Scorpios, how would you feel if a woman messaged you first on a dating app?

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by Lizz741 on Monday, October 9, 2023 and has 9 replies.
I’m going to be direct. I love Scorpio men and would like to date one. I know not all of them are into online dating but I found a website that is sort of like a dating app but you don’t get matches like Tinder. It’s more simple because people just make a profile with pictures and everyone can message you.

You know what the best thing is? You can actually see the zodiac sign of each person. Every single profile has it and this site was full of Scorpio men!! Some were interesting and some were not. But there were a lot.

I’m thinking of joining. I’m a Cancer and I don’t know if I should wait and see if a Scorpio is interested in talking to me. It’s a good thing I’m compatible for being a water sign, but I don’t know if I’ll be lucky and one of them will be interested. Besides, what if the guy smokes or is not my type just because he’s a Scorpio?

Should I be the one messaging a Scorpio man first if I find him interesting?

Scorpios, how would you feel if a woman took the initiative on these dating sites? Would you start being suspicious and find the girl weird?

Please be honest so I don’t mess things up. What should I even say to start a convo or should I act like a lady and let him approach me?
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Damn. I wish this was a Gemini man you asking for. I could give a much better answer.

Anyway you initiate first. A lot of men not gonna be the one to do that first especially in these trying times. You wait on a man to do that first you gone be waiting for a lifetime. He prolly waiting on you.
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I’ve a Scorpio son and I think he’d definitely initiate and chase a woman if she’s the right one…
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Well and truly tired of messaging first because I find if a woman messages first they're a lot more interested and will more likely keep messaging. It's basically like collecting Pokémon cards at this point.
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I’m a Scorpion woman and wouldn’t find a man who waited for me to make the first move attractive …. Come and get me 💋

That’s why I find Aries men attractive 🔥
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Posted by StubbornSag
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Damn. I wish this was a Gemini man you asking for. I could give a much better answer.
Anyway you initiate first. A lot of men not gonna be the one to do that first especially in these trying times. You wait on a man to do that first you gone be waiting for a lifetime. He prolly waiting on you.


Geminis are different than Scorpios. My Gem friend messaged her now Gem husband on a dating site long time ago and they clicked right away. Scorpios on the other hand I believe prefer to pick on their own but I doubt he (or any other man for that matter) would reject her simply for reaching out first
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*scorpios on the other hand I believe prefer to pick on their own*

You know, you right. I guess my honorary Scorpio come into play in that regard lol.
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Posted by IceStorm
Posted by Jumpin_Jupiter
Posted by StubbornSag
Posted by Jumpin_Jupiter
Damn. I wish this was a Gemini man you asking for. I could give a much better answer.
Anyway you initiate first. A lot of men not gonna be the one to do that first especially in these trying times. You wait on a man to do that first you gone be waiting for a lifetime. He prolly waiting on you.


Geminis are different than Scorpios. My Gem friend messaged her now Gem husband on a dating site long time ago and they clicked right away. Scorpios on the other hand I believe prefer to pick on their own but I doubt he (or any other man for that matter) would reject her simply for reaching out first
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*scorpios on the other hand I believe prefer to pick on their own*
You know, you right. I guess my honorary Scorpio come into play in that regard lol.


This is true, we do the final picking. But sometimes we pick the person who initiates.
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Well goodness. I feel like I'm in a dizzying circle here Confused. You guys do the final initiating but then pick the person who initiates first? But what if the person yall pick that initiate first turn out to be a villain? Or a serial cheater? I know scorpios better than that.
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Posted by IceStorm
Posted by Jumpin_Jupiter
Posted by IceStorm
Posted by Jumpin_Jupiter
Posted by StubbornSag
Posted by Jumpin_Jupiter
Damn. I wish this was a Gemini man you asking for. I could give a much better answer.
Anyway you initiate first. A lot of men not gonna be the one to do that first especially in these trying times. You wait on a man to do that first you gone be waiting for a lifetime. He prolly waiting on you.


Geminis are different than Scorpios. My Gem friend messaged her now Gem husband on a dating site long time ago and they clicked right away. Scorpios on the other hand I believe prefer to pick on their own but I doubt he (or any other man for that matter) would reject her simply for reaching out first
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*scorpios on the other hand I believe prefer to pick on their own*
You know, you right. I guess my honorary Scorpio come into play in that regard lol.


This is true, we do the final picking. But sometimes we pick the person who initiates.



Well goodness. I feel like I'm in a dizzying circle here . You guys do the final initiating but then pick the person who initiates first? But what if the person yall pick that initiate first turn out to be a villain? Or a serial cheater? I know scorpios better than that.


I said “sometimes” we choose the person who initiates. My point was it’s wrong to assume that Scorpios don’t like confident/assertive people… in fact it’s the opposite. We admire people who match our strength.
And the type who initiates could be a serial cheater or villain just like the shy, passive type can be a serial cheater or villain, so…. 🤷‍♀️

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Oh ok gotcha
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So what should I say to initiate the convo?

Should I say I find his profile interesting and ask if he wants to chat? Or should I be more straightforward and say I find him cute 🥰

Maybe he could get turned off because Scorpios don’t like compliments from strangers. Is that true???

And how do I know out of all these Scorpios which one is the right one? There were a lot that seemed interesting and I wouldn’t like wasting their time or mine if we don’t click in the end. Sorry but I’m new to all this online dating stuff
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