Posted by starlover
busy...it must be our Scorp/Tauro combinations
Posted by busyeyes88
@starLover. So did i!!!lol lol I was expecting something a bit more exciting with that title!! Lol
@OP. Give him some space to 'wallow' and see this as a lesson learneD. Don't drink excessively so that you leave drunk messages to exes. Conduct yourself in a proper manner... Another reason why I don't stay in touch with exes.. The 'past' should stay in the past..
Posted by Impulsv
Sorry ur Scorp probably knows ur not over Taurus. Damn are they hard to shake
Posted by beautifuldiasterPosted by ChampagnePosted by Impulsv
Sorry ur Scorp probably knows ur not over Taurus. Damn are they hard to shake
thats what i was thinking. he probably thinks i wanna get back with the taurus but i really dont
You may not but you may be lacking something... needing something.. there is a subconscious thought there that needs an outlet. What gives?click to expand
Posted by TachiMichi
all i can say
is i hope for
the best for
you.
give him time
and no more
drunk writing
taurus. if he
loves you, he
will forgive
you. but he
will be a bit
suspicious of
you until he
knows in him
self that you
do not want
taurus ex.
Posted by Fox
http://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/scorpio/scorpio-women-are-you-friends-with-your-ex-bfs-5462460.asp?p=2#5478363
confused.com
Posted by Impulsv
I think if u want to work with Scorpio analyze why u felt the need to reach out to ex. It's ok if ur not over him completely but not fair to bf.
Figure out what u need to be over Taurus.
With alcohol well not truly an excuse that's when we do what we truly wanted to do.
Posted by Fox
btw does the scorp know the Taurus has tried getting back with you? because if that's the case, he's probably wondering why you're messaging him if you know he still has feelings for you.
Posted by Fox
it was confusing because you made it appear you didn't keep in touch, but you said happy birthday to him and somehow he can still make advances towards you(which means there is an open line of communication somewhere). Fb again?
Posted by Impulsv
Was the communication from exe more like attempts to return or more like friendly. I think that would make a big difference for ur Scorpio
Posted by Fox
'you need to sit down' you're so defensive lmao. it was a simple question and I was explaining to you why it was confusing to me. You can't block him?
Posted by Impulsv
Ok at the time of contact what were u thinking or feeling. I know u said it out of ur nature so let's figure out the underline issue for u to feel the need to contact him.
Ok I loved ex Taurus n had not been over it . I've been wasted n thought of him yet I've never contacted him while wasted.
Why do u think u did subconsciously?
Posted by Champagne
i got no time for your ass ho.
Posted by DamnataPosted by Champagne
i got no time for your ass ho.
You can be from LA, you can have an avatar with a champagne bottle, can even have it as your username..
..but you still can't have class, when you're trash.click to expand
Posted by ChampagnePosted by DamnataPosted by Champagne
i got no time for your ass ho.
You can be from LA, you can have an avatar with a champagne bottle, can even have it as your username..
..but you still can't have class, when you're trash.
ho stop making assumptions and come out of your dusty bama basement
only dried up hos that haven't lived are impressed by champagne or la.click to expand
Posted by DamnataPosted by ChampagnePosted by DamnataPosted by Champagne
i got no time for your ass ho.
You can be from LA, you can have an avatar with a champagne bottle, can even have it as your username..
..but you still can't have class, when you're trash.
ho stop making assumptions and come out of your dusty bama basement
only dried up hos that haven't lived are impressed by champagne or la.
I agree, hence what I was stating.
You must have crippling insecurity complexes.click to expand
Posted by ImpulsvPosted by femmefatalePosted by ChampagnePosted by Fox
'you need to sit down' you're so defensive lmao. it was a simple question and I was explaining to you why it was confusing to me. You can't block him?
because you ask muddafukin dumbass questions and i got no time for your ass ho. blocking won't do sh.it and he's not harmful just bugs once in a blue moon when he gets in his feels
He is harmful. Your man is sleeping on the couch... I'm just saying.
The once in a blue moon when he gets his feels must be what keeps u chorded to him? Sometime our egos like to keep those that wants us when we don't.
Not saying that's what ur doing but it's a possibility.click to expand
Posted by Rabbit
Shifty alcoholic skank.
Posted by Impulsv
so u are saying that the root of the problem is only alcohol.
All I am saying is as a Scorpio if u gave me that answer I wouldn't buy it.
I'd give more credit to someone who can introspect n really look at their behavior n knew were it came from. That's why I am asking because I sense that if you approach ur Scorpio from this area u would have more success.
Posted by ChampagnePosted by Impulsv
so u are saying that the root of the problem is only alcohol.
All I am saying is as a Scorpio if u gave me that answer I wouldn't buy it.
I'd give more credit to someone who can introspect n really look at their behavior n knew were it came from. That's why I am asking because I sense that if you approach ur Scorpio from this area u would have more success.
why is it hard to believe? i was just drunk and kiki'ng with everyone on fb. fb notified it was his birthday and i holla'd to say happy bday. shouldnt have but my happy drunk ass did. if i wanted him back i could have him this minute.but i would never. i understand why my man is pissed just wish that he doesnt think the worst about my intentions cause im faithful to himclick to expand
Posted by FrostAndBite
Assuming the best of OP,
Posted by Champagne
i fvcked up. yesterday came home wasted from a night out with friends and logged on fb (BAD decision) and wrote on my taurus ex page to wish him happy bday and this dude was so happy i remembered his bday he tried to keep the conversation going until i passed out. i didn't think it was inappropriate in the sense that i wasn't trying to meet up with him or anything like that.
soooo i wake up the next day (today) forgetting that i was talking to my ex on fb. i saw that my man was sleeping on the couch and not next to me in bed and knew something was wrong and since i was having blurry memories of what happened the night before i asked him if i did something wrong and YO HE KNEW I POSTED HAPPY BIRTHDAY ON MY EX PROFILE AND GOT SOOOOOO MAD ABOUT IT! I tried apologizing tried telling him i was just being drunk and saying happy birthday to everyone on fb but he wasn't hearing none of it!
Posted by FrostAndBite
I'll be the one dissenting opinion here.
But what the fuck? This shit really gets my gem Mars and 11rh house stelliums going.
Dude should get over it. Certainly not sleep on the couch and leave their shared home moping over a drunken happy birthday Fb message.
Assuming the best of OP, that's she's clearly drawn a line with the ex that she will not date him or see him romantically and the ex has never pushed and threatened their relationship, who cares she send him a happy birthday message? The situation as it reads, OP's behavior was a bit socially irresponsible. But there are much worse trust threatening actions than a Fb message. It doesn't warrant pulling out al the emotional ice out stops.
A mature man would give someone the benefit of the doubt to apologize and then resolve the issue mutually. Not create more emotional turmoil.
Posted by e11e
stop coddling, she fucked up and she needs to own it.
op, put yourself in his shoes....exactly how would you feel if he was the one portraying that behaviour? Word for word, action for action....pretend it was *hime* who did this.
Would you be okay with it? Would you forgive in a snap?
not likely.
you are a scorpio and you know words of "I'm sorry" don't mean a damn thing. It's all about actions. It will take some time because he will most definitely be watching you and also will need to decide whether you have enough respect for him and yourself.
whether you are are really a skank or not, time will tell.
are you up for the challenge or are you just hiding and minding yourself to keep the relationship?
he'll figure it out soon enough.
Posted by e11ePosted by 037Posted by e11e
stop coddling, she fucked up and she needs to own it.
op, put yourself in his shoes....exactly how would you feel if he was the one portraying that behaviour? Word for word, action for action....pretend it was *hime* who did this.
Would you be okay with it? Would you forgive in a snap?
not likely.
you are a scorpio and you know words of "I'm sorry" don't mean a damn thing. It's all about actions. It will take some time because he will most definitely be watching you and also will need to decide whether you have enough respect for him and yourself.
whether you are are really a skank or not, time will tell.
are you up for the challenge or are you just hiding and minding yourself to keep the relationship?
he'll figure it out soon enough.
As long as he is making the effort to see if she's for real, its good.
What happened to trust in relationships anyway?
who are you?
if you are the op under a new username to help your case....that's been done before, you aren't that clever. it ends very badly, just so you know.click to expand
Posted by e11ePosted by 037Posted by e11e
stop coddling, she fucked up and she needs to own it.
op, put yourself in his shoes....exactly how would you feel if he was the one portraying that behaviour? Word for word, action for action....pretend it was *hime* who did this.
Would you be okay with it? Would you forgive in a snap?
not likely.
you are a scorpio and you know words of "I'm sorry" don't mean a damn thing. It's all about actions. It will take some time because he will most definitely be watching you and also will need to decide whether you have enough respect for him and yourself.
whether you are are really a skank or not, time will tell.
are you up for the challenge or are you just hiding and minding yourself to keep the relationship?
he'll figure it out soon enough.
As long as he is making the effort to see if she's for real, its good.
What happened to trust in relationships anyway?
who are you?
if you are the op under a new username to help your case....that's been done before, you aren't that clever. it ends very badly, just so you know.click to expand
Posted by e11e
what happened to trust in relationships?
you through it out with the bath water when you decided to get tipsy and snuggle up on fb with your ex.
next time.....come home and antagonize HIM with your tipsyness.....NOT the ex.