Scorpio Women ?!

Okay, so, I have a friend who is a Scorpio and his girlfriend (now ex) is a Scorpio too. They dated for over four years. And one fine day, she comes over and tells him that she wants to break up. Without a valid or a genuine reason. She just kept saying that they were no good for each other and that her parents won't accept their relationship. That was what she told my friend when he asked for a reason. When I did, she said that he's being very dominating lately and I asked her to maybe give him a chance more and let him try and improve, but she decided against it. She was completely against getting back with him. But, again, she pleaded him to be friends with her. Even though he refused, she kept asking him for it. And then she'd text me, ( because she couldn't talk to my friend directly) asking me how my friend is doing. I don't understand her behaviour. And then again, when they were in a relationship, she would always tell him that she'd marry him and stuff. All of a sudden noe, she hates him with all her heart.

Posted by thescorpiowoman
Okay, so, I have a friend who is a Scorpio and his girlfriend (now ex) is a Scorpio too. They dated for over four years. And one fine day, she comes over and tells him that she wants to break up. Without a valid or a genuine reason. She just kept saying that they were no good for each other and that her parents won't accept their relationship. That was what she told my friend when he asked for a reason. When I did, she said that he's being very dominating lately and I asked her to maybe give him a chance more and let him try and improve, but she decided against it. .

What gave you the idea you had the right to interfere between their business and address her? That's what I call sticking your nose up someones ass where it doesn't belong...

I didn't come here for someone to tell me what my business is. And I didn't text her first ? She already had my number ? And she texted me ? Yes. And then I took the conversation forward ? Yes. And she texted me asking me about my friend ? Yes. And what gave you the idea to assume as you please ?

Posted by thescorpiowoman
I didn't come here for someone to tell me what my business is. And I didn't text her first ? She already had my number ? And she texted me ? Yes. And then I took the conversation forward ? Yes. And she texted me asking me about my friend ? Yes. And what gave you the idea to assume as you please ?

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Hmm, I guess that ^^^^all slipped your mind before you decided to type up the thread eh? Thanks for adding it now after I pulled your nose out of her ass. 😐

Posted by Alpha
Well, there can be a lot of reasons or just one. Maybe he tried to manipulate her or show her who has control in an unhealthy way? Maybe she didn't want him to lead anymore? Maybe she didn't trust him anymore? Maybe he gave her every reason to feel suspicious? Unless she doesn't open up to you, we can circle around the 'guessing part'. Did she share anything with you? I think a female Scorpio will be able to tell you more clearly without being judgemental.

There's so much negativity in this world. I think you will be better off if you choose to ignore it and not respond to it.

I tried to ignore, but she'd come back every week and ask me about his well being.But, she never told him that he was being domineering. It was only Mr who she told so.

So my reply now is IT DOESN'T MATTER THAT YOU DON'T UNDERSTAND HER BEHAVIOR. Why?
Because it's not ANY OF YOUR BUSINESS. It's between him and her.
Stay out of it.

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Posted by thescorpiowoman
I didn't come here for someone to tell me what my business is. And I didn't text her first ? She already had my number ? And she texted me ? Yes. And then I took the conversation forward ? Yes. And she texted me asking me about my friend ? Yes. And what gave you the idea to assume as you please ?

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Hmm, I guess that ^^^^all slipped your mind before you decided to type up the thread eh? Thanks for adding it now after I pulled your nose out of her ass. 😐

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Possibly, I didn't want to expand the whole story ? And also, I wanted to get to the point ? Yes.

Posted by LetltB
So my reply now is IT DOESN'T MATTER THAT YOU DON'T UNDERSTAND HER BEHAVIOR. Why?
Because it's not ANY OF YOUR BUSINESS. It's between him and her.
Stay out of it.

Thank you ? But, certain times, you can't help, but help your friend who is in need ? Guess you're not the considerate type. Thank you though.

oh...I didn't see the part where your guy friend asked for help. Must've left that out too——

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Posted by Alpha
Well, there can be a lot of reasons or just one. Maybe he tried to manipulate her or show her who has control in an unhealthy way? Maybe she didn't want him to lead anymore? Maybe she didn't trust him anymore? Maybe he gave her every reason to feel suspicious? Unless she doesn't open up to you, we can circle around the 'guessing part'. Did she share anything with you? I think a female Scorpio will be able to tell you more clearly without being judgemental.

There's so much negativity in this world. I think you will be better off if you choose to ignore it and not respond to it.

I tried to ignore, but she'd come back every week and ask me about his well being.But, she never told him that he was being domineering. It was only Mr who she told so.

Lol I wasn't asking you to ignore your friend's ex.

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But, um, isn't she the main person ? What exactly did you want me to ignore then ?

Scorpio men I know personally have huge balls and take care of little stuff like this on their own without asking for help. I'm mistaken apparently.

Posted by LetltB
oh...I didn't see the part where your guy friend asked for help. Must've left that out too——

You want me to write it down again ? I'd have no problem. I could message you the complete story without leaving out a bit. I'm quite a writer and well, I also know how to summarize things.

Posted by LetltB
Scorpio men I know personally have huge balls and take care of little stuff like this on their own without asking for help. I'm mistaken apparently.

Not all Scorpio men are the same.

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Well, there can be a lot of reasons or just one. Maybe he tried to manipulate her or show her who has control in an unhealthy way? Maybe she didn't want him to lead anymore? Maybe she didn't trust him anymore? Maybe he gave her every reason to feel suspicious? Unless she doesn't open up to you, we can circle around the 'guessing part'. Did she share anything with you? I think a female Scorpio will be able to tell you more clearly without being judgemental.

There's so much negativity in this world. I think you will be better off if you choose to ignore it and not respond to it.

I tried to ignore, but she'd come back every week and ask me about his well being.But, she never told him that he was being domineering. It was only Mr who she told so.

Lol I wasn't asking you to ignore your friend's ex.

But, um, isn't she the main person ? What exactly did you want me to ignore then ?

I probably should've added that the negativity on online forums has its own aura. Stay away from it and you'll be fine.

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Oh. Lol. Okay.

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Posted by LetltB
Scorpio men I know personally have huge balls and take care of little stuff like this on their own without asking for help. I'm mistaken apparently.

Not all Scorpio men are the same.

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So this wimp ass Scorpio asked for your help and to step in then?

Posted by starwars
I feel you, I have a scorpio buddy who get himself in so much shit and messed up relationships. I've been friends with him for over 7 years and to this day I stay out of his relationships even though im sometimes so desperate to help him, but I know I have no right to tell him what to do and that he likes to deal with his own shit by his own and its really the only way he'd learn not to get himself into stuff like that.

its nice to be considerate , im sure you are, but relationships are a bit awkward and too personal. I've only known about one heart-breaking relationship of his because it was too damaging for his ego and self. so I helped him to get over it but I didn't get myself involved in the mess of the relationship.

if I was you, id tell the ex to stop contacting me and if she has something to say she can speak to the scorpio directly. shes being passive and its kinda annoying, why would she tell him something and tell you something else? the only way shed be direct is by you ignoring her and making it clear that if she got something to say to him the only way she can do it is by talking to him

if you wanna help your buddy, just listen when he wants to vent + be supportive of his choices but don't response and contact his ex because that will only confuse you and bring you troubles.

I didn't contact his ex ever. She came to me maybe because she thought that she could talk to.me.about him and that I'd spill.out information or.something. But, she'd just pop up in my inbox. But, in the end I just asked her to leave me alone and well, then she blocked me. And, I did my part of consoling him and supporting him.

I'm guessing its more to the story than you know. It seems as if he did something to turn her off or make her change her mind. I would tell your friend to let her go freely. If its meant to be it will work out.

Posted by thescorpiowoman
Without a valid or a genuine reason. She just kept saying that they were no good for each other and that her parents won't accept their relationship.

That IS a valid and genuine reason.

She thinks they are no good for eachother but she cares for him so is desperate to know how he is and has to asked you because he is not talking to her.

I understand him not talking to her, I understand her caring for him even though she doesn't want to be with him, what I don't understand is why is this any of your business....

Want to be considerate and help? Listen and be there for your friend. That's IT.

Being in the middle of "he said she said I said" regarding two other people's relationships is stupid and a ticking bomb about to explode most probably on yourself.