SCORPIOS, WHAT DOES IT TAKE FOR LOVE ?

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Sorry if this sounds like a highschool romance but when in rhode island 😉 ...I met a scorpio man this weekend at a wedding shower. I live in NJ and the shower was in Rhode Island (3 1/2 hours). He was charming, funny, snarky, and a mans man, in other words everything ive been waiting for in a man. He seemed into me too. He actually left the afterparty to get supplies to make my favorite drink, spoke to me all night. He was so open with everything going on in his life and his past. Just a really good human. I began to really trust him and we cuddled on the couch till the wee hours of the morning.

Something changed when we were cuddling, we were close, his hand was around my waist and i was laying in his arms. I began to fall asleep and I noticed he became really nervous. He actually hinted by asking "do you have to get to bed or something?" While id like to believe he wanted to be a gentlemen I was kind of unsure if something upset him. At the door he lifted my chin to plant sweet kisses on my lips and asked if i would be making another trip up to visit. I told him hopefully before the wedding (6 weeks away). he let me know that he had once dated a woman long distance so i guess this is nothing for him. I have not though Im up for the challenge for him.

Scorpios, will you really go the extra mile like this when you like someone? Can you see long term so early? I mean we just met so i may be jumping the gun a bit by getting excited, but we clicked so well, i felt like he was my person, and I want to be his.
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Sorry if this sounds like a highschool romance but when in rhode island 😉 ...I met a scorpio man this weekend at a wedding shower. I live in NJ and the shower was in Rhode Island (3 1/2 hours). He was charming, funny, snarky, and a mans man, in other words everything ive been waiting for in a man. He seemed into me too. He actually left the afterparty to get supplies to make my favorite drink, spoke to me all night. He was so open with everything going on in his life and his past. Just a really good human. I began to really trust him and we cuddled on the couch till the wee hours of the morning.

Something changed when we were cuddling, we were close, his hand was around my waist and i was laying in his arms. I began to fall asleep and I noticed he became really nervous. He actually hinted by asking "do you have to get to bed or something?" While id like to believe he wanted to be a gentlemen I was kind of unsure if something upset him. At the door he lifted my chin to plant sweet kisses on my lips and asked if i would be making another trip up to visit. I told him hopefully before the wedding (6 weeks away). he let me know that he had once dated a woman long distance so i guess this is nothing for him. I have not though Im up for the challenge for him.

Scorpios, will you really go the extra mile like this when you like someone? Can you see long term so early? I mean we just met so i may be jumping the gun a bit by getting excited, but we clicked so well, i felt like he was my person, and I want to be his.
Proceed with optimistic caution. 😁
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LOL, thank you! have you experience with scorpios?

were bound to be running into one another again in 6 weeks but when I feel really good about someone logic flies out the window. Im trying to control the emotional wave as best as my cancer emotions can handle.
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Can you see long term so early?

Yes, we know if it's going to last or not.

But if you want my opinion, you went a little bit too fast and he felt unconfortable.
Im open to opininions but Can you explain this? i kind of got the vibe that we were moving fast but it was his suggestion to stay after hours that weekend and his suggestion for me to come up again before the wedding. he mentioned it was too bad that i was leaving so soon the next day.
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UPDATES: he talked to his friends up there, hes fearful of doing long distance because the last time he did he gave his all and it didnt work out. at that point he already introduced her to his young son. his son is 5.

he also is scheming with his friends about getting me up there again before the wedding in 6 weeks ...waiting for him to reach out is like smelling fresh bread baking when you're on a carb free diet
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UPDATES: he talked to his friends up there, hes fearful of doing long distance because the last time he did he gave his all and it didnt work out. at that point he already introduced her to his young son. his son is 5.

he also is scheming with his friends about getting me up there again before the wedding in 6 weeks ...waiting for him to reach out is like smelling fresh bread baking when you're on a carb free diet
I'm excited for you 😍 Keep us updated! All of this sounds so sweet.
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i understand the need to chase and im happy to let him lead but i dont see how i was being clingy, we didnt sleep together, we werent going to, i didnt put the moves on him. we just talked and cuddled but ill let him chase if he wants to
You both had a first contact though (skinship), you barely knew each other and yet you cuddled and stuff, it went way too fast, you responded positively so I'm pretty sure he assumed you were too easy and probably clingy. Yeah just let him chase, don't do anything, don't even try to contat him, let him come to you.
That's not true about Scorpios. Someone in sync with their emotions, demonstrates them and is confident is a big turn on for scorps

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thank you, i truely felt that we were connected in more than just conversation, it felt not only did he listen to what i said but he understood and felt what i felt. it was electrifying. i want to be intimate with him but not as much as i want it to be the right moment because i have a feeling it will be the best either of us has ever felt.
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i understand the need to chase and im happy to let him lead but i dont see how i was being clingy, we didnt sleep together, we werent going to, i didnt put the moves on him. we just talked and cuddled but ill let him chase if he wants to
You both had a first contact though (skinship), you barely knew each other and yet you cuddled and stuff, it went way too fast, you responded positively so I'm pretty sure he assumed you were too easy and probably clingy. Yeah just let him chase, don't do anything, don't even try to contat him, let him come to you.
That's not true about Scorpios. Someone in sync with their emotions, demonstrates them and is confident is a big turn on for scorps

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In actuality he is a phenomenal communicator. very open and honest about his feelings. my roomie who is a scorp is also like this. its one of my favorite qualities about scorps, no BS just honest open speech
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i understand the need to chase and im happy to let him lead but i dont see how i was being clingy, we didnt sleep together, we werent going to, i didnt put the moves on him. we just talked and cuddled but ill let him chase if he wants to
You both had a first contact though (skinship), you barely knew each other and yet you cuddled and stuff, it went way too fast, you responded positively so I'm pretty sure he assumed you were too easy and probably clingy. Yeah just let him chase, don't do anything, don't even try to contat him, let him come to you.
That's not true about Scorpios. Someone in sync with their emotions, demonstrates them and is confident is a big turn on for scorps


thank you, i truely felt that we were connected in more than just conversation, it felt not only did he listen to what i said but he understood and felt what i felt. it was electrifying. i want to be intimate with him but not as much as i want it to be the right moment because i have a feeling it will be the best either of us has ever felt.
My first ever relationship was with a Scorpio and it was as electrifying as you describe. We met by accident, got on like house on fire, loved talking to each other for hours, were finishing each other's sentences within weeks of meeting, the chemistry was out of this world and get ready for this, despite both of us being Scorpios (and engaged to be married), the relationship was platonic. We were intimate but no sex !

No one would believe that but it's true haha. Intimacy , intellectual stimulation and emotional reciprocation are important traits for Scorpios from my personal experience.

After our break up (which was heart breaking I thought I will die of all the pain and anguish) I never met another Scorpio male ever again but made recently made good friends with a scorpio lady (first Scorpio in my life after him - 8 years after lol)
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i totally believe you buts its gotta be hard to resist the physical intimacy, no? one of my coworkers is extremely intimate with me, scorp as well, i can never tell if hes into me or just a very intimate person because of the things ur describing, electrifying. is your new friend as intimate as your last scorp friend ?

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haha oh darn i left his blood sample in Rhode Island, thank you ill try and remember all of this over the next few weeks. I prefer to be pursued rather then be the pursuer so hopefully he'll ask more question if he wants to see me again.
Are you communicating in a meantime?
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hey, yea weve been texting though our phone conversations are always an hour or so, im still so impressed by how good of a communicator he really is. I can say anything and he doesnt clam up and act weird, he just rolls with it and has something funny, sometimes snarky to say back 🙂 I'm going to visit him this weekend....im excited and have no idea whats going to be the outcome, we just plan on having a good time hanging out by the fire with friends and neighbors. He and I will be one on one most of the day tomorrow and well i guess anything can happen ...when in Rhode island ; )
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haha oh darn i left his blood sample in Rhode Island, thank you ill try and remember all of this over the next few weeks. I prefer to be pursued rather then be the pursuer so hopefully he'll ask more question if he wants to see me again.
Are you communicating in a meantime?
hey, yea weve been texting though our phone conversations are always an hour or so, im still so impressed by how good of a communicator he really is. I can say anything and he doesnt clam up and act weird, he just rolls with it and has something funny, sometimes snarky to say back 🙂 I'm going to visit him this weekend....im excited and have no idea whats going to be the outcome, we just plan on having a good time hanging out by the fire with friends and neighbors. He and I will be one on one most of the day tomorrow and well i guess anything can happen ...when in Rhode island ; )
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Good luck! Enjoy!