SCORPIO'S i just wanna know

im a pisces and i just really missed my scorio guy. we havent talked for 3days now. things started to fall apart lastweek, we kind of been in a cycle of saying bye and then coming back u know the more that u tend to be apart the more u tend to get back together so that's been happening to us since day 1 but now its different. i know how emotionally insecure he is and how he's having trust issues, so what i'd do is give him assurance that he's the only 1,(he is, i never strayed, but i talk to guy friends which is inevitable but never flirted). i've been totally honest and loyal to him, he even told me he trust me and he believes me fully, but he's still insecure, evrything is like a big deal for him and when we like argue, he wont even talk to talk things out instead he'll keep quiet sometimes he'll just leave instead of talking things out, why is that?? so 6 days ago we decided to call it off.. im true about my feelings for him, he knows it, i brushed off guys who wants to be close to me bc i want my scorpio to feel secure. after we agree to call things off, i sent him multiple emails (i do this all the time though when i cant get him to talk, i send him emails coz thats the only way i know i can get my messages through) telling him everything i feel about, that im hurt, that im sorry if i ever hurt him, that im thankful that he happened my way, that he's everything i ever wanted and cared for and that if its really over between us i wish us both good life and happiness..

i've noticed that whenever i send him emails of me telling/declaring how i really feel about him, he gets soft, and would want to see and meet me again. after he got my emails 5days ago he said we should stop at some point so i just agree with him then we didnt talk anymore. the next the day he saw me online at ym and messaged me "can i see u?" then even before i responded he sent another message saying "no, we shouldn't" i really dont know what's up with him, he seems really scared and confused in everything, so i just responded "yeah, we shouldn't". it hurts but im just trying to go with the flow. and now its been 3days that we havent talked..

i just wana knw scorpios, do evr keep gifts, cards, emails we give u i mean ofcourse everybody keep the presents and cards but how about love letters sent through emails and sms do u ever keep those or just delete them right after? i heard scorpios dont like being sent multiple emails actually my scorpio told me many times to stop - cont'

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writing him emails, but like i said thats the only way i know i can get my messages through when he's not talking so i dont really stop sending him but i feel somehow he likes them coz when i dont send him and just ignore him when were not in good terms he'll say "im impressed u didnt send me email" as idf he's waiting for them.. anyways i know this sounds ridiculous sorry, but i just wanna know, do u guys like love letters? and do u ever keep them? and do u ever get back to them and read them esp in ur alone time? thanks..

Posted by Neurotoxin
I sense a lot of passive-aggressiveness coming from him. It sounds like he's fishing...your fawning over him is feeding his insecure ego and he keeps wanting more and more.

My opinion? He probably cares about you a lot. But you need to straight up bust his balls and tell him to grow up or get lost. No more game playing.

And yes, as a scorp man I tend to keep sentimental letters, emails etc. I like to look back at them to remind myself exactly what all this effort I'm putting forth is for.

+1000

Call that foo out and stop feeding into his insecure ego. He loves seeing you beg. That's why he keeps calling it off, coming back, then calling it off again.

Posted by Neurotoxin
I sense a lot of passive-aggressiveness coming from him. It sounds like he's fishing...your fawning over him is feeding his insecure ego and he keeps wanting more and more.

My opinion? He probably cares about you a lot. But you need to straight up bust his balls and tell him to grow up or get lost. No more game playing.

And yes, as a scorp man I tend to keep sentimental letters, emails etc. I like to look back at them to remind myself exactly what all this effort I'm putting forth is for.

thats what i thought too, right now, im restraining myself to even contact him i know it will be another cycle if i do, but yeah he needs to grow up lol he's 33 and still insecure i really think he's not evolved yet.. thank you for the advise.. i appreciate it..

Posted by Neurotoxin


He probably cares about you a lot. But you need to straight up bust his balls and tell him to grow up or get lost. No more game playing.

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Posted by Stinger Baby
i used to like love letters, but now im weary of them. after everything dies and it's time to move on, the words becomes worthless to me. all you have left after it's all said and done are empty words that no longer are true. i throw them away, feeling bitter. i promised i would never allow myself to fall or feel for words again. i'm action and 'prove it' oriented.

^ Yes- actions speak louder than words ^

And like Neuro said- he needs to be told or you'll always have this push and pull and never make up his own damn mind... 🙂 Good luck

Same problem with my Scorpio ups & downs we leave only to turn around again
I'm a Pisces as well