Scorpios not revealing their emotions outright

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by Maygirl on Monday, October 31, 2011 and has 4 replies.
I have been seeing my guy for sometime. He's an Oct. 21 Libra with Venus in Scorpio. He's dead on with a lot of what I read about Scorpio and it's a learning curve for me. We have told each other we love different things about each other (i.e. "I love your hair," "I love your eyes," etc), but he has never actually said "I love you." Through his actions, his movements, the look in his eyes, etc., I really truly believe he does have strong feelings for me, but I tend to be a black/white girl and want things spelled out (hence the learning curve).
So today while we were kissing and stroking, he said to me something like "I love this more than you'll know" and then said "I love it more than I tell you." I wasn't quite sure what he was trying to say (and of course we were caught up in the moment), but now that I think back on it. I think he was trying to tell me that he really does love being with me and wants me to know that, even though it might be hard for him to come right out and say it. Do you think I'm interpreting this right?
FireDragonScorpio...you mean you never said "I love you" to your husband?
Wow....scorpios are really that terrified of rejection? My gosh....
Posted by Maygirl
I have been seeing my guy for sometime. He's an Oct. 21 Libra with Venus in Scorpio. He's dead on with a lot of what I read about Scorpio and it's a learning curve for me. We have told each other we love different things about each other (i.e. "I love your hair," "I love your eyes," etc), but he has never actually said "I love you." Through his actions, his movements, the look in his eyes, etc., I really truly believe he does have strong feelings for me, but I tend to be a black/white girl and want things spelled out (hence the learning curve).
So today while we were kissing and stroking, he said to me something like "I love this more than you'll know" and then said "I love it more than I tell you." I wasn't quite sure what he was trying to say (and of course we were caught up in the moment), but now that I think back on it. I think he was trying to tell me that he really does love being with me and wants me to know that, even though it might be hard for him to come right out and say it. Do you think I'm interpreting this right?



Honestly, I'd be more concerned if a Scorpio guy blurted it out too soon. If so, I couldn't believe that it was more than just feelings due to infatuation...or he's just trying to get into your pants.
The way he's being oh so careful putting out his heart, testing your reaction, is that he's got a lot to lose if he says it, and it isn't reciprocated. This way, you know it's completely, without a doubt, heart felt. smile
Thanks everyone! I'm thinking along the same lines as what you all said. I actually have said "I love you" to him, but only twice. The first time (awhile ago) he was taken aback and tried to tell me I was just infatuated. When I told him then I love being infatuated, he said "so do I." The second time (more recent) he didn't say anything but wrapped his arms around me, held me super tight and kissed my forehead and hair several times. I have seen him building up to it and stepping it up. Like I said, he now says 'I love your hair" or "I love being with you" or even just the other day when I was laying across his chest, he said "I love you right there." And lately he's been saying "oh love me baby" when we're kissing, etc. But he is guarded with his emotions and doesn't like to reveal too much of himself (although he is revealing more and more lately). He is constantly asking me about everything I do and think and want (he can pull almost anything out of me! I told him the other day I can't keep any secrets from him.)
Like I said, it's a learning curve. I'm not used to guys this way and sometimes I worry that I'm doing something wrong or something that annoys him but I won't know.

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