scorpio's and emotions

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by scorpio24 on Monday, June 17, 2013 and has 14 replies.
hello fellow scorps smile
i'm wondering how do you guys deal with your emotions? i find myself often feeling emotional really easily.. and am begining to hate it! Do any of you have any ways to block off your emotions? I am a scorpio sun, capricorn moon, but my progressed chart is scorpio sun, scorpio moon.
I've noticed lately that I cry easily at times. Usually, it has something to do with kids. Like, I was at a school assembly and the kids were singing a song then suddenly I started tearing up. Then I saw a clip of a little kid singing Bruno Mars on "Ellen" and tears began to stream down my face.
So weird.
Posted by scorpio24
hello fellow scorps smile
i'm wondering how do you guys deal with your emotions? i find myself often feeling emotional really easily.. and am begining to hate it! Do any of you have any ways to block off your emotions? I am a scorpio sun, capricorn moon, but my progressed chart is scorpio sun, scorpio moon.



I have a cappy moon too but with a Venus in scorpio, sun & mercury as well...I am extremely passionate, some can't understand it others are intrigued, I try to keep it in @ times, others I can't
Channel it.
There is nothing wrong with having emotions and they do not need to be "blocked off". You need to get a hold of them, which requires effort not excuses.
Posted by Neurotoxin
Meh.
I'm not often very emotional.


Probably due to the high levels of testosterone in ur blood Winking
Posted by PhoenixRising
Channel it.
There is nothing wrong with having emotions and they do not need to be "blocked off". You need to get a hold of them, which requires effort not excuses.


yeah i need to learn how to gain control, its really hard sometimes. i am so extremely passionate and emotional.
also, im confused. my natal/birth chart is obviously different to my progressed chart.. but which one do i go by now?
birth chart or progressed chart?

my birth chart is
Sun - scorp
Moon - capricorn
Merc - Scorpio
Venus - Libra

now my progressed chart is:
Sun - scorp
Moon - scorp
Merc - sagitarius
Venus - Scorp
not sure how i feel about all that water Crying
although I feel the moon and ascendant can play a part in the emotional make up to a degree, I would say without question that many scorpios, are natural empath and kinda oceanic in nature in they way they experience consciousness, espeially feelings,and we tend to absorb others and sometimes pick up intuitvely on how people feel and their attitude towards us
of course, sometimes we are not the target personally, we just pick up their frustration, anger etc, other times, it seems we get it in the neck, because of the way we are perceived( I frequently feel like a dumping ground, sometimes, for other peoples crap and when I say enough and call it out, people seem to think, I am difficult, and yet sometimes, I just feel like I am trying to kinda cut the crap kinda thing)
what I think tends to happen is that we absorb so much to the point that the reactor charge has to blow and often, it is not pretty
when I walked out of my job a little while back, it wasn't just the clients stuff, it was my coworkers, doing a 200 page qualification and just feeling completely emotionally and mentally exhausted with it all
I used to tear up more to music than I do of late
Posted by scorpio24
Posted by PhoenixRising
Channel it.
There is nothing wrong with having emotions and they do not need to be "blocked off". You need to get a hold of them, which requires effort not excuses.


yeah i need to learn how to gain control, its really hard sometimes. i am so extremely passionate and emotional.
also, im confused. my natal/birth chart is obviously different to my progressed chart.. but which one do i go by now?
birth chart or progressed chart?
not sure how i feel about all that water Crying
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I can't help you with the chart bit (still learning), but there is absolutely nothing wrong with expressing your emotions (vs being emotional). The difference is that one refers to control over the expression instead of letting it control you. I'll be honest, I've read your post all over the Virgo board and you read like a hot mess--not saying that you are. However, if it reads this way I could just imagine what is going on inside of you. It's like you're mind is trying to do so many things, flipping and flopping at the whim of your changing mood. ???I hate??, ???I love??, ???I don??t care??, ???I care too much??.
I??m not sure if this is your issue, but if I can share my experience. I find that all of this ???emotional stuff?? usually became an for me issue when I was too focused on hiding my feelings from other people either because I thought it would make me look weak or somehow make me vulnerable. The problem is when we focus so much on hiding our feelings from other people, we can run the risk of hiding them from ourselves and we??re not doing anything real with them. In other words, you??re not really in touch with what is going on for you because you??re too focused on wearing some mask (for protection?). So your feelings are just floating about in your head, seeping out here and there.
I can??t really tell you how to gain control over this because that would be like me telling you how to dance. It??s something you need to work through as you figure things out. I will say that it requires trust and honesty within yourself and for other people.
Posted by Stinger Baby

damn.



Hilarious! I love me some Gordon Ramsey!
Posted by twilightzone

I would say without question that many scorpios, are natural empath and kinda oceanic in nature in they way they experience consciousness, espeially feelings,and we tend to absorb others and sometimes pick up intuitvely on how people feel and their attitude towards us
of course, sometimes we are not the target personally, we just pick up their frustration, anger etc,



I agree! I am super sensitive to negativity and unfairness. Some people say 'i am the nicest person they have ever met' and that is only because I try to think optimistically and positive because I know just how deeply sad I can get over things.
Lately, I have been emotional in general and have been carrying a journal with me and bring speakers in the shower so i can blast music and yell along. Those are my suggestions for a temporary fix...
I'm not sad at the moment, I'm just speaking in general.. I am so sensitive at times. It's definitely true that scorpios pick up on other people's emotions
Posted by scorpio24
Posted by PhoenixRising
Channel it.
There is nothing wrong with having emotions and they do not need to be "blocked off". You need to get a hold of them, which requires effort not excuses.


yeah i need to learn how to gain control, its really hard sometimes. i am so extremely passionate and emotional.
also, im confused. my natal/birth chart is obviously different to my progressed chart.. but which one do i go by now?
birth chart or progressed chart?

my birth chart is
Sun - scorp
Moon - capricorn
Merc - Scorpio
Venus - Libra

now my progressed chart is:
Sun - scorp
Moon - scorp
Merc - sagitarius
Venus - Scorp
not sure how i feel about all that water Crying
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we have the same birth chart.. honestly.. my emotions are out of control.. so far being alone sounds like the best idea but really not cause then I accumulate more emotional stress for no darn reason.. I cant stand it and neither can my boyfriend..
you need a positve outlet thats the trick for me its music
(in this moment) sure helps me allot .