scorpioboss - what's on his mind?
This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by CancerPisces on Tuesday, November 10, 2015 and has 10 replies.
need help understanding my new scorpioboss (25th oct). I am going to write down instances which make me think about his behaviour and want to know what others think.
He joined our team in Aug this year and just before he started I was promoted as lead of the team. I am a aqua moon and pisces sun. I did read about scorpio's strong personality and charisma so I was aware of him using this every now and than. We are team of 3 ladies and one more man apart from him. So far I've seen some extreme sides of his nature with other colleagues i.e. giving verbal warning to one of my colleague for just a complain about her and asking another person to resign on the day! But with me so far I see he has different attitude.
I used to think this is mainly because he needs my help every now and than so he is being mindful about his attitude but since last few weeks am a bit unsure of his behaviour.
The first I noticed his different attitude towards me was when one day whole team was taking about leaving early and we were teasing him that we all need to leave early on Friday......I joined in with the team just for fun and at point where he said no not everyone can leave early - I just said I give up and put a pretend sad face and went back to my desk.....next thing I know was he came over to my desk and in serious way said to me that if most of my work is done - I can leave! I was a bit surprised and no wonder rest team did complained why he just told me and not rest.....he just laughed and left - this was first time I kind of felt a bit weird.
another instance was when we all girls decided to go on long lunch and I suggested we inform him we'll be late. next thing is he makes fun that we are all girls going but than asks where and with whom...I stopped girls there before they answer and told him that we don't really need to tell him who we go with...he laughed and than came back to me and said sorry he wasn't being nosy.
Friday before his birthday on 25th oct -I decided to trick him before giving him the birthday card signed by team. So, I went to him with serious look and card in normal envelope...basically made him feel as if I was about to declare I am resigning.....it was fun to see him nervous and scared -he went all red and nearly biting his fingers as if he was hoping I am not gonna give him bad news!! when he knew it was a trick - he laughed and said he's too emotional.....that's when he mentioned to me about an instance where he was very impressed of how in stressful situation I did something and did not show my tears but carried on as normal - to him it was impressive which I still don't und why.
soon after that i was off for week's holiday - but I remember on last day before holiday during a conversation he looked straight into my eyes and for a minute I don't know what happened - I almost forgot what we were talking about....and he commented 'you almost fell asleep there didn't you?'....I remember feeling strange with that stare an
He joined our team in Aug this year and just before he started I was promoted as lead of the team. I am a aqua moon and pisces sun. I did read about scorpio's strong personality and charisma so I was aware of him using this every now and than. We are team of 3 ladies and one more man apart from him. So far I've seen some extreme sides of his nature with other colleagues i.e. giving verbal warning to one of my colleague for just a complain about her and asking another person to resign on the day! But with me so far I see he has different attitude.
I used to think this is mainly because he needs my help every now and than so he is being mindful about his attitude but since last few weeks am a bit unsure of his behaviour.
The first I noticed his different attitude towards me was when one day whole team was taking about leaving early and we were teasing him that we all need to leave early on Friday......I joined in with the team just for fun and at point where he said no not everyone can leave early - I just said I give up and put a pretend sad face and went back to my desk.....next thing I know was he came over to my desk and in serious way said to me that if most of my work is done - I can leave! I was a bit surprised and no wonder rest team did complained why he just told me and not rest.....he just laughed and left - this was first time I kind of felt a bit weird.
another instance was when we all girls decided to go on long lunch and I suggested we inform him we'll be late. next thing is he makes fun that we are all girls going but than asks where and with whom...I stopped girls there before they answer and told him that we don't really need to tell him who we go with...he laughed and than came back to me and said sorry he wasn't being nosy.
Friday before his birthday on 25th oct -I decided to trick him before giving him the birthday card signed by team. So, I went to him with serious look and card in normal envelope...basically made him feel as if I was about to declare I am resigning.....it was fun to see him nervous and scared -he went all red and nearly biting his fingers as if he was hoping I am not gonna give him bad news!! when he knew it was a trick - he laughed and said he's too emotional.....that's when he mentioned to me about an instance where he was very impressed of how in stressful situation I did something and did not show my tears but carried on as normal - to him it was impressive which I still don't und why.
soon after that i was off for week's holiday - but I remember on last day before holiday during a conversation he looked straight into my eyes and for a minute I don't know what happened - I almost forgot what we were talking about....and he commented 'you almost fell asleep there didn't you?'....I remember feeling strange with that stare an
Scorpio guys are different from Scorpio women the Scorp men are not uptight they are much more friendlier and easier to work with in my experience Scorpio men are not extreme control freaks like Scorp women.
Scorpios men or women are not leaders they do not make good bosses the reasons why
1) They can't handle change, if things start changing too rapidly things turn to schitt quickly
2) Black and white thinking it gets them in trouble
3) Control issues
4) Scared/nervousness
I worked under a Scorpio male boss he dropped the ball a lot I had to cover up for his mistakes, he was misunderstood quite a bit he has a odd sense of humor what some people thought he was being serious about he wasn't. I could tell when he was nervous he would be fidgeting like crazy, Scorpio men suffer from nervousness they live in fear just like Scorpio women.
I left my boss in the dark most of the time he rarely knew what I was doing till the task was done it was easier that way he didn't like it but it was the only way things got done. Cancer guys are leaders we can take on any task I think he's realized how much I did now that I don't work for him. Like I said I kept him in the dark he only knew what I was doing when somebody else told him or he was getting the bills for the stuff I ordered or work I scheduled without his approval. What Scared him was the fact I really didn't need his leadership I guess it was making him look bad his superiors were asking why was a guy in my position doing this the reason being I was a leader handled stuff just fine.
You want to see you boss squirm wait till some changes happen where he can't process it quick enough you will see him do some strange things from what I've been told my ex boss has shut down he's lost control things are chaos.
Scorpios men or women are not leaders they do not make good bosses the reasons why
1) They can't handle change, if things start changing too rapidly things turn to schitt quickly
2) Black and white thinking it gets them in trouble
3) Control issues
4) Scared/nervousness
I worked under a Scorpio male boss he dropped the ball a lot I had to cover up for his mistakes, he was misunderstood quite a bit he has a odd sense of humor what some people thought he was being serious about he wasn't. I could tell when he was nervous he would be fidgeting like crazy, Scorpio men suffer from nervousness they live in fear just like Scorpio women.
I left my boss in the dark most of the time he rarely knew what I was doing till the task was done it was easier that way he didn't like it but it was the only way things got done. Cancer guys are leaders we can take on any task I think he's realized how much I did now that I don't work for him. Like I said I kept him in the dark he only knew what I was doing when somebody else told him or he was getting the bills for the stuff I ordered or work I scheduled without his approval. What Scared him was the fact I really didn't need his leadership I guess it was making him look bad his superiors were asking why was a guy in my position doing this the reason being I was a leader handled stuff just fine.
You want to see you boss squirm wait till some changes happen where he can't process it quick enough you will see him do some strange things from what I've been told my ex boss has shut down he's lost control things are chaos.
Posted by WhiteChocolate
I think you're making mountains out of molehills.
If he's your boss, you'd be better served concentrating on your job functions than figuring out what he's thinking.
That ship has sailed.
I think you have a thing for scorpio men,n I think your boss likes U....a lot.he's giving u subtle hints but I won't advise you date your boss,it won't end well.I am a Scorpio woman and from all you have said...u like him too.
Thank you for replies everyone.
Never met Scorpioman before and I've read scorpions are good at manipulating so just wanted to be sure he's not up to something as such. All the replies above are helpful.
Udylaw1 - No - definitely don't intend to date my boss and make a mess with my career
Never met Scorpioman before and I've read scorpions are good at manipulating so just wanted to be sure he's not up to something as such. All the replies above are helpful.
Udylaw1 - No - definitely don't intend to date my boss and make a mess with my career
Posted by Udylaw1
I think you have a thing for scorpio men,n I think your boss likes U....a lot.he's giving u subtle hints but I won't advise you date your boss,it won't end well.I am a Scorpio woman and from all you have said...u like him too.
Yes. We don't like relationship in the office. yay not a Scorpio thing.
OK.but just so u know from all what u said he's not manipulating you'he just likes u a lot.I'm a scorpio so I know
Posted by Stihl46
Scorpio guys are different from Scorpio women the Scorp men are not uptight they are much more friendlier and easier to work with in my experience Scorpio men are not extreme control freaks like Scorp women.
Scorpios men or women are not leaders they do not make good bosses the reasons why
1) They can't handle change, if things start changing too rapidly things turn to schitt quickly
2) Black and white thinking it gets them in trouble
3) Control issues
4) Scared/nervousness
I worked under a Scorpio male boss he dropped the ball a lot I had to cover up for his mistakes, he was misunderstood quite a bit he has a odd sense of humor what some people thought he was being serious about he wasn't. I could tell when he was nervous he would be fidgeting like crazy, Scorpio men suffer from nervousness they live in fear just like Scorpio women.
I left my boss in the dark most of the time he rarely knew what I was doing till the task was done it was easier that way he didn't like it but it was the only way things got done. Cancer guys are leaders we can take on any task I think he's realized how much I did now that I don't work for him. Like I said I kept him in the dark he only knew what I was doing when somebody else told him or he was getting the bills for the stuff I ordered or work I scheduled without his approval. What Scared him was the fact I really didn't need his leadership I guess it was making him look bad his superiors were asking why was a guy in my position doing this the reason being I was a leader handled stuff just fine.
You want to see you boss squirm wait till some changes happen where he can't process it quick enough you will see him do some strange things from what I've been told my ex boss has shut down he's lost control things are chaos.
This is just waffle.
Posted by Udylaw1
OK.but just so u know from all what u said he's not manipulating you'he just likes u a lot.I'm a scorpio so I know
honestly just sounds like a good scorpio boss who is attentive to your feelings. not necessarily physically/sexually interested. this sounds similar to my last scorpio boss who was one of the best bosses I've ever had. a boss that made me feel good about myself and my work. i wouldn't read too much into it. theres no point. just appreciate that you have a boss that seems to want to work with you just as much as you do for him. my scorpio boss was borderline OCD so very particular about things. if you messed up, he looked at it as an opportunity to learn. so he was never just harsh. always constructive criticism which i appreciate. just go with the flow and it seems like he'll give just as much as you do.
She could have a good rumor going she's carrying her bosses baby lol
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