Scorpions who trust

We are obviously known to open up more to who we trust. How has someone proved that trust to you?

Something they did or said? Share your experiences

Discuss 🙂

Scorpions who trust

They exist? o.o

Lol Damnata we do exist 🙂

It's a long, slow process to opening up. Trust is gained by being there for me, being consistent, reliable, making me feel comfortable, not telling everyone what I've told you, etc. I start by sharing small things & depending on how u react, then I may start sharing more significant things as time goes on.

I like to listen a lot in the beginning too. Sharing with me will generally lead to me sharing with you.

It's funny this topic is brought up.

I met a few days ago with a Scorpio gf of mine...we've known each other for 7 years. She mentioned she takes a lot of time to trust someone, opens slowly and it has to feel organical for her to proceed.

Found it funny because I never saw this when we started interacting, and now we've come so far and she exposed me to her thought process about friendship, I could see clearly she was assessing my character all along.

Posted by scorpgal76
Lol Damnata we do exist 🙂

It's a long, slow process to opening up. Trust is gained by being there for me, being consistent, reliable, making me feel comfortable, not telling everyone what I've told you, etc. I start by sharing small things & depending on how u react, then I may start sharing more significant things as time goes on.

I agree, I'm very much the same. I have to be comfortable around that person. Its that click factor. I had that with an old friend once, I could say anything and everything big or small sometimes even the most dumb silly things and it was so easy to talk to him. It was how he used to listen to me, he made that effort to hear what i had to say. He spoke honestly to me even if it was hurtful but i respected him for that.. If we argued we would not talk for the whole day, one of us gave in and we would act like normal.. miss my friend.

Posted by Damnata
It's funny this topic is brought up.

I met a few days ago with a Scorpio gf of mine...we've known each other for 7 years. She mentioned she takes a lot of time to trust someone, opens slowly and it has to feel organical for her to proceed.

Found it funny because I never saw this when we started interacting, and now we've come so far and she exposed me to her thought process about friendship, I could see clearly she was assessing my character all along.

I guess I'm glad I did..hehe I was thinking the same because it got me thinking that yday because I couldn't think of anyone at the moment who I can completely trust.

We are like that, we are observant with what your likes and dislikes are. Figuring you out so that a comfort zone can be formed.

I just started nurse school and I do have like 5 or 6 scorp girls in class. The first couple weeks they stood out by not saying anything at all and slowly but they started getting involved into class activities, even talk :-o

It was a funny thing to watch 😉

They need to feel somewhat comfi before you hear anything from a scorpio at all.

Posted by scalpisces
even talk :-o

LOL

Posted by Angeleyes17
We are obviously known to open up more to who we trust. How has someone proved that trust to you?

Something they did or said? Share your experiences

Discuss 🙂

Five minutes of eye to eye contact and conversation. I just know whether I can trust or not.

Scorpions are awesome at detecting phonies. The only way to gain a Scorpions trust is by being yourself all the time. Like Capricorns, respect comes first, then trust...

@IrresistibleScorp
Your replies are always so spot on to what I was thinking....wonder how similar our charts are?

Irresistable:

Looks like we do have some similarities...I am:
Sun, Merc, Mars, Uranus in Scorpio
Moon in Leo
Venus in Sag
Jupiter in Taurus
Pluto in Libra
Aries Rising

:p

Much like IrresistableScorp said, I have different friends I know I can share different things with. The majority of my friends have been around a long time & I would trust them all with my life, but I do not share all of my inner dreams, interests, secrets, etc. That is reserved for just a special few.

I also have a somewhat newer friend (about two years) but like Angeleyes said, some you just click with right away. He's definitely one. In the beginning, I listened to him talk & talk & talk for hours on end. I never knew a guy could talk so much lol. It was (is still) fascinating. We r so much alike, and I feel comfortable telling him anything because of that bond.

So, what happens when a scorpio chooses people who are complete assholes, are user type friends? WTF went wrong there? And then have a Cancer (me) always have the vibe that the scorpio in question isn't fully trust worthy and isn't someone you'd ever choose for a close friend (but you're "friends" because you're related by marriage)?

I'm sure every one of us could say we've put our faith in the wrong person before. Or that sometimes friends start out good, but something in the relationship goes wrong along the way. I've had to cut people out of my life, and it sucks, but if you burn me bad enough there's no coming back from that. I try to forgive/give second chances...I'm not a vengeful person, but some things just cannot be forgiven. If you are given another chance it's in a limited capacity of course until trust can (if ever) be regained.

Also, I will say that bad seeds are born to every sign, gender, etc. Perhaps the Scorp u r referring to is attracting these types of friends because they r not trustworthy (as u've indicated) or maybe they get something other than loyalty out of these relationships? Interactions always involve a tradeoff or cost/benefit of sorts.

Good point, Scorpgal! Is it possible for someone to be desperate enough for friends that they'll pick bad ones (as a scorpio) or that they pick bad friends because it makes them feel superior?

I'm the same way about friends. I'll give second chances but keep up a theme of not being trustworthy and that's it, you're cut out.

Tizani, we water people like to keep you all on your toes. 😉

I don't pick my friends based on that criteria, but I suppose some could. I could see someone with low self esteem choosing a friend like that because they either feel they don't deserve better, or because it makes them feel better about themselves.

+100000% on keeping everyone on their toes lol

I sort of got the impression it was through a sense of needing to be better than others. She could be very snarky and petty/jealous with some of her comments (one reason I never felt comfortable being too close to her and would have never picked her as a friend if it wasn't for the marriage connection). Sad, because she's not all bad.

Of course it's true. We're water to the core. Calm one minute and then a raging storm ready to kill. But sooooo damn alluring and we're life. Here, come out onto the water in that metal boat. Oops....lightning storm! lol

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Posted by MoonArtist
Of course it's true. We're water to the core. Calm one minute and then a raging storm ready to kill. But sooooo damn alluring and we're life. Here, come out onto the water in that metal boat. Oops....lightning storm! lol

lol believe me I already have, many times, with all three water signs. And yeah I can't stay away.

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My Scorpio friend, female-20 yo, she trusts me. Cheated with me on her boyfriend..who she tells me she loves..hmmm.
In Scorpio fantasy land any desire gets fulfilled. This scorpio fire breather is hot and sexy. Very sexually active since 9-10 yr old. She melts any man she chooses and is very direct once she decided she was going to have me. So I didn't have to prove trust in the traditional way..I guess.
And we're actually related!! Thru a marriage. Dangerous all around but it's what really turns her on. And I'm sorry I can't resist although I should. But despite the attraction every thing comes out if she has taken you. So then you should be trustworthy.
Well I am anyway but she isn't. (:
Nope, I don't trust her. She manipulates people very well. Spoiled rotten. Lots of money so lots of doing f--k all. And she flirts like with handsome guys. Can't tie down this free angel. She's got to be free.

wtf....she....since 9? Like full on had SEX at 9?

They r starting younger & younger....This scares the butter out of me!!! My daughter is eleven.

My son is nine! And I agree, this is scary!

She is a relation thru a marriage in my family to someone in her family. So not related in blood..just in-law. I'm a cancer btw.
And yes..she was molested when she was 10. And no one did anything about drawing this out of her. This just came out to me in one of our "what's the meaning of life" conversations.
All I'd like to say about this particular Scorpion Queen is that despite all the common assumptions about Scorpio women...most of them seem to be pretty accurate..it's that she operates in an alternate universe..so what most would consider anti-social behavior., I see it as the society isn't smart enough to be open minded enough to accept her particular brand of unique.
This girl has such difficulty functioning on a day to day basis regarding just practical matters. But could sit down with a prof of physics and discuss the theory of relativity intelligently.
She has had many brushes with the law and psychiatric doctors. It's a pity and nothing seems to settle her down when she is on a compulsive journey. Except drugging her. Very difficult to deal with her.
But....I love her with blind eyes. I know she is trouble. Serious trouble..but she is is so affectionate, so tender I can't resist. A devil in angels clothing. She infuses me with cosmic energy. Amazing. But can't really ignore the fact that she will lie in my face to protect herself...although she trusts me as much as she trusts anyone...which isn't saying much. And being a Cancer man my inclination to protect her is very strong..so I look the other way. I told her that no matter what she does I will never judge. Unconditional love. And this time I meant it. Tragic my friends. The love of my life and I can't trust her. Such heartbreak Ive never known.
And I know she is destined for many rough roads in her life.
But..you got to let her fly free. She cannot be contained. So what do you do when your intentions are honorable, when you truly love someone, when you would give your life to save hers? I don't know. I just wait..be patient..till I'm lucky enough to be the recipient of her love and passion. I'm honored and who am I to say she is good, bad or indifferent.
So to all you crazy Scorpion beauties out there...I'm glad The Lord saw fit to give the rest of us a perfect vision of life at the most intense, the most passionate, the most outspoken, the most alluring and thrill seeking people on earth. Just wish you guys would realize that there are people out here that get you. And love

Shit, that's messed up that she was molested and that was the first thought that came to my mind when you said she was sexually active so young. I don't see that as being sexually active so much...it's not like she chose it. That was an injustice done to her at a young age! I think a huge reason for her over the top behavior and self destructive path is not just her being spoiled or a scorpio but that she hasn't really dealt with the damage that was done to her when she was a child. I know a few people who have never faced that part of their life and actually dealt with it and that's more or less how they behave (like your scorpio love) and none of the people I know who have had the same problem of being violated as a child are scorpios. The hardest part is that you and everyone else can't force her to face it or get help for it and it won't happen until she's ready or it may never happen. I hope she can and does, though. It's so sad to see people waste their lives and their potential because of some horrible event that happened to them that should never define who they are. 😢