Scorpion and Gemini's :S

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by Angeleyes17 on Friday, January 25, 2013 and has 13 replies.
I seem to be attracting Male Gemini's recently. Does the compatibility/relationship even work? one Gemini is really trying hard to being with me. :S
Posted by GeminiLovesVirgo
I am advising you not to give it a go. You can both spare your lives from living hell. Lol. It was the last serious relationship I had and I got too burnt I've been scared to get in a relationship again... It's been 2 years.
Tell you what to expect:
Gemini - detached
Scorp - suspicious
Gemini - casually friendly with everyone
Scorp- jealous
Gemini - doesn't like being manipulated/dictated on what to do
Scorp - manipulative
Gemini - doesn't trust so much
Scorp - doesn't trust so much either
Gemini - wants to travel and explore
Scorp - wants stability and security at home
Gemini - forgives then forgets
Scorp - forgives but remembers and has the tendency to bring up an old conflict again
Gemini - tactless
Scorpio - gets hurt from the tactlessness of the Gemini
Gemini - don't check whereabouts of the scorp
Scorp - investigates cellphone, facebook, emails, etc.
Total opposites in a bad way. Based on my experience, the only thing we have in common is being experimental in bed. Other than that we don't meet at anything at all... Sad


Thanks for the break down. It does help. but being honest some of the above doesnt describe me being that way. I mean I can but im not completely like that. This guy is trying sexting with me at the mo and he is goood lol.. but i dont want to give in and get into all that.. but the more im not the more he's doing it lol..
Sorry I don??t wanna create another topic might as well link it to this.. kinda links to all this
I've recently getting to know (shockingly to me after I found out) 2 Gemini males and another shock is that they are friends lol..
Gem 1 - He is very younger than me. He??s still at Uni. This guy look wise isn??t my type. He is very talkative, shows me attention and talks nicely to me. Problem is that he??s very clingy, messages me all the time. He wants to meet me and his intentions are to be intimate and have a physical relationship and iv made it clear that i don??t, i just want to be friends. He keeps flirting with me and even going towards sexting. He puts me on the spot expecting something more, telling me to go with the flow and stop thinking deep into the future. But i have too because at the stage i am in life i want a man who wants a relationship that leads somewhere.
Gem 2 - He??s a lil younger than me. Career wise he is doing well. He??s a attractive guy and my type. We have fun messaging each other. Its funny, light sweet, gets flirty but I don??t mind all that. He??s already told me he isn??t looking for a serious relationship and i really respect him for the honesty. I'd love to keep it has friends. He doesn??t always show me consent attention which i like, he??s not clingy. He??s very laid back and doesn??t take life seriously. (Which i find very appealing)
So both being Gemini??s and completely different. How is that possible? Can scorpions be compatible either friendship or relationship wise??
Posted by Angeleyes17
I seem to be attracting Male Gemini's recently. Does the compatibility/relationship even work? one Gemini is really trying hard to being with me. :S


Some say yes, some say no. I personally really like Gems and get a long with all of the one I've met, especially the males. Getting along does not necessarily mean they are suitable for a relationship with a Scorpio.
I'm a Gem married to a Scorpio. Because of our chart placements, an astrologer told me that we had two of the most compatible charts she had ever seen, even though our sun signs aren't "supposed" to be a good match. So, like anything else, it really just depends.
However, I will say that we have some deep, and inherent, differences that are now, and likely forever will be, nearly impossible to reconcile. These are cellular level differences, and there are very few options for compromise without one of us giving up something that makes us who we are. I know that you can take any two people and find differences, but I'm talking about differences in our very makeup, not just in how we do or perceive things.
If this sort of continual frustration is worth it for you, then proceed. But it would be a good idea to give it serious thought first. I can say that, for me, being with such an amazing person has been worth it, but I'm pretty sure I would NOT go the Scorpio route again if I were to be back in the dating world, no matter how much I respect and admire Scorp men.
Posted by Whimsy
I'm a Gem married to a Scorpio. Because of our chart placements, an astrologer told me that we had two of the most compatible charts she had ever seen, even though our sun signs aren't "supposed" to be a good match. So, like anything else, it really just depends.
However, I will say that we have some deep, and inherent, differences that are now, and likely forever will be, nearly impossible to reconcile. These are cellular level differences, and there are very few options for compromise without one of us giving up something that makes us who we are. I know that you can take any two people and find differences, but I'm talking about differences in our very makeup, not just in how we do or perceive things.
If this sort of continual frustration is worth it for you, then proceed. But it would be a good idea to give it serious thought first. I can say that, for me, being with such an amazing person has been worth it, but I'm pretty sure I would NOT go the Scorpio route again if I were to be back in the dating world, no matter how much I respect and admire Scorp men.


Thats sweet! How long have you been married? Yeh I think Gems are great people. I get along with them well.. just feel that relationship it wouldnt work.
Posted by 87scorpio
I dated a gemini last year. Really lovely guy, good connection and great sex. But the problem was he was far too nice for me. I am not used to being treated well by men and get a little suspicious if they are too nice. It was far too easy for me. I like a bit of a challenge. I got diverted away from the gem by a bull.


Ahh i can soo relate to that. When someone is too nice, I start to wonder why? and its only because of the long experience of being treated poorly by other men.
I just posted this over in the Gemini forum. I'm a Gemini female and all I seem to attract is Scorpio males. Last 2 weeks there have been six...SIX!!! All from Nov 2-14th. Im like *sigh* Not that I have a problem with them I am just really starting to wonder what it is. I had a really bad experience with my last Scorpio so Im not exactly sure about anyone else which makes me even more elusive *flits away* Which I guess is an even bigger problem seeing they come after me after I run off.
Posted by Xin
I just posted this over in the Gemini forum. I'm a Gemini female and all I seem to attract is Scorpio males. Last 2 weeks there have been six...SIX!!! All from Nov 2-14th. Im like *sigh* Not that I have a problem with them I am just really starting to wonder what it is. I had a really bad experience with my last Scorpio so Im not exactly sure about anyone else which makes me even more elusive *flits away* Which I guess is an even bigger problem seeing they come after me after I run off.


wow 6.. thats really strange (but in a good way) of course Winking
We do learn from our experiences and dont want to make the same mistake again. Not all Scorpions males are bad. Out of those guys, does anyone stand out for you?!?
Well Angel I wish one of them did. Most of them I am too busy standing back and watching. I don't get too close to the Scorpion lair due to being stung and dragged down into the dark once before. Noooo thank you! LOL! None of them do. Becoming a little disheartened about the whole thing really.
Posted by Xin
Well Angel I wish one of them did. Most of them I am too busy standing back and watching. I don't get too close to the Scorpion lair due to being stung and dragged down into the dark once before. Noooo thank you! LOL! None of them do. Becoming a little disheartened about the whole thing really.


Ahh yeh true.. You don??t want a repeated situation with someone. One of the Gem guys I found out has a gf (surprise surprise) was disappointed about it but at the end of the day, at least I didn??t get too close to him. I would never want to be the 'other woman'. And the other Gem guy is still on my case. He??s compliments me a lot and is very flirty and direct about it. Not a bad thing, but I know what his intentions are and I don??t want that. I keep telling him but he doesn??t get it. He??s loving the chase lol.
Its not a great match, they would make better friends. Both signs are far to different.Peace!
I've read somewhere that Gemini, along with Aries, is the "opposites attract" match of Scorpio. Personally, I believe you should give it a go. I've seen great Gemini/Scorpio relationships. I'm currently in a relationship with a Sag,my opposites attract match, and couldn't be happier. As someone stated above, an astrologer was surprised by how compatible our charts were as well. I previously believed water signs could never mesh well with air or fire signs, but anything is possible. You never know with charts :p. I hope everything goes well for you.

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