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here's the message the scorp wrote to me after i freaked out about being friends with him. here's his message:
So, I guess after it all, the other night doesn't sit well with me. I don't
know if that seems odd or not to you. I slept on it, and I think that I have
to simplify my life, sort things out to organized, and get on with living.
This may seem kind of cryptic to you, but I'll just summarize in more
certain terms by saying that I thought maybe we could be friends, which is
kind of what I tried. But it is difficult to have a relationship as such
with you, for whatever reason. So I say we just cool it off, give each other
space. Sorry if that seems unreasonable, but it is what I've decided.
i'm sad. is he playing games?
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Jul 30, 2008Comments: 0 · Posts: 6247 · Topics: 51
Do you want him as friends or more, Varies?
You clearly stated you don't want games - In the end live accordingly otherwise you're giving him the 'ok card' for the continuous game playing long-term...bs really !
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i want to be more which is why i freaked out because he's not ready for a relationship. he urge me to be friends and i said i can't do this, then i went through the pros and cons and decided i could be friends. he's a bit jaded on his part and so now he's doesn't want to be friends as you can see from the note.
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so he put it in writing, good as a contract ! IMO take it and run !
Surely there's someone out there who wants what you want? Before you get even more emotionally attached and blah to this dude?
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typical scaredyscorp varies. i really think that if you show signs of moving on - sincere or not - it will force him into a corner and perhaps he will make more effort with you.
'that's what i've decided'..........ooooOOOOOooooo get you mister!!!
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he use to have a girlfriend, but that was over a year ago.
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i feel you sister. it may take a while. hang on in there.
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can i ask what happen with your relationship with a scorp and why you're so wise with these scorps?
Varies, his msg seems a little cold-hearted. I agree with Libra-Carrie. Ignore his sorry ass. Stop pining for him and find yourself a better man.
**i'm sad. is he playing games?**
The only game this scorp is playing with you is to get you to keep thinking about him. Don't play such a loser's game.