Scorpio's

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by softy on Sunday, March 12, 2006 and has 21 replies.
Can you Scorpio's PLEASE explain the Push and Pull game? Can you please tell me what's the deal with this?? W
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I do not know, but sadly have experienced it. Maybe it is something we unconciously do or well may be it is done purposefully to give the person time to pull back if he/she is having/ might have second thoughts. Then again the grey lizard might be doing it to remain mysterious and attractive.
But I would never appreciate it and prefer talking openly...which am sure is the influence of my libra moon !!!
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My scorpio seems as if he's in Fantasy Land. Like I'm sort of some fantasy for him. I've read you guys post and try to fit him in somewhere but cannot. I thought by this scorpio being an older man(38 or 39) that he would be more stable. I dont know what he wants because i think he doesnt know himself what He wants. He tells me he likes me and that i am the Only woman that he has opened himself up to. He says usually he just keep his feelings to himself but that i have something about me that makes him feel at ease and not judgemental. But! why does it seems he takes 6 steps forward then 5 backward? He's speaking the Words but something is lagging within him. He asked me if i have any tapes of track meets when i was in high school that he would have loved to see them. Now mind you this guy is an avid fitness guru and tells me how fine my body looks to him but it seems like this guy is trying to worship me or something its getting really crazy. Could he have mental issues? This is the very first time i have dated a scorp and its not easy.. I hear alot of women say he's so sensual and passionate etc and they most Definitely are! but that is just the surface. I think it takes a very strong woman to deal and understand a scorp man. I strongly feel my scorp friend has alot of dark issues and i cant allow myself to get caught up in the web. A part of me will always be there for him as a friend only becasue he has opened himslf up to me and the other part of me says to save myself. We're borne into this world by ourself and this is how we leave, my decision would be to save me and move on. But something tells me that scorp is contemplating his next move and it may not be that simple to end with him. (not to mention he did a full background check on me, at which i have A-1 credit, no criminal record, 1 tracffic ticket when i was 17 this was done to get my home address) Dont know if this is more of an obsessive scorp or not. sorry so long
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BlueAqua - I hope this helps you with your issue.

Scorpio THE SCORPION is the sign of the investigator
The intensity and passion generated by Scorpio makes them an unforgettable partner in love. They take there love affairs very seriously, which can lead to much jealousy. They are also very secretive which can make it hard for them to confront romantic problems.
The bright side
Scorpios often get a bad press! They have very intense personalities with hidden depths, though they have great compassion being able to reach out to troubled people.
Being deeply emotional themselves, Scorpios understand and accept the feelings that other signs cannot handle. Scorpio is not afraid in the dark, this sign often makes an ideal therapist. Many doctors and surgeons are Scorpios. They have incredible personal magnetism and often make loyal, devoted, friends and lovers.
Powerful feelings and emotions, committed, loyal, imaginative, discerning, subtle, persistent, determined.
The dark side
Scorpios have a hidden and secretive side. They are not averse to using their deep understanding of others to gain power over them for their own ends. Scorpio has a fascination for power, how it is used and how to hold other people with it.
Sometimes this can extend to cruelty, Scorpio is vindictive and brooding, a sign that never forgets a grudge. Scorpio is prone to having an inner self destruct button, which they push compulsively from time to time.
over emotional, hypersensitive, moody, devious, changeable, self-pitying, unforgiving, unstable, gullible, untidy.
Ailments
Bladder disorders, cystitis, genito-urinary diseases, piles, prostate trouble, PMT.
Beneficial foods
Prunes and hops.
You are most compatible with
Pisces - absolutely superb,
Taurus - a rewarding relationship,
Aries - long lasting,
Cancer - paradise,
Libra - heady stuff,
Leo - a powerful attraction.
Absolutely no chance!
Scorpio - nuclear explosion,
Gemini - volatile,
Sagittarius - can be strained,
Aquarius - up and then down.
Your opposite sign
is Taurus

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ayyy dancing bread , your in a relationship with a gemini??? .... very exciting, sorry to change topics!
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"BlueAqua...I'm curious why you are with him in the first place...your comments are not that flattering and it looks like you are showing your evidence on why the man has major issues...so why the question??? What are you really looking for??? Look me in the eyes when you respond..."
DB, In my first post my intuition was speaking to me very loudly at which i was making my decision at that time to break it off with him. But i wanted to ask a couple question before i did this. The negative signs about him were very subtle in the beginning and seemed as if the positive about him outweighted the negative, untill i received an email stating that he had pryed into my background. That was the last for me. It all hit me like a ton of bricks and i could no longer ignore my intuition about him. Im not looking for flattery nor did i post it for such,.i really wanted to get the opinions from other scorps before i made the decision,.because maybe i was overlooking somethings. I also hear alot of young women say Oh! Ah! Scorpio! Sexual! Sensual! But there is also a deeper side that they may not be prepared for. This is just My experience.
He told me that i have a Magnetism about me and with his Drawing effect,.what can i say,. the Force between us was/is strong. You may think this is crazy but he asked me one time if my ears were itching? (I'm not superstitious) I told him no but i was tossing and turning in my sleep for some weird reason,.he says he was talking about me so much to his friend. Yeah, it may sound crazy to some but its truth maybe a phoenix would understand,.now that i've looked you in the eyes DB,.can you feel my heart?
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ScorpioLady thanks, yes it helps didnt know the extent of depths though: )
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"Can I feel your heart?, no I can't...b/c it doesn't take a phoenix to know that I won't understand your feelings and situation based on two comments posted. I do however wish you the best...aquas are alright in my book."
Thank you DB,but i think you mis understand me also,i didnt mean it the way you took it pertaining to the phoenix, hey what can i say, tired of typing,thanks for your insight,.scorps are alright with me also: )
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aqua... i may be wrong.....but it seems that he might have a little part of you already.... Since it's so hard for you to let go of him that easily, asking peoples opinions. You need to do what YOU FEEL is right, and not worry about how anyone else feels, or thinks. If YOU FEEL this is to much for you to handle, or you just cant...OR whatever your reasons are then you don't need us to tell you...But what from i see, you seem a little freaked out...AND NEVER ignore your intuition. Remember it's alot easier now then later, so just do what you feel is right in YOUR HEART...

hope i was on the right track a little at least lol, best of luck sweets!
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"BlueAqua
Hey no problem me being a scorp women myself I can imagine what a man will take you through...I think both men and women scorps have a lot of the same traits, and when he look into your background that was just the investigative side of him and the secretive side of him doing that. We like to know what and who we a dealing with sometimes before we take that leap.
Unlike missmorals, I don't date other scorpio men...I have a scropio friend know that came back into my life after 3 years and he is know trying to get with me I told him I am not ready to see him and he respected that. I guess I should have told him that he has does not know how to communicate (that will be a little harsh and to blunt but I know he can handle it)for me what so ever and that is not good to me. I can't hang on the phone with someone and they don't know what to say. As matter of fact I would rather talk face to face. Maybe you should confront him on how you are feelings, scorpios respect HONESTY.
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JuiCy, yes,yes,yes from one air sign to another you know this can be difficult pertaining to maybe how one F*e*e*l*s: ) I think it did Freak me out when he did his investigative work, from what ScorpioLady says this is part of Scorpio,and i didnt know this. Scorpio lady said it, Honesty and i must do this about my feelings for him. Right now im battling with intuition. I definitely know he cares and likes me alot. Seems as if we Balance each other and when we're conversating we understand each other.
If he's out with his buddies he will leave them just to spend time with me. I remember times he was out with his friends and he called me said he didnt want to be there with them but wanted to be with me,.its the little things that speak so loudly and this is what i'm attentive to.
I'll never wear my emotions or heart on my sleeve, but in being honest with self, yes he is the kind of guy that i Can Grow to the "L" word, You c lol i cant even write that word. But if i'm totaly Honest and tell him this i'm afraid it may push him away or ruin what we have Naturally.

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Oh my goodness Scorpion Lady...My male Scorpio friend calls me and I love him so much....But he acts like he is afraid to speak,,or lke he is thinking something, but not saying what he is thinking...It nakes me feel real akward. The silence that is.
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Yes Thank you Scorpionlady..U are right..I am mad about Scorp men..but they do have communication issues..not all..only some..remember there are two different types of scorp men..the whacky ones and the silent ones..I fall into the whacky category..not silent by any stretch of the imagination (I do have my moments)..Best thing to do with scorps is just tell them..we appreciate honesty..half of the time, we think theres nothing wrong so if there is just say so..
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This is what i dont understand, I cooked my Scorpio friend dinner saturday everything went soooooo well he couldnt stop thanking me for such a great time at my place. Now I just receive a text from him saying,
"Goodmorning just thinking of you.Hope your day goes well. Talk to you soon,Oh by the way no matter what happens with us i'll always have a special place for you in my heart"
I dont know what he's saying. This sounds to me like he already knows this wont go any further between us. Maybe he just want to soften the blow . Just cant figure why he wont enjoy each other and whatever happens between us will happen *puzzled*
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I think your over-reacting...I think it was a mere compliment...
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Because if is a SCorpio and was thinking of ending the friendship...you probably wouldn't have a clue or even see it coming...he probably would just dissapear....nevr to return
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"I think your over-reacting...I think it was a mere compliment..."
softy, theres no over reaction on my part, a compliment is 'wow your hair is beautiful today etc,.there is something underlying about that statement he made
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Coming from a Scorpio....I think its a compliment...and maybe he like you alot and may feel insecure about where the relationship is going.....So maybe thats why he said it...Blue-Aqua...Scorpio's are enigma,,and what you see is not what you get.....Also they say and do things do throw you off purposefully....
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I think he is just letting you now exactly that "No matter what happens you still will have a place in my heart" I don't think it means anything other than that. I have said those lines before just in conversation, just reassurring the person that I will always love them and they will always have a special place in my heart, and I have had guys tell me that also just embrace it and an keep it with you.
With Scorpio's if they love you, you have a friend for life, just don't cross him
I do believe that scorpio men will just leave, but the women don't, well at least not me. I am women enough to let a person know that I am removing myself, for any situation that I don't see fit for me to be in.
I just recently told a Scropio guy that I don't want nothing more than a friendship and he respects that.
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I was married to my ex (Leo) at the age 16, for 17 years, and then I had a 7 month relationship with a (Gemini), so my (Scorpio) friend is so very very different very enigmatic to the point that it drives me crazy sometimes. Thank you softy: )
"I do believe that scorpio men will just leave, but the women don't, well at least not me"
Is this true even if they're in love?
ScorpioLady,I will definitly cherish it; )
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"preparation work ...plus ,It might be Aqua paranoia"

antibling, what cha got over there for aqua paranoia: )
"I think he's pushing your buttons and you're a bit nervous about it, your cool and aloof jiggy isn't working"
yeah i'm nervous about the unknown,my aloofness doesnt work well when i like someone aqua trying to keep cool*sitting on bench with shades on and a smoke hanging from lips*
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