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Hi All
In my experience, scorp males turn out to be wonderful allies in general. But most of the females of this sign are insecure,secretive and unrelaible, including my ex who got married to somebody w/o givin me even a whiff. In fact she never broke the newz to me and I got to know of the same from some distant cousin of hers !
And this too aft years of declarations of undying love !
Can any of you shed light on what makes scorp ladies so cold and ruthless ?
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Oct 23, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 6167 · Topics: 146
Warm ...yeah many of you would be. But dont U think most of the scorp females prefer pragmatism over emotions ?
Now that kind of practicality is good for self/self interrest but not always wholesome for others.
And why would you exhibit your sunny side to somebody whom you actually wouldnot want to ?
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Or get bored of you..then as Cap said, go onto something else..lol..
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Sane advice Cap ....very much appreciated. Itz only human to crave for the lost world though. Yup. I understand the deeper implications.
And in my case it wasnt a question of level of desire. I was talking about the transparency part.Secrecy and manipulations destroy faith in general.
I was just trying to get some view on why scorps treat emotions/naivete as inferior. What is the drive behind such behavior ?
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Feb 16, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 15214 · Topics: 99
Ruffling doesn't even begin to describe what goes on here...so yeah...Ruffle away...
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Wow, impressed with Gauravs knowledge...
I am fine Cap..A bit tired from the weekend..spent it with Mr Scorp..need I say more!..lol
I am off work tomorrow and Wednesday..need a holiday..
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Yeah I kinda figured he was indian..the name did give it away!..lol..Do you think he qualifies to make the "spice girl" band? I heard Aries men are a bit metrosexual anyway!..He can be sporty spice...LOL
Yes trouble...don't spill the beans...keep it shhhtum!
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LOL..actually you are right..we have our band..his services are not required..rockchick was our 5th member..I remember now..
So how was your weekend Cap? What did you get up to?
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Oct 23, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 6167 · Topics: 146
Bran...that cappie stuff was of my making. U misdirected the burst.
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Bran ..Does that mean U have no status ?
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LOL ...meant to be caustic ?..OK.
BTW I was just kiddin...Yup ! Egalitarianism is the concept !
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Cap, Bran ....caste system still pervades most of the regions in India ,yup. Things are changing though....gradually. About discrimination, caste is a mere manifestation/pretext. U can find it happening in every corner of this world.
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Cap...Guess we need to wait for results to pour in out of the research being done on areas of brain driving wild/cruel thoughts. Guess conditional stimulus plays a big role and even the brain shud be evolving on the EI part as well apart from IQ.
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Gosh Archer..I just looked at your profile..and you have my favourite season up there..the colours of Autumn...YUMMMMMMY
Oh so beautiful
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LOL ...Just wanted to say that we cant blame our ancestors for all those atrocities. Evolution has itz own schemes.
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U cud articulate it well. Well maybe...hope so.
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Cap: "Yeah from being imperfect to perfect"
Not to sure about that, given the current climate...
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Hmmmm....The last loud hiccup ?
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Archer ...scorp in the coffee must be ?
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Yes Archer..Me love autumn..very much...The colours, the wardrobe, the Scorp season...
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LOL..I hadn't thought about it like that..but yeah..
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Yupp...North ppl r in for shivers now. West may still be dry.
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Thanks for the weather report you guys!
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LOL....MM...This can rival the CNN forecast !
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Bye MM,Archer,Gaurav.
Gosh this sounds like an episode of The Waltons..
i remember my friend when the time she like my advice she came to me then one day i realize that she's not kind of good friend of mine nobody knows why i dont call her or even to answer her call.. so one day she call to my friend asking us then when i heard my name i said dont botherd me anymore or call its better for you so she want to know why? so i talk to her i said dont disturb me anymore you dont make anything and i dont make anything for you.. this is me i can do what i want i will talk the person i want so i hang the phone in her face....
' including my ex who got married to somebody w/o givin me even a whiff. In fact she never broke the newz to me and I got to know of the same from some distant cousin of hers !'
i can see why she wouldnt tell you, she didnt want you to know because she didnt want to hurt you and she wanted you to still be available. i dont think she even thought it would be bad not to tell you.
does that make sense? my mom(virgo) pointed out to me (scorpio) that sometimes the way i manipulate is by not disclosing specific information on purpose to keep someone else's picture looking a certain way. i think she was triyng to do the opposite of hurt you, she probably still has undying love for you,,,,somewhere.
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"she probably still has undying love for you,,,,somewhere"
I have no reason to doubt that. But that hidden thing doesnt fetch world-peace.
I dont want to rake up issues here...But am not an iconoclast and I dont feel like making heroes out of ordinary people.
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I think she would've told him about the marriage..whether she wanted to hurt him or not is beside the point..I know at times we assume the other person understands our disappearance acts..but in this situation, you can't just disappear and announce your marriage..theres an underlying issue here..
Anyway, not here to discuss Guru's ex love life..
oh yes that is true i guess a marriage isnt something you can really leave out..
I agree with kiki..she just didn't want to hurt you..despite what people say, we do care about other people's feelings unless they have hurt us and then we will strike back, it is our defense mechanism...but in your case she just didn't want to hurt you...and we always want to leave the door open so that we can come back when and if we feel like it...