Sex & Violence

Without divulging too much (that wouldn't be classy😉), I have noticed something about myself, and that is that if I am fantasizing about ... a guy ... and myself ... there is always some element of either restraint, force, you know, something along those lines. Nothing too terribly freakish, but you know, there is *always* something along those lines. Am I the only Scorp with such a mind?

You mean you fantasize about letting someone else take control over you in the bedroom? I think we all have those thoughts! 🙂

don't you have 5 planets in Libra?

Oooh yes..I think it must be the phoenix in me..(the need to get away) lol..Yes I have those dreams too..and theres always restraint..well it makes the conquest a little more interesting doesn't it..

I would like to be held down...

by a few different hands

*takes pills*

or strapped...yeah to the bed...in a clinical setting, of course

SB has taken the bitter sarcasm pill today..

LOL

Little Sparrow, yes, I do. Are you saying you think it might be the Libra and not the Scorpio element causing these feelings? 😛

juwanapla: yes, that's basically what I'm saying, but ... well dammit, I'm just a little too shy to say *exactly* what I meant. To sum up, I'm not talking about some cliche, throwing me down and having his way with me, I'm talking about a whole sort of danger element. No props used, though...just maybe some roughing each other up action.

(See, that was porny sounding, and I tried so hard to be dignified about it, lol)

Anyway, you're all quite funny 🙂

SB, I think you need to relax dear.

LMAO @ gtommy

Nothing wrong with a little violence in the bedroom.....mmmmmmm!

a little?...pshhh

a lil pain makes the physical feeling of sex amazing. like being in a hot jacuzzi on a drizzly night... the sensuality runs a wide spectrum. hot to cold and pain to bliss.

brahn - I completely agree. I suppose that's why I've only ever disclosed this secret on the message boards under the assumption that I can remain somewhat anonymous (lol).

I know, it is odd. But I suspect there might be many others who although they may not admit it, have fantasized about the same thing. 🙂

CreepyPants - you said it much better than I could have. Right on, so true.

Phoenix

Did you torture little animals when you were a kid?

haffo,

No, in fact I love animals, but thanks for your "concern" 🙂

goodjuju, thanks for your response - insightful and intelligent! 🙂

I like goojuju more.

Anyway, if you werent a Scorpio, I would place some good words that would drive you mad.

*** goojuju, so how do you determine "a little pain"?

It is usually outlined before hand and safety words are used to direct what is okay and what is not okay.

That is why it is spelled out and safety words are established and used. The submissive always has the control. The moment a safety word is uttered whatever is stopped. (This is also why you only do these things with those who are to be trusted.) Legal contracts are sometimes drawn up.

Exactly. Like I said to begin with...it's all just a fantasy anyway; not necessarily going to act out every detail with someone. Not into bondage at all or Dom/Sub stuff either. Just like it pretty rough I suppose 🙂