Scorpio woman advice
This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by maninchina on Thursday, August 31, 2017 and has 11 replies.
hello,
first post here... Im Aquarius, Im dating a scorpio woman, she is amazing in every way possible..but Ive managed to anger her just this afternoon, some misunderstanding about communicating... she thinks I didnt understand her english and threw up my hands in duscussed...back story she is korean and english in not her first language.. anyway, she tells me everything will be ok, but need time to cool dow ... then 3 hours later she sends me a message that says shes having a hard time getting over this incident...
im trying to tread lightly and give her the space she wants.. any suggestions would be very helpful...
first post here... Im Aquarius, Im dating a scorpio woman, she is amazing in every way possible..but Ive managed to anger her just this afternoon, some misunderstanding about communicating... she thinks I didnt understand her english and threw up my hands in duscussed...back story she is korean and english in not her first language.. anyway, she tells me everything will be ok, but need time to cool dow ... then 3 hours later she sends me a message that says shes having a hard time getting over this incident...
im trying to tread lightly and give her the space she wants.. any suggestions would be very helpful...
What did you say, exactly?
UPDATE:
After several hours she reached out to me and we discussed what happened, seems misunderstanding.. And warns me that if it happens again, shes gone...I've never dated a Scorpio woman before and her behavior is something im not really used to.
She has two kids and is separated from her husband, she doesn't want to discuss her separation, ever, she tells me that weekends are off limits because she spends time with her kids, which I completely understand. She dated a man for a year and he never met her kids or even knew where her home was, she falls off the radar for 8 hours with not a word from her, Then she texted me like nothing happened. We have a trip planned for October so I know she thinks about the future with me, She tells me she loves me and does nice things for me but it seems she is disconnected most of the time it seems like Im not her priority
After several hours she reached out to me and we discussed what happened, seems misunderstanding.. And warns me that if it happens again, shes gone...I've never dated a Scorpio woman before and her behavior is something im not really used to.
She has two kids and is separated from her husband, she doesn't want to discuss her separation, ever, she tells me that weekends are off limits because she spends time with her kids, which I completely understand. She dated a man for a year and he never met her kids or even knew where her home was, she falls off the radar for 8 hours with not a word from her, Then she texted me like nothing happened. We have a trip planned for October so I know she thinks about the future with me, She tells me she loves me and does nice things for me but it seems she is disconnected most of the time it seems like Im not her priority
And warns me that if it happens again, shes gone...
I'm neither Aquarius nor Scorpio, so take this with a grain of salt, but...
If a girl ever tried to give me an ultimatum like that, I would consider the relationship over. She thinks so little of the relationship that she's willing to drop it over nothing? That doesn't sound very committed to me, at all.
Making up after a fight is one thing, but living under the constant threat of another unreasonable explosion? I don't see how you could possibly invest in the relationship (emotionally or financially) under those circumstances.
"Man in china"
"Kids"
Isnt there a 1 kid policy there(in China) or at least it was if she didnt give birth in the last year or so?
Or are you from HK? Have you seen a pic of these children? It all sounds awfully convenient to make up a kid story and go fuck around every weekend.
"Kids"
Isnt there a 1 kid policy there(in China) or at least it was if she didnt give birth in the last year or so?
Or are you from HK? Have you seen a pic of these children? It all sounds awfully convenient to make up a kid story and go fuck around every weekend.
@Mr_Pinchy
She is Korean, Her Ex is Chinese and Yes I've seen many photos and videos of both of her children
She is Korean, Her Ex is Chinese and Yes I've seen many photos and videos of both of her children
Posted by maninchina
UPDATE:
After several hours she reached out to me and we discussed what happened, seems misunderstanding.. And warns me that if it happens again, shes gone...I've never dated a Scorpio woman before and her behavior is something im not really used to.
She has two kids and is separated from her husband, she doesn't want to discuss her separation, ever, she tells me that weekends are off limits because she spends time with her kids, which I completely understand. She dated a man for a year and he never met her kids or even knew where her home was, she falls off the radar for 8 hours with not a word from her, Then she texted me like nothing happened. We have a trip planned for October so I know she thinks about the future with me, She tells me she loves me and does nice things for me but it seems she is disconnected most of the time it seems like Im not her priority
It would be easy to say she sounds too demanding and restrictive, etc, however you haven't mentioned how long you two have been dating, you've thrown an example of her ex not meeting her kids or knowing where she lives, which has absolutely nothing to do with the two of you and you mentioned her going (what you consider MIA for 8 hours)...so far I'm not seeing an issue that can not be resolved with a simple conversation. Put your hope and expectations out there as the relationship progresses and see if she is willing to meet you half way or at all. At that point, if she isn't willing to meet you half way then you have an issue. At this point, you just come off as jumping the gun (aka predicting what someone will/wont do as it pertains to you, when it doesn't) which I noticed a lot from Aquas.
As it pertains to you not feeling like a priority---she has children, so you're not. You can become important and if you would like to feel more included in her life, talk to her.
PS, not being in contact with someone that is not your spouse for 8 hours isn't a big deal. Chill out.
Just be sweet with her, tell her that you really care about her and explain the misunderstanding from your point of view. Ask her if there`s something you can do to work things out and to please have patience with you because you are trying your best for her
MIC, how long have you been in a relationship with one another ?
Granted, at this point if she has only invested very little into the relationship, then you are expecting far more from her than she could give at this moment (especially, given that she has children of her own).
All I see here thus far, is an issue with communication.
Is she aware of this, are you aware of this, has this topic been officially breached before without either parties sweeping it under the carpet or walking off ?
All in all, relax ... Water - Bearer, use your logic and rational to centre yourself.
Even as a Stinger myself, my partner and I will often go more than eight hours without contacting one another merely because we both have lives to live, and work to finish / accomplish.
Granted, at this point if she has only invested very little into the relationship, then you are expecting far more from her than she could give at this moment (especially, given that she has children of her own).
All I see here thus far, is an issue with communication.
Is she aware of this, are you aware of this, has this topic been officially breached before without either parties sweeping it under the carpet or walking off ?
All in all, relax ... Water - Bearer, use your logic and rational to centre yourself.
Even as a Stinger myself, my partner and I will often go more than eight hours without contacting one another merely because we both have lives to live, and work to finish / accomplish.
Posted by maninchinaI am a scorp and i don't throw a towel on someone just becuase of some misunderstanding. Just give her time and she will come around. Don't overdo with apologies.
hello,
first post here... Im Aquarius, Im dating a scorpio woman, she is amazing in every way possible..but Ive managed to anger her just this afternoon, some misunderstanding about communicating... she thinks I didnt understand her english and threw up my hands in duscussed...back story she is korean and english in not her first language.. anyway, she tells me everything will be ok, but need time to cool dow ... then 3 hours later she sends me a message that says shes having a hard time getting over this incident...
im trying to tread lightly and give her the space she wants.. any suggestions would be very helpful...
Scorps are forgiving as long as you didn't wrong them or cheat on them. Of course it really matters if she actually liked you a lot. If that's the case, then you are fine. If not, then anything would trigger annoyance, even if you are on your best behaviour.
The advice is to chill and let nature take it's course after you genuinly apologize (once).
Just move on bruv.
This looks like trouble.
This looks like trouble.
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