Scorps have you ever played a mind game ....
This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by DaLionessOfLove on Monday, November 11, 2013 and has 19 replies.
that came back to haunt you?
lol
I love Scorpio men but they play some of the nastiest mind games...and oh they play victim oh so well. Everything is always a test, or the prey is to be tested.
Posted by DaLionessOfLove
I love Scorpio men but they play some of the nastiest mind games...and oh they play victim oh so well. Everything is always a test, or the prey is to be tested.
The majority of time when a Scorp does this its when they are holding a mirror up and if it's nasty, that would be a warning to you.
When I hear people who come to this forum and say "test", it's typically a female who is being dissected and figured out. Same accusations are put on Virgo males.
So true. It usually is the female. One of my Scorpio exes had serious trust issues with every female. Seem like I was the one who had to pay for them hurting him. After two years of "test" I got out.
I was accused of cheating but the real deal is that he was hiding this other girl who he would hangout with . Possibly they were lovers I have no clue. Wasn't really my business anyways, since we had been on and off months at a time, and even though we had reconciled it never really mended strong enough. He seemed non committal. Would give me mixed messages. The usual hot n' cold.
But later I found out about her & I called him out on his bullbutter that he was stringing me along and confronted him about her.
Now it's has been totally isolation. Blocked from Facebook. He did norm...played victim and tried to twist everything on me like he had tried before but saw it wasn't working. Kept trying to argue then when ignored blocked me from sending him message on FB lol...I wasn't even responding to his messages. Guess he realize he stung himself more than ever with the mind games and tests when in reality now I see the truth.
I was accused of cheating but the real deal is that he was hiding this other girl who he would hangout with . Possibly they were lovers I have no clue. Wasn't really my business anyways, since we had been on and off months at a time, and even though we had reconciled it never really mended strong enough. He seemed non committal. Would give me mixed messages. The usual hot n' cold.
But later I found out about her & I called him out on his bullbutter that he was stringing me along and confronted him about her.
Now it's has been totally isolation. Blocked from Facebook. He did norm...played victim and tried to twist everything on me like he had tried before but saw it wasn't working. Kept trying to argue then when ignored blocked me from sending him message on FB lol...I wasn't even responding to his messages. Guess he realize he stung himself more than ever with the mind games and tests when in reality now I see the truth.
nah,
mind game? yes. just to test. Scorpio have a good purpose though.
Not all the time M143.
He accused me of several guys. I live in a complex and he has several guy friends here. He would get insecure if one of them would say hi or look at me. Instead of saying anything to me he would throw them up in my face, accuse me of wanting them, etc etc but to my avail I am very confrontational so I told every guy he accused me of . They confronted him....he wouldn't accept the truth. 1-on-1/face to face confrontations. Even his own best friend.
Delusional? maybe. But I've some of his guy friends come to tell me he hinted that they wanted to be with me behind his back. Hinting that we should hook up. Then he would bring the friend to "chill" with him while around me. Test after test after test.
I added a guy friend one day Facebook who happened to be a friend of his also...this guy was a MMA fighter which I didn't know at the time but he did. I guess his insecurity struck one day and he started hinting about I like MMA fighters and kept bringing this this friend of his who is a MMA fighter & how wonderful it would be for me to meet him one day. He only would say the first name never the last. So one day I just happen to see a post from this guy on my newfeed about his next MMA event , and that is when I put two and two together.
He's been cheating on in the past. And his mom was abusive and neglectful to him at a very young age. Him and his mom don't get along at all I hope they heal their relationship it will possible start him to try to heal internally and emotionally.
He accused me of several guys. I live in a complex and he has several guy friends here. He would get insecure if one of them would say hi or look at me. Instead of saying anything to me he would throw them up in my face, accuse me of wanting them, etc etc but to my avail I am very confrontational so I told every guy he accused me of . They confronted him....he wouldn't accept the truth. 1-on-1/face to face confrontations. Even his own best friend.
Delusional? maybe. But I've some of his guy friends come to tell me he hinted that they wanted to be with me behind his back. Hinting that we should hook up. Then he would bring the friend to "chill" with him while around me. Test after test after test.
I added a guy friend one day Facebook who happened to be a friend of his also...this guy was a MMA fighter which I didn't know at the time but he did. I guess his insecurity struck one day and he started hinting about I like MMA fighters and kept bringing this this friend of his who is a MMA fighter & how wonderful it would be for me to meet him one day. He only would say the first name never the last. So one day I just happen to see a post from this guy on my newfeed about his next MMA event , and that is when I put two and two together.
He's been cheating on in the past. And his mom was abusive and neglectful to him at a very young age. Him and his mom don't get along at all I hope they heal their relationship it will possible start him to try to heal internally and emotionally.
Posted by Chance15
their whole life is a mind game that's come back to haunt them
juuuuust kiiiding scorps!
love,
tha caps
Ewwww let's hope not. I wouldn't wish that curse even on my worse enemy lol. Scorps can be very intense.
I wonder if that same mirror reflected that same intensity back to themselves what would be the possible outcome?
Posted by ellessquePosted by DaLionessOfLoveI wonder if that same mirror reflected that same intensity back to themselves what would be the possible outcome?
hell?
Sure feels that way on the face side of the mirror.
Just don't fall inside of the rabbit whole lolclick to expand
Posted by theie
man...
yes...
what i did...
man...
its haunting me yes...
because the other person won...
and found out about my twisted secret weak spot...
i was done...
this happened not so long ago so im still not over it..
actually all this scars dont leave any damage on my character its only a bad memory that gives me a shitty feeling...
im trying to keep my brain chemistry healthy...
but this last thing that happened to me..its haunting me yes..
how do you know btw ?
yup you are definitely a Scorpio a little truth mixed with a hint of of sarcasm. love it ...lol.
Posted by M143
nah,
mind game? yes. just to test. Scorpio have a good purpose though.
theres truth n this
Posted by DMVPosted by M143
nah,
mind game? yes. just to test. Scorpio have a good purpose though.
theres truth n thisclick to expand
Yeah mainly for consistency, but I think some Scorps are just more obvious after you find them doing it for like a billion times.
Even when you call them out about it they stop for a while ...then test you again later lol.
It can get to the point where you can get tested so much that you actually can tell when they are abou t to do it or you call them out about it when they try to start then they get all cold cause you got them all figured out.
Posted by DaLionessOfLove
So true. It usually is the female. One of my Scorpio exes had serious trust issues with every female. Seem like I was the one who had to pay for them hurting him. After two years of "test" I got out.
I was accused of cheating but the real deal is that he was hiding this other girl who he would hangout with . Possibly they were lovers I have no clue. Wasn't really my business anyways, since we had been on and off months at a time, and even though we had reconciled it never really mended strong enough. He seemed non committal. Would give me mixed messages. The usual hot n' cold.
But later I found out about her & I called him out on his bullbutter that he was stringing me along and confronted him about her.
Now it's has been totally isolation. Blocked from Facebook. He did norm...played victim and tried to twist everything on me like he had tried before but saw it wasn't working. Kept trying to argue then when ignored blocked me from sending him message on FB lol...I wasn't even responding to his messages. Guess he realize he stung himself more than ever with the mind games and tests when in reality now I see the truth.
Oh I see now, this is one of those "being burned by a Scorpio and all other Scorpios are to blame" threads.
Posted by LetltBPosted by DaLionessOfLove
So true. It usually is the female. One of my Scorpio exes had serious trust issues with every female. Seem like I was the one who had to pay for them hurting him. After two years of "test" I got out.
I was accused of cheating but the real deal is that he was hiding this other girl who he would hangout with . Possibly they were lovers I have no clue. Wasn't really my business anyways, since we had been on and off months at a time, and even though we had reconciled it never really mended strong enough. He seemed non committal. Would give me mixed messages. The usual hot n' cold.
But later I found out about her & I called him out on his bullbutter that he was stringing me along and confronted him about her.
Now it's has been totally isolation. Blocked from Facebook. He did norm...played victim and tried to twist everything on me like he had tried before but saw it wasn't working. Kept trying to argue then when ignored blocked me from sending him message on FB lol...I wasn't even responding to his messages. Guess he realize he stung himself more than ever with the mind games and tests when in reality now I see the truth.
Oh I see now, this is one of those "being burned by a Scorpio and all other Scorpios are to blame" threads.click to expand
ummmm no lol actually the majority of my close friends are Scorpio and I was raised by one
I just have seen them play little mind games usually its when they are in love/in a relationship tho. most would sting themselves, isolate, or usually play harder...
Posted by IrresistableScorp
Every time I've been accused of playing a mind game I've actually been thinking: what is going on? Why do I never understand what's happening? Omg. I'm hopeless at reading people. Lol
yeah it's been said that sometimes Scorps do it unintentionally ...you are known as the most misunderstood sign of them all.
I had a guy friend once and he stated that he doesn't like arguments but he would always seem to get into one and be accused of initiating it lol.
YES!!!! I played Sudoku once and could not finish the d*mn puzzle before I lost the sheet. It still haunts me to this day......
only when i'm bored
Yes and I learned a very important lesson and I am now a sadder and wiser man.
( Rather like the wedding guest in The Rime of the Ancient Mariner )
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