Scorpio/Taurus Scenario

*brows raised* And what scenario could it possibly be?

It is, coffee? I made some damned tasty Columbian bean this morning. 🙂

Me too, definitely a morning pleasure. *setting down nice big mug of coffee and passing over the fixings*

Posted by dietpepsi


... as a very young person I just didn't know how to handle it. Now that I'm an adult, I know I didn't handle it well.

Actually, you handled this PERFECTLY.
PERFECTLY because you didn't get destroyed, just scratched a bit.

The physical affection she showed you as a teach was not appropriate.
The running fingers through hair, getting you to her house,
talking about her failed marriage ... there is a word for this
used by Police agencies:

When a "predator" does these actions to lure an underage victim,
it is called "grooming"...it is very powerful "approval" that is
often missing from the underage victim's life...and they like it.
We see proof of this in how you came here for help.
You were groomed.

To have handled this issue this well when you were basically A KID was ... wow.

I'm not saying she's "all bad" nor that she "intended" do do you "harm".
Someone can wreck your life accidentally.

I'm not even suggesting that she really didn't care about you.
No way. She meant everything nice she said to you.
But, the woman had a mental disorder.
She was a vampire who didn't know she was a vampire.
You were bitten...and she began to suck your life out.

5 bucks says she has a histrionic personality disorder
and suffered sexual abuse or no love from mother as a kid.
But one thing is for sure, she kept all her pain inside
because she is a Scorpio.

You are her polar opposite. Scorpio/Taurus.
A Scorpio would want to be around you because opposites attract.
"The thing" that usually does this is that Scorpio is BOUND and Taurus is FREE.
And we so wish we could be like you from time to time.
You show us how to RELAX and not be so UP-TIGHT.
You teach us to be real, natural and not keep things hidden.
Taurus: Feel it = Show it
Scorpio: Feel it = Pretend not to

You didn't say whether her kid was a daughter or not.
Regardless, she probably wanted a daughter like "you".

But as mere mortals in pain from a failing relationship
she probably could not understand (and therefore separate)

1 the desire to want to be around you, near you, admire your freedom from
2 the desire to want to be in bed with you from
3 "wanting to BE you".

#2 was probable if you ever lived with her
#3 was likely her motive - an unattainable goal that may have ended in ...bad stuff

( Rent "Single White Female" )

Since "she

Since "she" didn't understand it - she couldn't "control" it.

Your mind would have ended up as damaged as hers.

If you never cared about her, you would not be here.
But when you have been given a reprieve,
it is important to realize just how thin it is.

She has issues that will ruin your life.
They are not your fault.
She may have realized what she was doing to you
and just wanted you to go and live and be happy.

Go and do that. That's the best thing you could
ever do for you ...and her, too.