Scorpio & Virgo
This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by lisbon on Monday, June 5, 2006 and has 12 replies.
Back again---Geez, Here I thought I was understanding things. I'm virgo and he's scorpio--we've been together 3 years--we live together. The Scorpios well-known sexuality/sensuality--not sure what's happened to my guy. I know that I never initiate sex and this is a HUGE sore spot for him..But Good God--now it's like we're seeing who's going to hold out the longest. To me, a man who waits 2-3 weeks--something isn't right. He tells me he loves me, he is affectionate--holds hands and hugs me when I get in from work etc..BUT, he's really trying to prove a point here and I'm getting fed up..and wondering? Know what I mean?--things were never like this before and now it's been like this for some time. Am I being irrational?
We love a challenge...at least I do, and when we sit our minds to do something nothing you can do to change...I would throw myself at him.
But hell I have been with a virgo that refuse sex to me for a couple of weeks and when I got fed up I took a shower put on a nice nittie and some perfume got in the bed layed there and then the next thing I heard him say was fuck this and he jumped on top of me... LOL...I love it...
But hell I have been with a virgo that refuse sex to me for a couple of weeks and when I got fed up I took a shower put on a nice nittie and some perfume got in the bed layed there and then the next thing I heard him say was fuck this and he jumped on top of me... LOL...I love it...
I love these emails..They are making me really smile. I think giving in once in a while is important in every relationship, compromise is a good thing..When it comes to this sex subject---I've just really dug my heels here..What if I do make a move and he rejects? That's my worst fear..big part of my Virgo attitude is "I'd rather run"...Maybe you guys a right...I'm just not willing to put myself out there, especially now that I feel like the least favorite person to screw..LOL...
lisbon - I say go for it. You know what turns him on right? then use it he will love it,...some passion and romance...I doubt if he turns you down...be very seductive...LOL
Hi lisbon! My suggestion is drive him crazy. Wear nothing but a t-shirt and thong panties, then clean the house (making sure you are always cleaning around him). Flit in and out of the room he is in. Make sure you bend down alot. If he happens to look your way just give him a look like what? Put on some hot music and take a shower or bath. If you know he is going to be around the bathroom, make sure you are dancing in front of the mirror seductively to yourself. Do your hair and makeup like you are going out on the town. Tell him you are going to the grocery store. When night time comes around light candles in the bedroom and listen to soft music. Drag him in there with you and sit him down. Don't even talk to him. Just take his hand, lead him to the bedroom, and sit him down. Put on something hot with a sexy beat and give him a lapdance. YOu don't need to dance like a $ 10 stripper. Just sit on his lap and grind. I guarantee he will take over from there! See, You initiated it without giving in!!!!! Damn stubborn people!!! 
Hey Bling! I'm hot and bothered! And you?
The devil is in Vegas!!! It's hot as hell here!! 110 degrees with nothing but the breathe of hell blowing on us! Not even the pool is refreshing. That's why I'm so hot and bothered!
JP why don't you take a vacation and go somewhere where the weather is nice...damn 110degrees...here in DC it is like 75 and breezy. I am enjoying this day and the weather.
Im currntly having a stand off with my virgo girlfriend and its killing me! Why in gods name do we always have to initiate the sex! I wanna be tackled and for god sakes practically raped by my virgoan girlfriend and she woun't do it and i'm not going to give in even though it's driving me crazy. Take i from me love is a two way street and if your only going one way on it he might find other roads to travel. He wants to be desired so go get your man and give him everything he wants you know in your heart that your gonna get it back 10X. When it comes to scorpios and sex give a little get a whole lot more. Probably that you can handle.
CAUTION: Scorpios pent up for weeks can be explosive in the sack!!! So cancel you afternoon jog for the next day because you 1 wont need it and two probably wont feel like moving let alone walking
PS HAVE SEX WITH YOUR SCORPIO DO IT NOW lol hope this helps, now this is a topic i can relate to
CAUTION: Scorpios pent up for weeks can be explosive in the sack!!! So cancel you afternoon jog for the next day because you 1 wont need it and two probably wont feel like moving let alone walking
PS HAVE SEX WITH YOUR SCORPIO DO IT NOW lol hope this helps, now this is a topic i can relate to
I normally don't start things (im a virgo too), but it's not intentional. I'm just passivev like that. If the problem he has is that you ever initiate sex though, its not going to be solved by you not initiating sex. he probably feels like you are just agreeing when he wants to have sex instead of you really wanting to have sex. I mean, I know how you feel cause I'm the same way, but if you're getting frustrated, just have sex with him. and if you needed any other incentive, the two of you being pent up for weeks will probably result in the most explosive sex ever.
B by S: telling a virgo her man is giong to cheat on her? do you know what you just did???? and let us know how it goes when your virgo finds out what you're up to
B by S: telling a virgo her man is giong to cheat on her? do you know what you just did???? and let us know how it goes when your virgo finds out what you're up to
actually gravity it worked out pretty well i only had to hold out for a couple of days and she came to me and got it and it was awesome to see the compromise and when i said that the virgs boyfriend would find new roads to travel that did not nessesarily mean he was going to cheat on her the miss the glass is half empty that could have ment many things, *COUGHbut mostly he would probably cheat on herCOUGH*
In case you are not aware of this gravity but, i dont mix words i call them like i see them and normaly my honesty is praised amongst my friends, because they know that if they ask me a question i will completely remove all emotion out of it. Tis a gift that i have. Ohh lisbon, sorry if i offended you. Gravity take a break you think to much.
In case you are not aware of this gravity but, i dont mix words i call them like i see them and normaly my honesty is praised amongst my friends, because they know that if they ask me a question i will completely remove all emotion out of it. Tis a gift that i have. Ohh lisbon, sorry if i offended you. Gravity take a break you think to much.
I don't think too much. I'm compensating for the fact that no one around me thinks at all.
And when I said tell us how it goes with your girl, I was joking arounf about the wrath of a virgo when she finds out her boyfriend is cheating on her :-p
And when I said tell us how it goes with your girl, I was joking arounf about the wrath of a virgo when she finds out her boyfriend is cheating on her :-p
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