "our". She got in trouble with her home. I help save it using all my available cash. When she has trouble with the mortgage I still help her with whatever extra I have. Love-making has been sporadic at best and she is now in one of her "lets just be friends" phase which makes me question everything we have shared. She said she needs to be free and that I am possessive and she does not do well with that or relationships. Our view of what a relationship is is so different and when we discuss it its a big argument and I feel her plotting secret revenge against me. Have I just been used this whole time ? Have all of her love professions and thanking God for my help been lies ? Her intensity and passion seemed so real to me. How could I have given up so much and still not know where I stand in her life? Oh by the way I am a Taurus woman.

Could use some advice. I am at my wits end.

She let you play right into it. As a fellow Taurus female and one who takes her money seriously, get bitch slap that Scorpio until the pennies comes out through her ass.

I bet if you were ot find out who she dated before you and before that person, they'd all say she was a free loader.

HP so mean.

gullibletaurus

I am a scropio women and when I read it I just could not relate to why she did that, doing that whatever.

But when I read this:

"Love-making has been sporadic at best and she is now in one of her "lets just be friends" phase which makes me question everything we have shared. She said she needs to be free and that I am possessive and she does not do well with that or relationships"

She is telling you that it is over, and is trying to make an excuses in so many words because she does not want to hurt your feelings and if things don't workout with the guy or girl that she is seeing she will come back. I would just leave her B.

The flip side is the stinger.

I'm mean? No...I said the same thing as you. 🙂

Thanks to all of you for your comments. I was so afraid of being judged for being so naive. Getting out of this is going to be difficult. The financial strain has me near bankruptcy because a couple of the things I helped her with are in my name. You have to understand that she merged with me so completely and so passionately it was like the love of a lifetime. I even asked her to let me go several times because she always told me sheliked men but she said she had feelings for me which I thought were sincere. The entire relationship is actually a secret and all our family and friends only see us as best friends. This is such a mess and I am ashamed of what has happened.

Don't be ashamed; dust yourself off and hold your head high. It's a lesson learned.

Well, we have our moments, Archer. 🙂

Taurus girls are supposed to be the "Girls Next Door", "Motherly" type. I can be that way most of the time, but it's so much more fun to be the flirty, charming Taurus girl. 😉