I think you already know the answer to your second question. If she was attracted to you you would be here asking a different question. If she was really interested in you she wouldn't of gone six months without seeing you. A Scorpio woman is evasive and unaware of other people's feelings. She probably saw you as a possible asset.
Scorpio: there for support?
Ok there cowgal, I said possible asset regarding to his get-rich-quick plan. He was also wondering if she was attracted to him and then I said if she was she wouldn't of gone six months without contact. What you're saying she got scared and ran for the hills. You're also saying she was more into the business idea than the guy. So you just answered both of his questions:
"What i am wondering is: was she nice to me those few times after the business idea because she sees me as a good 'prospect' and wants to go into business with me? Or is she really attracted to me?"
"What i am wondering is: was she nice to me those few times after the business idea because she sees me as a good 'prospect' and wants to go into business with me? Or is she really attracted to me?"
"I could tell by the way she reacted that she was impressed by my chickeniness / apparent confidence in myself. I am confident, i just don't go around showing it."
This statement makes no sense.
This statement makes no sense.
Thanks AM. Do you mean ask my friend whether she likes me or not? I already know she would be good in business, my friend has told me so and i trust my instincts. What i am mainly concerned about is whether she likes me or not. I don't care about the business, i can earn money elsewhere, but what i do care about is finding someone i like and that doesn't happen every day.
Just to clear a few things up.
Firstly, i am sorry, i typed this out late last night, so it is a bit incoherent.
Second: I meant 'c o c k i n e s s' not chickenness. Yes, being chickeny doesn't make sense 😉.
Third: I haven't told her i like her or anything like that. The only thing i let slip the night i spoke to her was that i have had previous successes. This is what i meant by being c o c k y. I didn't really mean any harm by it, it was just a slip when i was intoxicted.
Fourth: I don't have bad intentions. The reason i have hesitated about this idea is that i don't want to use it as an excuse to get to know her. That would be sad and desperate and show a complete lack of integrity. Business ideas can occur every day, but getting to know somebody is more important and it is more important to me. Maybe one day i will explain this to her as she is probably confused by my actions. If i were to do this business with her, i would need to be completely emotionally detached from her to ensure i am doing it for the right reasons. I am not that emotionally detached right now, so i am staying away.
I think she sees me as a 'good' prospect, but i want more from her than that. I want to be respected and that won't happen if i do this thing with the wrong intentions.
Just to clear a few things up.
Firstly, i am sorry, i typed this out late last night, so it is a bit incoherent.
Second: I meant 'c o c k i n e s s' not chickenness. Yes, being chickeny doesn't make sense 😉.
Third: I haven't told her i like her or anything like that. The only thing i let slip the night i spoke to her was that i have had previous successes. This is what i meant by being c o c k y. I didn't really mean any harm by it, it was just a slip when i was intoxicted.
Fourth: I don't have bad intentions. The reason i have hesitated about this idea is that i don't want to use it as an excuse to get to know her. That would be sad and desperate and show a complete lack of integrity. Business ideas can occur every day, but getting to know somebody is more important and it is more important to me. Maybe one day i will explain this to her as she is probably confused by my actions. If i were to do this business with her, i would need to be completely emotionally detached from her to ensure i am doing it for the right reasons. I am not that emotionally detached right now, so i am staying away.
I think she sees me as a 'good' prospect, but i want more from her than that. I want to be respected and that won't happen if i do this thing with the wrong intentions.
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