Scorpio women driving me crazy. Taurus male here!!

I know this scorpio girl who I've been friends with since a couple of years.We became close friends about 3-4 months back when we started texting each other. Now we text each other a lot everyday and we also take up a class together in the evening.Everytime she is the one to initiate a talk and even comes up to me everytime during the class break. Earlier we used to talk normally but like since a month she's been getting a bit flirty with me and always asking if I'm sad or anything like that when we are not talking. I usually don't talk much because me being of shy nature.I don't flirt with her but i feel she's the one always fishing for compliments and wanting my attention. She always says that she never wants to get in a relationship because of her past relationships, which were pretty bad. I have also come out of a long term relationship so i'm also not really interested in a relationship right now. But here's why things get complicated for me.She's very attractive and i have to resist not giving compliments to her because i don't want to give her mixed signals. And also she talks to a lot of guys,have been on dates(she never admits it was a date). And because of all this i don't even trust her enough to get involved with her. Sometimes i just wish this all wouldn't have started ,i keep thinking about it,get jealous too, and i feel she shouldn't flirt with me if we are never getting serious or she's doing with other guys. I don't know, this girl has messed up my life since a month!!! Many guys might love this woman but i'm hating it because i'm not a fling kind of guy.I love serious relationships!
PLEASE help !!What could possibly be going on in this girl's mind??


PS-Sorry for the long post!!!

Posted by ellessque
www.cafeastrology.com

give us your charts bull boy. we'd be happy to pick you both apart 😛

Well here's my birth chat,

Sun Taurus21.09??AscendantVirgo29.10
Moon Scorpio 5.59??IILibra26.52
Mercury Taurus27.07??IIIScorpio27.18
Venus Aries23.50??IVSagittarius29.07
Mars Gemini24.18??VAquarius 0.56
Jupiter Aries16.43??VIPisces 1.23
Saturn Sagittarius19.48 R??VIIPisces29.10
Uranus Sagittarius26.03 R??VIIIAries26.52
Neptune Capricorn 7.44 R??IXTaurus27.18
Pluto Scorpio 8.13 R??MidheavenGemini29.07
Lilith Cancer18.59??XILeo 0.56
Asc node Aries11.02??XIIVirgo 1.23



Here's her..

Sun Scorpio 8.26—?
Moon Pisces13.33—?
Mercury Libra29.42 R—?
Venus Scorpio26.49—?
Mars Libra15.13—?
Jupiter Aries22.51 R—?
Saturn Sagittarius18.36—?
Uranus Sagittarius24.13—?
Neptune Capricorn 5.48—?
Pluto Scorpio 9.51—?
Lilith Leo 8.16—?
Asc node Aries 1.52.

Jus copy pasted..🙂 didn't know her time of birth! please help..
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I cant do the astrology side of it very well but I can give you a scorpio womans insight (who happens to have a major thing for bulls).

It sounds like you are scared... but would be willing to jump if you got the right feedback.

It sounds like she is looking around, not really committing to anyone at this point, kinda playing the field. Which means she hasn't gotten it in her head that you're interested. Once a scorpio knows who she's after, there's no denying it. We can be incredibly direct and forward. (me thinks I may have scared my latest bull off a bit through this typical scorpio tactic 😛
) Until then, why NOT get free dinner? Make some friends?

If you are willing to go with her and really make something of it, then SHOW her that. You'll know VERY quickly if she's serious about you or not. If you're just going to play head games, stay away from a scorpio.

long as I'm not paying 😛

I agree with YourSunshine...only because that's how I am. I don't have a chart like hers though, so it may not be the case.

Maybe you should let her know how what she's doing is confusing you and that you take these things pretty seriously so if she doesn't mean it, could she pull it back a little.

I think her reaction after this would be very telling. Either she will stop because she's doing it as a friend (or just having fun until she finds someone she wants to zoom in on) or maybe you'll find out that it's the opposite and she is a little keen on you but still needs some sort of go-ahead from you.

My mother is a scorp and she is the total opposite to me. She flirts and all sorts of things to let guys know she likes them. She's even just walked up to people and given them her number lol.

So really...she could be doing it for all sorts of reasons. I don't think you shouldn't trust her but maybe stay back a bit and watch her, just in case.