Scorpios What do you think of emotional women?

GingerScorp said once that Scorpio men dont like emotional women very much, that they like strong women. Do you think a very emotional woman such a s a Pisces (eg some one who cries if she gets hurt badly) is a bad thing?
I dont perceive crying as something of a weakness as Pisces women feel many vibrations, and people's energies can overwhelm her at times.

Just your thoughts?

In my opinion another woman cannot tell you what a man feels/and or wants. I don't have the link on me, but I put it up in a different post. Scorpio men do marry Pisces women more than any other women and divorce Gemini and Scorpio women more than any other women. I don't think any man wants a cold woman. Yes she can be strong and independent, that's attractive to anybody. But if she's a woman who acts so masculine, as if she doesn't feel anything at all. He may not stay with her. A man should have someone who he can feel comfortable with, and come to about anything. She needs to be warm,nurturing, loving and devoted.Having these qualities doesn't make you inferior to the women who don't. Notice why Scorpio men stay with Pisces because they are these things, and well because they are within the same element. People may argue and state that Scorpios don't like this.. or that about Pisces or Cancer but that's just because they're an Aquarius and they're guy is a Scorpio. So they feel that Aquarius is Scorpio's best match. But if you really spend time doing research, you'll see that Pisces or Cancers are Scorpios best match.. I mean it's on almost every astrology site you find on google.you'll see 9/10 it'll work better with someone within your own element. It is more then that though, you have to take the whole chart into consideration. Anyway I read Steve Harvey's book, Think like a man act like a lady. And well that is the one thing a woman can do turn a man off.. acting like super woman and like you're so independent and don't need a man or want a man to do anything for you that's exactly what you'll get. A man may be turned on, and see her as a challenge, he needs to break her down. But if she continues to be cold I think he'll look elsewhere. That's just my point of view.

i can only speak for myself, but a pisces can be all of strong, confident AND sensitive, intuitive, compassionate. It doesn't have to be either/or. Life is about balance & circumstance, for me, anyway.

Posted by ~mystic_fish
i can only speak for myself, but a pisces can be all of strong, confident AND sensitive, intuitive, compassionate. It doesn't have to be either/or. Life is about balance & circumstance, for me, anyway.

balance and circumstance so true. Nice.

"he needs to break her down"

Sounds like a control freak with insecurity issues. I mean, WTF! Is that the only way he can feel manly about himself... "to break her down"? Seriously, it is fucked up to cause someone else emotional pain just to feel like the stronger person. That's just wrong.

When I said break her down, I mean he may see her as a challenge because she isn't showing any emotion and he is trying to break that sheild she has up. But after awhile, of her not letting up I don't think he'll stay. Scorpios are of the water element, and are very emotional as Cancer and Pisces are they are much better at hiding it. But IMO I just don't see a Scorpio man, staying with a cold woman. Sure she's strong, and she's tough. But she has to warm up and be loving and affectionate at some point.. if she's gonna stay like that he might as well be with a man. Being emotional doesn't make you weak. It doesn't mean you cry all the time. But you are not afraid to be happy,sad,vulnerable, or express your feelings about any thing,person,place. I actually think an emotional person is stronger than someone who doesn't. Someone who doesn't has a lot going on inside, and when they hold it in, it can come out in a terrible way. I would know.

so he will over dramatize things on purpose to c how far he go sometimes. said it shows how much they care about u. *smh*

Why do male scorps do that? Do they ever grow out of it?

BabyK... I said........

"We are emotional but we don't approve of huge emotional displays."

Which is what you did (calling your scorpio moon/leo sun guy crying and sending "20" text messages) because your friend decided to flirt with him to show you "what a pig he was" and he thought you set him up.

I was talking about YOUR situation.

Scorpios have no problems with emotions. It's just when it gets overly dramatic (or isn't worth it to us) we walk away. If someone we care about is genuinely hurt we will be the first to be a shoulder to cry on but if it smells of being emotional to manipulate or to get your way we aren't having it.

Posted by Gingerscorp
BabyK... I said........

"We are emotional but we don't approve of huge emotional displays."

Which is what you did (calling your scorpio moon/leo sun guy crying and sending "20" text messages) because your friend decided to flirt with him to show you "what a pig he was" and he thought you set him up.

I was talking about YOUR situation.

Scorpios have no problems with emotions. It's just when it gets overly dramatic (or isn't worth it to us) we walk away. If someone we care about is genuinely hurt we will be the first to be a shoulder to cry on but if it smells of being emotional to manipulate or to get your way we aren't having it.

But GingerScorp my emotional display had nothing to do with manipulation or to get my way. It was based on fear that he would not give me a chance to explain the misunderstanding in detail. I was genuinely hurt and horrified to be misreresented. I cried bc I didn;t want a misunderstanding to destroy something special. That would have been a loss. I am emotional that way. No manipulation at all. Just genuine Pisces sadness and pain... Normally I am jovial and loving and compassionate and caring (good emotions).
That one incident led to actual tears...

Hmm in relation to the other topic aboit Scorpio dark side... gosh even emotional dislays to u are appearing manipulative... And at the same time a scorp wont listen to facts.
Then what gives?

A Scorpio WILL listen to facts but only on their own terms.

You have to give a Scorp time. You can't force them to do anything. They will listen when they are willing and ready and not a single second before.

Scorps are about control right? We like to have control over our emotions (though we don't ALL the time). When I see someone freaking out emotionally I think.... "Oh geez... get a grip". It's just......... unappealing to me and I just don't deal with it AT ALL. See the difference? Emotion is fine..... emotional scences/drama/straight up losing your shit.... not so much cool.

Hmm then why are u so connected with Pisces Moons as u have revealed. Pisces moons will on occasion "lose it" with the tears. But we have so many endearing qualities too. Maybe a scorp can overlook the occasional weeping?
There must be a reason for the 5-9 trine compatibility with water signs cancer and pisces, the mushiest signs on the planet 🙂🙂

I dunno for sure. I think because one was a Cap. He told ME I was too emotional for him. He had a soft side but it rarely showed. The Virgo only hinted at a soft side here and there. Aries is the same way but his sun makes him get over things very quickly so it's there and gone before you know it.
I guess I'm attracted to men that have a hidden soft side very deep within. I know it's there because I can sense it but it only comes out at the appropriate times. Someone who is openly emotional I'd never date. It's ok when it's the right time and place. None of those guys but my Aries has ever lost it in front of me and he did rightly so. They'd admit to being upset but wanted to wonder away and "deal with it" quietly on their own.... which is what I do most of the time. Sometimes I need to sort myself out without anyone wanting to hound me about sharing their feelings. Sometimes I don't WANT to share my feelings and nobody is gonna make me spill until I'm ready..... if ever.

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Posted by LibertarianVirgo
so he will over dramatize things on purpose to c how far he go sometimes. said it shows how much they care about u. *smh*

Why do male scorps do that? Do they ever grow out of it?

nope...which is why u need to be strong enough to call them out on their crap or they WILL treat u like a doormat...guaranteed. and believe it or not, those are the kind of women they tend to stick around with for a VERY long time

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I have never let anyone treat me like a doormat neither in my personal or business life. So no, that's not gonna happen. Scorpio's have such powerful feelings. Feelings that would break anyone else from the inside out, so I understand that they will say things that they don't mean in the heat of their venom secretion. Unfortunately, I don't have any patience for thoughtless behavior.