Scorpios and Coming back after conflict

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Kittenfish
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9 Years

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I recently let go of a scorpio gentleman. Our relationship would flare up, and he would show interest, but was very busy with work, and was constantly cancelling. I'm talking 3 times in the last 2 years we were talking for 2-3 months - it would be one extremely hot, intense date, followed by promises, and finally ending with a mountain of cancelled dates, frustration, and ghosting. This past time around, I did not let myself get sucked in all the way. When a month rolled around, and he had canceled/ rescheduled three times in a row, I told him I was bothered by whatever was going on between us. I told his I was sorry he was having a bad day and needed to cancel, but that I kept getting let down and hurt by his actions, and i didn't see a positive outcome in the future. He apologized, and explained that because of his schedule he doesn't date much.

I'm sad about all this - part of me is happy i finally stood up for myself. The other parts is wondering if I should have been more patient. I'm wondering if he'll try to come back, or if Scorpios have a tendency to accept a lovers decision on ending a relationship (or whatever it was), and move on.

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AgentP911
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11 Years1,000+ Posts

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More patient—? Are you mad?

There’s no need to be a sap. If you are, Scorp will walk over you. You’ve set the tone of this situation.

Frankly, I think if he’s not compromised on his ‘busy’ schedule then he’s not interested enough in you. Find someone who wants to be with you instead.

Read this:

https://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/being-super-busy-the-modern-lame-excuse-for-managing-down-your-expectations/
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Kittenfish
@Kittenfish
9 Years

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Posted by AgentP911
More patient—? Are you mad?

There’s no need to be a sap. If you are, Scorp will walk over you. You’ve set the tone of this situation.

Frankly, I think if he’s not compromised on his ‘busy’ schedule then he’s not interested enough in you. Find someone who wants to be with you instead.

Read this:

https://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/being-super-busy-the-modern-lame-excuse-for-managing-down-your-expectations/


Yup.. I'm totally mad :0. Thanks for the article!