Posted by GetMistedPosted by AlaniaB
So my question is really to the other Scorpios out there...what is the "icing" about...?
Making them disappear.click to expand
Posted by degenerate_ingenue
I don't ice anyone out, even the person who hurt me the most. I'm not very open with people who have hurt me, but I'm always cordial and don't hold grudges
Posted by SassyKiwiPosted by degenerate_ingenue
I don't ice anyone out, even the person who hurt me the most. I'm not very open with people who have hurt me, but I'm always cordial and don't hold grudges
OK GURL YOU ARE NOT A SCORPIO. YOU ARE EVERYTHING BUT A SCORPIO.click to expand
Posted by SassyKiwiPosted by degenerate_ingenue
I don't ice anyone out, even the person who hurt me the most. I'm not very open with people who have hurt me, but I'm always cordial and don't hold grudges
OK GURL YOU ARE NOT A SCORPIO. YOU ARE EVERYTHING BUT A SCORPIO.click to expand
Posted by LilliLou
hmmmm... this sassy kiwi business is more suss than sassy.
what kiwi uses 'gurl' I call b.s. -_-
Posted by backtokemetPosted by degenerate_ingenuePosted by SassyKiwiPosted by degenerate_ingenue
I don't ice anyone out, even the person who hurt me the most. I'm not very open with people who have hurt me, but I'm always cordial and don't hold grudges
OK GURL YOU ARE NOT A SCORPIO. YOU ARE EVERYTHING BUT A SCORPIO.
fuq
yeah you have to be a LIBRA in SCORPIO clothing
no amount of assholery could extinguish the people pleaser flame in you
you didn't read your How to be a Scorpio ? manual as a kid .. it's too late nowclick to expand
Posted by LilliLou
hmmmm... this sassy kiwi business is more suss than sassy.
what kiwi uses 'gurl' I call b.s. -_-
Posted by SassyKiwiPosted by LilliLou
hmmmm... this sassy kiwi business is more suss than sassy.
what kiwi uses 'gurl' I call b.s. -_-
Excusez-moi. Are those fighting words? I am quite a legit kiwi. And you don't know my life story, GURL. What if I was raised in the hood.click to expand
Posted by AlaniaB
Im a Scorpio! But maybe don't fit exactly with all the expcted Scorpio behaviors.
Moon in Pisces, Mercury in Sag, Venus in Scorpio, Mars in Leo, Jupiter in Cancer
My way of dealing with breakups is (if I am the one wanting to end it) to try and end it as nicely as humanly possible, cause minimal pain to the other person and stay friends if we can, which is what mostly happens. When I have been on the receiving end I take it really hard for sure and then I tend to try and get them back, ha ha. Luckily that has only been 2 - 3 times. I always want to stay friends with them. The one time I have been properly betrayed by someone, I kind of felt sorry for him and didn't fight back much. I walked away in a lot of pain and tried to just sort my life out. I unfriended him online and that's the one and only time I did it - but he well and truly betrayed me and that's the only time.
In terms of "icing" people out I don't really do that. I have only fully iced ONE person in my life, and that person harmed my child emotionally so he was dead to me after that.
So my question is really to the other Scorpios out there...what is the "icing" about...?
I have just experienced it for the first time...why do you do it?
Is it to forget the person?
Because you are angry?
Trying to hurt them?
Trying to forget?
Because you care?
Because you don't care?
Because the person annoys you?
Because they have ceased to exist for you?
Once you do it do you totally forget the person?
What purpose does it serve?
I have exactly the same placements as you except my Jupiter is in Virgo. What's your rising sign?
You do ice people out. You just said you did it to one person and it was for a good reason. Maybe you've not had that many good reasons to ice people out. How old are you?
Come back in ten years and you'll have an 'Ice list'!!
Posted by elllesque
I think you 'think' you don't ice people out.....but I'm thinking people on the other end of that stick may have a completely different perception of the events.
Posted by AlaniaB
Im a Scorpio! But maybe don't fit exactly with all the expcted Scorpio behaviors.
Moon in Pisces, Mercury in Sag, Venus in Scorpio, Mars in Leo, Jupiter in Cancer
In terms of "icing" people out I don't really do that. I have only fully iced ONE person in my life, and that person harmed my child emotionally so he was dead to me after that.
So my question is really to the other Scorpios out there...what is the "icing" about...?
I have just experienced it for the first time...why do you do it?
Is it to forget the person?
Because you are angry?
Trying to hurt them?
Trying to forget?
Because you care?
Because you don't care?
Because the person annoys you?
Because they have ceased to exist for you?
Once you do it do you totally forget the person?
What purpose does it serve?
Posted by busyeyes88
I am not a scorp, but I will and have totally iced out/amputated all my.previous relationships. For me it's the only way forward. Once the relationship is "terminated " I'm gone and don't try and keep us as "friends " I will find a way to force the other party to end it permanently also...
Posted by busyeyes88
I am not a scorp, but I will and have totally iced out/amputated all my.previous relationships. For me it's the only way forward. Once the relationship is "terminated " I'm gone and don't try and keep us as "friends " I will find a way to force the other party to end it permanently also...
Posted by Infinite8Posted by AgentP911Posted by SassyKiwiPosted by LilliLou
hmmmm... this sassy kiwi business is more suss than sassy.
what kiwi uses 'gurl' I call b.s. -_-
Excusez-moi. Are those fighting words? I am quite a legit kiwi. And you don't know my life story, GURL. What if I was raised in the hood.
There's a 'hood'??? In NZ???
Only kidding. Love NZ. My favourite country along with Japan.
Huh... Japan is one of my favorites too and I've always felt a huge desire to visit NZ.click to expand
Posted by 13thPosted by elllesque
I think you 'think' you don't ice people out.....but I'm thinking people on the other end of that stick may have a completely different perception of the events.
This might be true for all scorps, all signs...I swore I didnt do certain "scorpio things" , until close friends and family brought certain things to my attention...you probably do ice ppl out and dont even know it lol talk to ppl who REALLY know you and u might be shocked at what they tell you...
I always ice ppl out btw, why not?click to expand
Posted by elllesque
I could sit here and say, as an aries moon, that I don't ice people out. I could even make myself believe that. Aries moon, when it comes to themselves, can paint a very rosy picture of themselves.....and TOTALLY believe it.
However, if I said that....it would be an outright lie....and I know better.
Posted by GetMisted
Are Lilli and Sassy the new Ands/Firebunny?
Posted by AgentP911Posted by SassyKiwiPosted by LilliLou
hmmmm... this sassy kiwi business is more suss than sassy.
what kiwi uses 'gurl' I call b.s. -_-
Excusez-moi. Are those fighting words? I am quite a legit kiwi. And you don't know my life story, GURL. What if I was raised in the hood.
There's a 'hood'??? In NZ???
Only kidding. Love NZ. My favourite country along with Japan.click to expand
Posted by Infinite8
@AgentP911
Oh... I really have to make time for that! I think I've idealized it so much in my mind - like a green paradise with massive hills everywhere... Green and fragrant - that's how I imagine it... And photos I've seen confirm it. Yeah I would love to!!
Aren't you going to South America soon? Another place I'm in a hurry to visit is Peru for Machu Picchu and the food of course!! But, I heard they are planning to close Machu Picchu to the public soon!! And I really want to see it before it's closed!!
Posted by AlaniaBPosted by 13thPosted by elllesque
I think you 'think' you don't ice people out.....but I'm thinking people on the other end of that stick may have a completely different perception of the events.
This might be true for all scorps, all signs...I swore I didnt do certain "scorpio things" , until close friends and family brought certain things to my attention...you probably do ice ppl out and dont even know it lol talk to ppl who REALLY know you and u might be shocked at what they tell you...
I always ice ppl out btw, why not?
Ha ha, very interesting.
Sure...if I break it down...I definitely....."edge away" from people who I don't like, who hurt me or let me down. I'd not call them for a coffee...I'd not want to spend time with them...I'd stop texting them or whatever. So it would be a subtle cooling from me, not a total blatant "you're dead to me" thing. If they contacted me I'd respond really politely to ask how they were or whatever.
The man I posted about is friends with all his ex girlfriends and we didn't have a painful or dramatic breakup. I thought we split up because I liked him more than he liked me. I wanted something more serious, he said he could only offer casual at this time in his life. If anyone should have been the affronted I figured that would be me. I was pretty cut up actually.
He was nice during the breakup and said he didn't want to lose me as a friend and really cared a lot about me and apologised that he could not offer what I wanted and said he was sure I would live happily ever after with someone else............Then the ice!
Unfriended. No response to texts. Or I get a response and it's really unfriendly and sulky like he is angry or something.
I was just left a bit hmmmmm over it.
I lived in Japan for some time in 1998 AgentP, when they had th Winter olympics there. It was a beautiful place! Confusing for a while but hauntingly beautiful. I always wanted to visit NZ.click to expand
Posted by SassyKiwiPosted by AgentP911Posted by SassyKiwiPosted by LilliLou
hmmmm... this sassy kiwi business is more suss than sassy.
what kiwi uses 'gurl' I call b.s. -_-
Excusez-moi. Are those fighting words? I am quite a legit kiwi. And you don't know my life story, GURL. What if I was raised in the hood.
There's a 'hood'??? In NZ???
Only kidding. Love NZ. My favourite country along with Japan.
Since when have I been from New Zealand?! Are you IP tracing me? You don't know my browser history. Go away.click to expand
Posted by PhoenixRisingPosted by LilliLou
hmmmm... this sassy kiwi business is more suss than sassy.
what kiwi uses 'gurl' I call b.s. -_-
click to expand
Posted by AgentP911Posted by SassyKiwiPosted by AgentP911Posted by SassyKiwiPosted by LilliLou
hmmmm... this sassy kiwi business is more suss than sassy.
what kiwi uses 'gurl' I call b.s. -_-
Excusez-moi. Are those fighting words? I am quite a legit kiwi. And you don't know my life story, GURL. What if I was raised in the hood.
There's a 'hood'??? In NZ???
Only kidding. Love NZ. My favourite country along with Japan.
Since when have I been from New Zealand?! Are you IP tracing me? You don't know my browser history. Go away.
I assume they connect your user name to being a Kiwi. Plus you said you are a legit Kiwi. Unless you really like the fruit but it's originally Chinese. Maybe a Kiwi bird! Cute profile pic though!click to expand
Posted by AgentP911Posted by SassyKiwiPosted by AgentP911Posted by SassyKiwiPosted by LilliLou
hmmmm... this sassy kiwi business is more suss than sassy.
what kiwi uses 'gurl' I call b.s. -_-
Excusez-moi. Are those fighting words? I am quite a legit kiwi. And you don't know my life story, GURL. What if I was raised in the hood.
There's a 'hood'??? In NZ???
Only kidding. Love NZ. My favourite country along with Japan.
Since when have I been from New Zealand?! Are you IP tracing me? You don't know my browser history. Go away.
I assume they connect your user name to being a Kiwi. Plus you said you are a legit Kiwi. Unless you really like the fruit but it's originally Chinese. Maybe a Kiwi bird! Cute profile pic though!click to expand