secretive
This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by Justa Gem on Monday, September 4, 2006 and has 13 replies.
so what is it that drives you to be secretive? And is it realy such a bad thing? I thought it was to be considerate of people hearing the ugly truth, or maybe its something else. Enlighten me...
We like for people to tell us more about them. I believe we are secretive by nature. Plus Scorps are nuturers so ppl love talking and telling us their secrets without us even trying.
no, its not about sparing someone's feelings, as a matter of fact, all my friends know that if they ask me a direct question, they will get a direct answer. Not meanly of course, but they know its my way of being real and respecting them. I wont lie to them.
The secretiveness comes into play when we feel like someone could hurt us. We are very vulnerable and emotional at times and feel that the more someone knows about us and what we feel, think, do...they could use against us. Its happened, and I have learned from it. I am not an open book when you first meet me. Of course, it might seem that way, because I am very open and honest about some things. But really, we will always leave alittle for just us to know. Its a way of protecting ourselves and making sure that we do know more about you, just in case we need to use that info
The secretiveness comes into play when we feel like someone could hurt us. We are very vulnerable and emotional at times and feel that the more someone knows about us and what we feel, think, do...they could use against us. Its happened, and I have learned from it. I am not an open book when you first meet me. Of course, it might seem that way, because I am very open and honest about some things. But really, we will always leave alittle for just us to know. Its a way of protecting ourselves and making sure that we do know more about you, just in case we need to use that info
Yes, I will have to agree with Scorp in law about the fact that I am always very curious about other people. I like to find out as much as possible. I like to know what makes people tick and why and how they came to this place or opinion in their lives. Its true, I dont like idle chit chat or fluff, I prefer deeper one on one conversations or small groups of people.
And yes, the people that truly get direct answers are my very close friends and family.
And yes, the people that truly get direct answers are my very close friends and family.
Because I killed someone,im always out to hide something,constantly cheat,ect
Oh seriously you mean??Well,in that case im not secretive,im just quiet and my mind tends to switch off to daydreaming or thinking about things elsewhere,planning ahead,etc.Otherwise most people tend to have a need to verbably get things off thier chest so i'll just stay quiet and listen to them generally assuming thats what they want more than anything else.
Oh seriously you mean??Well,in that case im not secretive,im just quiet and my mind tends to switch off to daydreaming or thinking about things elsewhere,planning ahead,etc.Otherwise most people tend to have a need to verbably get things off thier chest so i'll just stay quiet and listen to them generally assuming thats what they want more than anything else.
Also kinda of a like if its thier issues,whats the point in me telling them whats wrong with them,etc.Kinda dumb to talk when you learn more by shutting up and observing.
I am fire sun sign with a cancer moon. I don't have scorpio in my chart at all so what drives me to be so secretive about my life. People always tell me that I am secretive and don't like divulging about my life. I guess you can say I am very private.
Planetary positions
planet sign degree motion
Sun Aries 24?38'28 in house 8 direct
Moon Cancer 17?58'01 in house 11 direct
Mercury Aries 18?59'37 in house 8 retrograde
Venus Taurus 14?52'31 in house 9 direct
Mars Leo 1?29'49 in house 11 direct
Jupiter Cancer 0?25'54 in house 10 direct
Saturn Leo 23?45'03 in house 12 retrograde
Uranus Scorpio 15?13'17 in house 3 retrograde
Neptune Sagittarius 18?09'02 in house 4 retrograde
Pluto Libra 15?03'32 in house 2 retrograde
True Node Libra 5?43'14 in house 1 retrograde
House positions (Placidus)
Ascendant Virgo 15?54'55
2nd House Libra 12?04'53
3rd House Scorpio 12?06'56
Imum Coeli Sagittarius 14?34'49
5th House Capricorn 17?11'49
6th House Aquarius 17?59'53
Descendant Pisces 15?54'55
8th House Aries 12?04'53
9th House Taurus 12?06'56
Medium Coeli Gemini 14?34'49
11th House Cancer 17?11'49
12th House Leo 17?59'53
Major aspects
Sun Square Moon 6?40
Sun Conjunction Mercury 5?39
Sun Square Mars 6?51
Sun Sextile Jupiter 5?47
Sun Trine Saturn 0?53
Sun Trine Neptune 6?29
Moon Square Mercury 1?02
Moon Sextile Venus 3?05
Moon Trine Uranus 2?45
Moon Quincunx Neptune 0?11
Moon Square Pluto 2?54
Moon Sextile Ascendant 2?03
Mercury Trine Saturn 4?45
Mercury Trine Neptune 0?51
Mercury Opposition Pluto 3?56
Venus Opposition Uranus 0?21
Venus Quincunx Pluto 0?11
Venus Trine Ascendant 1?02
Saturn Trine Neptune 5?36
Uranus Sextile Ascendant 0?42
Neptune Sextile Pluto 3?06
Neptune Square Ascendant 2?14
planet sign degree motion
Sun Aries 24?38'28 in house 8 direct
Moon Cancer 17?58'01 in house 11 direct
Mercury Aries 18?59'37 in house 8 retrograde
Venus Taurus 14?52'31 in house 9 direct
Mars Leo 1?29'49 in house 11 direct
Jupiter Cancer 0?25'54 in house 10 direct
Saturn Leo 23?45'03 in house 12 retrograde
Uranus Scorpio 15?13'17 in house 3 retrograde
Neptune Sagittarius 18?09'02 in house 4 retrograde
Pluto Libra 15?03'32 in house 2 retrograde
True Node Libra 5?43'14 in house 1 retrograde
House positions (Placidus)
Ascendant Virgo 15?54'55
2nd House Libra 12?04'53
3rd House Scorpio 12?06'56
Imum Coeli Sagittarius 14?34'49
5th House Capricorn 17?11'49
6th House Aquarius 17?59'53
Descendant Pisces 15?54'55
8th House Aries 12?04'53
9th House Taurus 12?06'56
Medium Coeli Gemini 14?34'49
11th House Cancer 17?11'49
12th House Leo 17?59'53
Major aspects
Sun Square Moon 6?40
Sun Conjunction Mercury 5?39
Sun Square Mars 6?51
Sun Sextile Jupiter 5?47
Sun Trine Saturn 0?53
Sun Trine Neptune 6?29
Moon Square Mercury 1?02
Moon Sextile Venus 3?05
Moon Trine Uranus 2?45
Moon Quincunx Neptune 0?11
Moon Square Pluto 2?54
Moon Sextile Ascendant 2?03
Mercury Trine Saturn 4?45
Mercury Trine Neptune 0?51
Mercury Opposition Pluto 3?56
Venus Opposition Uranus 0?21
Venus Quincunx Pluto 0?11
Venus Trine Ascendant 1?02
Saturn Trine Neptune 5?36
Uranus Sextile Ascendant 0?42
Neptune Sextile Pluto 3?06
Neptune Square Ascendant 2?14
Planetary positions
planet sign degree motion
Sun Aries 24?38'28 in house 8 direct
Moon Cancer 17?58'01 in house 11 direct
Mercury Aries 18?59'37 in house 8 retrograde
Venus Taurus 14?52'31 in house 9 direct
Mars Leo 1?29'49 in house 11 direct
Jupiter Cancer 0?25'54 in house 10 direct
Saturn Leo 23?45'03 in house 12 retrograde
Uranus Scorpio 15?13'17 in house 3 retrograde
Neptune Sagittarius 18?09'02 in house 4 retrograde
Pluto Libra 15?03'32 in house 2 retrograde
True Node Libra 5?43'14 in house 1 retrograde
House positions (Placidus)
Ascendant Virgo 15?54'55
2nd House Libra 12?04'53
3rd House Scorpio 12?06'56
Imum Coeli Sagittarius 14?34'49
5th House Capricorn 17?11'49
6th House Aquarius 17?59'53
Descendant Pisces 15?54'55
8th House Aries 12?04'53
9th House Taurus 12?06'56
Medium Coeli Gemini 14?34'49
11th House Cancer 17?11'49
12th House Leo 17?59'53
Major aspects
Sun Square Moon 6?40
Sun Conjunction Mercury 5?39
Sun Square Mars 6?51
Sun Sextile Jupiter 5?47
Sun Trine Saturn 0?53
Sun Trine Neptune 6?29
Moon Square Mercury 1?02
Moon Sextile Venus 3?05
Moon Trine Uranus 2?45
Moon Quincunx Neptune 0?11
Moon Square Pluto 2?54
Moon Sextile Ascendant 2?03
Mercury Trine Saturn 4?45
Mercury Trine Neptune 0?51
Mercury Opposition Pluto 3?56
Venus Opposition Uranus 0?21
Venus Quincunx Pluto 0?11
Venus Trine Ascendant 1?02
Saturn Trine Neptune 5?36
Uranus Sextile Ascendant 0?42
Neptune Sextile Pluto 3?06
Neptune Square Ascendant 2?14
planet sign degree motion
Sun Aries 24?38'28 in house 8 direct
Moon Cancer 17?58'01 in house 11 direct
Mercury Aries 18?59'37 in house 8 retrograde
Venus Taurus 14?52'31 in house 9 direct
Mars Leo 1?29'49 in house 11 direct
Jupiter Cancer 0?25'54 in house 10 direct
Saturn Leo 23?45'03 in house 12 retrograde
Uranus Scorpio 15?13'17 in house 3 retrograde
Neptune Sagittarius 18?09'02 in house 4 retrograde
Pluto Libra 15?03'32 in house 2 retrograde
True Node Libra 5?43'14 in house 1 retrograde
House positions (Placidus)
Ascendant Virgo 15?54'55
2nd House Libra 12?04'53
3rd House Scorpio 12?06'56
Imum Coeli Sagittarius 14?34'49
5th House Capricorn 17?11'49
6th House Aquarius 17?59'53
Descendant Pisces 15?54'55
8th House Aries 12?04'53
9th House Taurus 12?06'56
Medium Coeli Gemini 14?34'49
11th House Cancer 17?11'49
12th House Leo 17?59'53
Major aspects
Sun Square Moon 6?40
Sun Conjunction Mercury 5?39
Sun Square Mars 6?51
Sun Sextile Jupiter 5?47
Sun Trine Saturn 0?53
Sun Trine Neptune 6?29
Moon Square Mercury 1?02
Moon Sextile Venus 3?05
Moon Trine Uranus 2?45
Moon Quincunx Neptune 0?11
Moon Square Pluto 2?54
Moon Sextile Ascendant 2?03
Mercury Trine Saturn 4?45
Mercury Trine Neptune 0?51
Mercury Opposition Pluto 3?56
Venus Opposition Uranus 0?21
Venus Quincunx Pluto 0?11
Venus Trine Ascendant 1?02
Saturn Trine Neptune 5?36
Uranus Sextile Ascendant 0?42
Neptune Sextile Pluto 3?06
Neptune Square Ascendant 2?14
Planetary positions
planet sign degree motion
Sun Aries 24?38'28 in house 8 direct
Moon Cancer 17?58'01 in house 11 direct
Mercury Aries 18?59'37 in house 8 retrograde
Venus Taurus 14?52'31 in house 9 direct
Mars Leo 1?29'49 in house 11 direct
Jupiter Cancer 0?25'54 in house 10 direct
Saturn Leo 23?45'03 in house 12 retrograde
Uranus Scorpio 15?13'17 in house 3 retrograde
Neptune Sagittarius 18?09'02 in house 4 retrograde
Pluto Libra 15?03'32 in house 2 retrograde
True Node Libra 5?43'14 in house 1 retrograde
planet sign degree motion
Sun Aries 24?38'28 in house 8 direct
Moon Cancer 17?58'01 in house 11 direct
Mercury Aries 18?59'37 in house 8 retrograde
Venus Taurus 14?52'31 in house 9 direct
Mars Leo 1?29'49 in house 11 direct
Jupiter Cancer 0?25'54 in house 10 direct
Saturn Leo 23?45'03 in house 12 retrograde
Uranus Scorpio 15?13'17 in house 3 retrograde
Neptune Sagittarius 18?09'02 in house 4 retrograde
Pluto Libra 15?03'32 in house 2 retrograde
True Node Libra 5?43'14 in house 1 retrograde
House positions (Placidus)
Ascendant Virgo 15?54'55
2nd House Libra 12?04'53
3rd House Scorpio 12?06'56
Imum Coeli Sagittarius 14?34'49
5th House Capricorn 17?11'49
6th House Aquarius 17?59'53
Descendant Pisces 15?54'55
8th House Aries 12?04'53
9th House Taurus 12?06'56
Medium Coeli Gemini 14?34'49
11th House Cancer 17?11'49
12th House Leo 17?59'53
Major aspects
Sun Square Moon 6?40
Sun Conjunction Mercury 5?39
Sun Square Mars 6?51
Sun Sextile Jupiter 5?47
Sun Trine Saturn 0?53
Sun Trine Neptune 6?29
Moon Square Mercury 1?02
Moon Sextile Venus 3?05
Moon Trine Uranus 2?45
Moon Quincunx Neptune 0?11
Moon Square Pluto 2?54
Moon Sextile Ascendant 2?03
Mercury Trine Saturn 4?45
Mercury Trine Neptune 0?51
Mercury Opposition Pluto 3?56
Venus Opposition Uranus 0?21
Venus Quincunx Pluto 0?11
Venus Trine Ascendant 1?02
Saturn Trine Neptune 5?36
Uranus Sextile Ascendant 0?42
Neptune Sextile Pluto 3?06
Neptune Square Ascendant 2?14
Ascendant Virgo 15?54'55
2nd House Libra 12?04'53
3rd House Scorpio 12?06'56
Imum Coeli Sagittarius 14?34'49
5th House Capricorn 17?11'49
6th House Aquarius 17?59'53
Descendant Pisces 15?54'55
8th House Aries 12?04'53
9th House Taurus 12?06'56
Medium Coeli Gemini 14?34'49
11th House Cancer 17?11'49
12th House Leo 17?59'53
Major aspects
Sun Square Moon 6?40
Sun Conjunction Mercury 5?39
Sun Square Mars 6?51
Sun Sextile Jupiter 5?47
Sun Trine Saturn 0?53
Sun Trine Neptune 6?29
Moon Square Mercury 1?02
Moon Sextile Venus 3?05
Moon Trine Uranus 2?45
Moon Quincunx Neptune 0?11
Moon Square Pluto 2?54
Moon Sextile Ascendant 2?03
Mercury Trine Saturn 4?45
Mercury Trine Neptune 0?51
Mercury Opposition Pluto 3?56
Venus Opposition Uranus 0?21
Venus Quincunx Pluto 0?11
Venus Trine Ascendant 1?02
Saturn Trine Neptune 5?36
Uranus Sextile Ascendant 0?42
Neptune Sextile Pluto 3?06
Neptune Square Ascendant 2?14
not sure what any of this means though
I agree with S-in law and S-sweetie.....
I couldn't have said it any better myself!
I couldn't have said it any better myself!
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