Scorpio's interesting status ??

Posted by Sag89
What do you mean standstill? Yeah it does I'm nervous by all the feelings

Posted by happykitsune

Posted by Sag89
What do you mean standstill? Yeah it does I'm nervous by all the feelings

A standstill as in I don't know what to do with situation. For all I know he could think he made a mistake, but I don't want to let him win by texting him first and asking him whats up.
Do you think if you're having all these feelings that you should be with any of them right now?

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Posted by Sag89

No probably not lol I'm just waiting it out I guess.

Oh yea. Who knows what goes on in those scorps heads. I saw my ex the other day when I got the rest of my things and he just seemed emotionless but would stare me with the saddest look in his eyes and I'd say what is wrong? And he'd just say " nothing " but it felt like he was thinking and feeling a million things but wanted to keep it in. Again so much tension.
My current scorpio said he thinks my ex scorpio still has feelings for me but is conflicted and that he thinks I do for him too still a little. He just teased me about it. I don't know.

Yours is probably doing the same. Who knows what is going in their head. *shrugs*

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Posted by Sag89

No probably not lol I'm just waiting it out I guess.

Oh yea. Who knows what goes on in those scorps heads. I saw my ex the other day when I got the rest of my things and he just seemed emotionless but would stare me with the saddest look in his eyes and I'd say what is wrong? And he'd just say " nothing " but it felt like he was thinking and feeling a million things but wanted to keep it in. Again so much tension.
My current scorpio said he thinks my ex scorpio still has feelings for me but is conflicted and that he thinks I do for him too still a little. He just teased me about it. I don't know.

Yours is probably doing the same. Who knows what is going in their head. *shrugs*

Lol waiting for what? To see if your feelings will cease to exist for one of them?
Yeah I saw that thread. Wish they wouldn't keep it in. I know they're trying to protect themselves, but it only hurts them in the long run.
I have no idea if he feels the same. I wanna say he's more mature than that, but in some things he's proven he can be just as much a scorpio as any other. I guess I won't know unless I ask him.
Honestly I just want to get over him and be his friend cus I miss him, but just when I think I'm over him I'll dream about him or get a weird feeling about him and then it sets off another wave that makes it difficult for me to get over him

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Posted by Sag89


Yeah I hear you. I agree 100% about how it just hurts in the long run. Totally. Seen that first hand.
I know what you mean too about the dreams and the over and not.
He said you'd be friends though right?

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Yeah I hear you. I agree 100% about how it just hurts in the long run. Totally. Seen that first hand.
I know what you mean too about the dreams and the over and not.
He said you'd be friends though right?

Yeah he said he still wanted to be friends. But I don't want him to be the one running the show. That's why I stopped contact with him after NYE until I could move on and actually be a friend and not just someone who pines over him, wishing we'd get back together.

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Posted by BigGirlPanties
You like the word like, Sag, dont ya?
You do still have it for him, or you wouldnt be so reactive and angry. Probably best to not take his calls, huh?

Posted by ellybd
Meh leave it alone.
Contacting him is TOTALLY not worth it. Sounds like there is a possibility it's about you. Everyone knows that after a break up(even if we did the breaking) Scorps stalk all social media of the ex for at least a little while.
But he had the courage enough to break up with you face to face, with his own reasons. If he's going to go back on that, even by a a chance, don't let him get out of it easy. Make him have the courage to come to you. Worst comes to worst, you'll be the one he let get away while you're happy on down the road, successful in your own right and with someone who isn't going to let you get away.
And if it isn't about you for some reason, it saves either of you from starting something up that will lead to games, cause this smells like scorpio weakness a bit, which notoriously leads to games if you baby the scorp lol.

Posted by ellybd
I dunno... If it were me personally, I'd withhold any hint of extending anything to him. You said you talked with him after the break-up right? And he didn't budge, right?
He most likely knows with where you were left feeling afterwards. IF he were to come to you directly, no side stepping fb bs, and initiate something than I'd say let him talk first and then say what you want, put it out there. But until then I'd keep it reigned in and to yourself. That goes for just about any guy, let alone a Scorpio. Guys can get lazy/scared. Expect more of them, and you'll get more, either from him or someone else down the line.
I also wouldn't completely discount just logging of fb and saying forget it all together for a time. You'll feel a lot better looking at the situation if you've gone out and forgotten about him for at least a little bit while you were living life, rather than sitting and watching fb. I just say that because I've done it lol. Helped things feel and look a lot clearer to me.